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Trish the Stalker

PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 1:26 am


So I realised fairly recently that I do not feel 100% female. I am slightly bisexual though, this I've known for a while.

The problem is that I don't feel male either. There are just days where I wish I had no boobs. The hard part is figuring out whether its a manly chest I want or just to lose that aspect of my sexuality. And its not in the "BAAA BOOBS ARE ANNOYING" sense of things either. I have been considering buying breast bindings for a while and like mens clothes for more reasons than they're comfortable and look good. I also like dressing masculine and looking fairly masculine but also feminine at the same time.

I just don't know whether I feel like I'm partially male (slightly bi-gendered) or I don't like being entirely sexual (a little androgynous). Does anyone have any tips on coming to terms with where I fit in sexually? I know only I can understand how I feel, I just need some directions in how to get there.
PostPosted: Wed Dec 05, 2007 7:07 pm


what has always conflicted me in my relationships especially is that my mood and my attractions are so ambiguous... somedays i won't be interested in guys at all and vice versa.
I've kind of just learned to accept that i go through those swings... except I can also accept the fact that i know i'm not going to break up with my boyfriend for the sole reason that i'm not physically interested in him for a couple days.
except I also believe in love regardless of gender... so my changes in attraction are mainly physical.

but that doesn't really help you in the slightest because this is a physical change as opposed to an ambiguous feeling that is about as important in life choices as pms or a lack of sleep.

I would really like to give you some good advice that'll help you see more clearly... and i could tell you to just go with your gut instinct... but that even makes me confused when i attempt to look from your POV.

What if you spent a day in a different atmosphere dressed as a male, and see how you'd fit in socially?
good luck mate

SubHumanRemains


Sagara-kun-Blue

PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 9:13 pm


Yeah, unfortunately, some of us aren't as lucky as the people who just naturally know who they like and who they are. I go through swings too, and I've been thinking that I might like to drag sometime. More as a bisexual guy, though. And sometimes, I want nothing to do with girls, and sometimes I don't like guys. We all balance out eventually, and the only thing I can tell you is just to do what you want. Do what feels right, when it does. Be careful not to be a flip flop when it comes to dating, though, people usually don't appreciate it! blaugh

Do what you like, like what you do.

~Sagara~  
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