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 Posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 6:15 pm
So..Once again, my dad is now trying to attempt to get friendly with me. rolleyes Will he listen to me yet? No. Will he actually take his faults? No. Is it everyone else's fault?Apparently to him, yeah. rolleyes
So anyways. Yeah.Past two months. Dad loves to bug me.Ooh. Has it pissed me off.
The other month.He's complaining how much i'm like my mother blah blah blah.Big deal? To him ,yeah. Points out all our problems.Can't accept his own fault.What's new?Nothing. So back to the dreadful phone call. I got pissed.Gone into my swearing pissy mood.Told him to grow up, then hung up..He continued to call back.Left a message on how I need to show him respect, and how I need to grow up. I don't quite need to show respect that I'm not being given.It stopped ringing for one second.So, I called my mom to get her to come home.The phone starts ringing again. Mom gets on, she hangs up the phone on him.He continues to call back. Mom answers.He wants to talk to my brother. Tells him how much of a piece of s**t he is.Next day, he leaves an apology message.Thinking I would forgive him that easily.
Then..We got yesterday..Starts talking to me on msn..Wants me to hang out with him.We started getting to an argument. Says i'm acting like my mom again. Not my fault i'm so mature when arguing. Then he called. Got into the phone call fight. Told him three times that I didn't want to talk to him.He continued to talk.
Back to the msn convo for a second. Apparently we aren't the one who bought him anything for christmas.When it's the other way around...
Back to phone call.Asked why he spanked me at the age of 12. It was cause I was spoiiiiiled. Is being spoiled, saving up money, and buying your own things..
So yeah...And there were a few other things that we talked about.But no need to go over those..And don't really remember them..
{On the good side..Me and two of my friends almost killed a shopping cart.} ninja
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 4:06 am
well... He's your DAD. he will always be your biological dad and you do owe him for your life, even if he's done something, even if he won't admit his faults.
Swearing doesn't get you anywhere, doll. It only gets you looked down on. Get your point across and don't swear, it works way better.
But my dad and me used to fight a lot, he got on my nerves a lot but he will always be my dad no matter what.
And respect is a funny thing. And your dad sounds like a man who demands it, and personally, I'd give it to him.
Of course, if he keeps saying those things, it's going to hurt. But tell HIM how much it hurts, tell him HIS faults and see if he likes it. But remain calmmmm.
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 5:04 am
` l e x i i well... He's your DAD. he will always be your biological dad and you do owe him for your life, even if he's done something, even if he won't admit his faults.
Swearing doesn't get you anywhere, doll. It only gets you looked down on. Get your point across and don't swear, it works way better.
But my dad and me used to fight a lot, he got on my nerves a lot but he will always be my dad no matter what.
And respect is a funny thing. And your dad sounds like a man who demands it, and personally, I'd give it to him.
Of course, if he keeps saying those things, it's going to hurt. But tell HIM how much it hurts, tell him HIS faults and see if he likes it. But remain calmmmm.
IMO, Lexii said it all. :']
I know what it's like to want to swear when you're arguing and such, but I've always tried to refrain from it in such cases. Honestly, it does wonders.
And people are always much happier to give respect after they receive it. :'3
Maybe he should give you respect first, but he is your dad, as Lexii said, and parents actually do deserve that respect.
Plus, if he won't do it first, who else is gonna start?
That's just my two cents though. >W<; <3
( For the record, I disagree with my dad sometimes, though I love him to pieces. My mom and I get along much better because we're so alike, and my dad and I tend to clash on certain things, but I respect him and he respects me in turn, so things usually work out in the end. <333 )
Good luck with your dad and stuff, though. :/
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 2:08 pm
 I've tried..That's the whole problem.He never listens to what we have to say.
I hope this doesn't sound rude Lexii. But i'm not going to give respect to a man who called me every living name in the book when I was little, and beat my mom.Also never supported our family.He was a taker, never a giver.
Who also, let my brother get watched by drunken teenagers when he went over to his house.
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