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 Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 3:24 pm
Hey guys,
I just wanted to let you all know that if you need help with anything you can come to me. biggrin
I have a guild of my own (It was the first GSA guild on gaia ;D) And I help all my members with problems.. soo If you need someone to talk to, or just a friend. You can come to me biggrin
-Roses
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 7:42 am
Churr churrrr...
I have a problem. Pretty big one, or at least, it feels big.
I want to come out to my mom, but I've had plenty of discussions with her about men and she doesn't believe someone can like both sexes and if I tell her I'm just gay, she's homophobic to lesbians even though she has gay men friends and and and... (I'm a girl, remember)...and she's seen me clinging to a boy I genuinely did like, soooo...
Yeah. Help? D:
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 11:34 am
well ill have to say is, give her time. does alot of your family have the same views about homosexuality?
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 11:46 am
I don't know about my second stepfather, damn the first (he's one of the biggest homophobes I've ever met but I hate him anyway, so it doesn't matter), my brother and sister are too young to care, my mom's side of the family, aunts, uncles, whatnot, are all very religious and see it as a sin, but they also believe in hate the sin, love the sinner, so I don't know about them, and my dad told me in a discussion about furries that he'd rather me be gay than a furry (as in the kind with fursuits and sex) xD He knows I'm a furry (as in I love drawing anthros and wish I had a tail) and he teases me about it xD
I think my dad would be okay with it, but I don't know about anyone else.
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 11:53 am
hmm... i would go to your dad then first. maybe bring up the topic again and defiantly see where he stands.
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Posted: Sat Dec 01, 2007 1:18 pm
I know he's told me that he doesn't mind gay people at all, so long as the boys don't try to hit on him. I told him they wouldn't xD He also seems to think girls liking other girls is kinda cute. ...that won't help me much. ...I hope xD But he's also kinda religious. Not super religious, but he mentions Jesus every now and then :/
But yeah, I will, next time I see him (hooray for cross-country relationships!)
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 7:03 pm
I have the same problem as Delhi. I'm a bi girl that wants to come out to her parents, but my parents are not only homophobic, they also don't believe you can like both sexes.
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Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 7:59 pm
tHeReAlMe27 I have the same problem as Delhi. I'm a bi girl that wants to come out to her parents, but my parents are not only homophobic, they also don't believe you can like both sexes. well do you have anyone in your family that you have a really good relationship with to the point were you feel comfortable talking about homosexuality but not bring up that your bi.... at lease not yet.
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