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 Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2007 5:20 pm
How many of you think you should have waited/did it at the wrong time?
Here's how my experience went.
I was totally comfortable with touching/oral... it was only the 2nd time we had done that. I was definately in love [[and still am heart ]], but I didn't want sex that night. Not yet at least. I wanted to wait until we had done the other things more times.
He was on top casually, we hadn't planned on having intercourse... and he slowly starting penetrating me. I was literally in shock, and couldn't say stop or push him away. I'm thinking he read the signs wrong, and thought I wanted it then. I know he loves me, and this was 5 months ago anyway.
I finally stumbled out a "babe..." and right away he stopped and apologized.
I don't regret anything, I DID want it, just not right then. I love him to death and vice-versa. He's my first, only, and forever will be. I just wish I could have told him before what the bounderies were, and that I wasn't completely ready for that just yet.
I want to know other's first experiences... <3
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:48 am
My first experience was on our 1-year anniversary (it'll be 2 years in February! ^ ^), and we had been wanting to have sex for at least 6 months already. It was amazing, even though it hurt a little bit, and I don't regret it in the least. What I do regret is my mom finding out that my boyfriend and I were sexually active. (We're not nearly as active anymore, at her request.) Even though I was directly disobeying my mom by having sex, I don't regret it, because I think it brought my boyfriend and I a whole lot closer.
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 7:20 pm
That's awesome. <3
It's funny 'cause I thought for sure it would hurt, but it wasn't painful at all for me. And that's 'cause I'm tiny, and I never masturbated. I guess he took care of that? -shrug-
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Posted: Sun Nov 11, 2007 11:30 pm
This is one thing I worry about, having sex and then regretting it. I'm not sure when I want to give up my virginity, but at least I know that I do want to lose it to my boyfriend and I'm pretty certain he's the person I want to spend my life with. He just doesn't want to wait until marriage because that could be a long time from now, because of money and college, and life in general getting in the way. And we've been together seven years (it started as an online relationship, but now we see each other in real life). And he's tired of waiting... So I somewhat agreed to it the next time we see each other... But I'm still wondering if I should go through with it or not. gonk It's a very tough decision to make. But at least I know that I do want to do it, I guess I'm just kind of scared, and kind of feel wrong about it. I'm not even sure why. You shouldn't feel too terrible about it, if you still love him and plan on staying with him, then it isn't so bad, because it's something you would have eventually done with him anyways, which is how I'm looking at it in my situation.
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Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 4:08 am
I wanted sex before I got with my current partner. Well, I was ready. When we got together at first we spent lots of time making out and my body was doing all funny things I wasn't used to - I masturbate, but he was the first guy to give me an orgasm. And I wanted it really badly within a couple of days, which freaked me out. But about a week later I just thought what the hell, there's nothing stopping me except ME. So I went for it. It was a little weird and a little painful, but overall pretty good. And though we didn't finish it the first time, I think he did finish the second time. And another few times after that, I found that I could orgasm from sex. Which was awesome.
And now we're still having great sex, more than a year on. So I have no regrets. Apart from maybe being scared and timid in the first place. It's just so different from what I imagined, and so much more amazing.
Honestly, you've just got to be comfortable. It can be a little now-or-never but you shouldn't put pressure on yourself. You've just got to ask yourself what's stopping you and why. I knew I wouldn't regret it because I could see a future with the guy, and after a couple of months I knew I wouldn't have regretted losing my virginity to him if we broke up. For me, it was worth it. But now we're having less sex because I only see him at weekends, which is okay too.
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Posted: Thu Nov 15, 2007 3:25 pm
I've never had sex before...But I really want to...There is no women out there for me yet...All my friends (Geeky guys) Want to "bang" me...But I joke around then turn them away. The farthest I've gotten was oral sex...What age were you when you first started having sex?
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Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 4:42 pm
GnomieXD I've never had sex before...But I really want to...There is no women out there for me yet...All my friends (Geeky guys) Want to "bang" me...But I joke around then turn them away. The farthest I've gotten was oral sex...What age were you when you first started having sex? 16 and a half.
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Posted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 6:33 pm
I'd say I was 16 and a half when I first had sex. I started engaging in "sexual activity" a couple months before I turned 16.
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