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 Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 1:14 pm
Alright.... I need some help. And for the sake of it all, *I'm going to be using fake names for this... as I don't want people that are close to me to try and yell at this other or do other crazy things...
Alright, so I broke up about five years ago with this gal named Claire*. It was all going alright, untill about a year ago when she got pissed off because I chose some other gal to date other than her, then she messaged me saying, "This hurts to much, I can't talk to you any more." Alright, that was a bit of a kicker to my pride, because she was still a friend of about eight years at the time. What a way to go, huh?
Well, now my current ex girlfriend, Jen*, gets this IM from our past on Younger Brother's msn account. It truns out to be Claire. Claire's now been harassing Jen, I, and my roommates, for all and any of my information, though at the same time she's been saying I've gotten into a ton of fists fights with her [Claire] and that all I do is drugs, drink, and that I raped her. Now mind you, this rape came from her starting to make out with me and any giving point [home, school, bus, ext.] that then turned into me molesting her... and now it's rape. The fist fights where when she would want to rough house, and I would voice that it wasn't a good idea, but we still did after fifteen mintues of her begging to 'train', with the rule that there was no face shots.
She also says that I'm "Just obbessed with her" although she's the one that starts all the IM conversations, and had several of my accounts deleted in the past. She's also been trying to knock me down several times, saying that I am nothing more than a bumming idotic person that has gotten no where and will go no where with my life, as well as I don't have any sort of thought, and that I need to be controlled.
I'm afraid for my roommates, Jen, and for my self. And I have no idea what to do... I'm about ready to go to the police. But I'm not sure if that's the right thing right now or anything. I would really like some advice on what to do... because it's been three days straight of this... and I don't want to go though this ever again. I'm sorry, but when I was kicked out of my dad's place, I swore I wasn't going to live like that again. PLEASE, any advice would be helpful... any at all.
Liam
Aka-
Chan K.R.
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 2:30 pm
I'm sorry if I sound mean for saying this, but Claire needs to let go of the past and move on with her life.
If I'm reading this correctly, all she's doing is trying to get information on you, and saying bad things about you, because you two broke up. It's perfectly fine that you went somewhere with another girl, so long as you weren't intending on cheating on Claire. >>; Even if you had, this is a bit much.
You need to tell her that you're uncomfortable with her harassing you and your friends, and that she needs to move on. All she's doing is causing you pain, and causing herself pain, because she's making herself angry at you time and time again.
So tell her that, and if she continues to harass you, it would probably help to get a restraining order. I'm not sure how much they cost, but I'm pretty sure it'd be worth it.
But that's just my two cents. Do whatever you feel you need to. Just stay away from the steak knives, ok?
-Psyco
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 5:07 pm
I'll try, thanks Pscyo... that really means alot.
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but I can't even throw them at the wall? crying Aww... But I loverz the sharp pointy objects...
sorry... trying to make myself stay in more good moods... >>;
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 6:49 pm
Gamubinos Liame I'll try, thanks Pscyo... that really means alot. .... but I can't even throw them at the wall? crying Aww... But I loverz the sharp pointy objects... sorry... trying to make myself stay in more good moods... >>; You're welcome. And I just said steak knives. I never said anything about forks, spears, or butter knives. c:
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 7:16 pm
Psyco-Naut You're welcome. And I just said steak knives. I never said anything about forks, spears, or butter knives. c: Hehe... true there!! :hearts:
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