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 Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 12:28 pm
I remember telling my friend when i was in my early teens (13 i think) that i thought i fancied girls, she then looked at me with an expression of horror so i just said i was joking.
I've never had a girlfriend, i've always had boyfriends and yes if i was faced with a gorgeous girl and a gorgeous guy i would choose the guy and i've never had a crush on a girl as much as i have them on guys..
But i've always had these feeling towards girls like that. for example, when i saw a beautiful woman on the tv i would say in my head "wow she's hot" or i would say in my mind "wow if i were gay i so would!"
i've never told any of my friends this, then when i was 14-15 i got drunk with my "bad influence" best friend and we ended up making out. and of course as it was a totally new experience we ended up falling out after that. (don't worry we made friends 3 years later =/"
i'm 17 now, and a few months ago i was at an all girl party, and two of my friends wanted to play spin the bottle, i know that one of them is actually bisexual and the other has a boyfriend, but she still likes girls even though i would never label her as a bisexual for some reason.
any way long story short, obviously i ended up being the first one to properly kiss another girl (to the joy of everybody watching sweatdrop ) and then 2 more after that, and i just know that when the suggestion for spin the bottle came up me and my two friends were thinking "great! we get to kiss girls!" i even kissed one out of the game...which is totally unlike me.
aw she even said she'd been looking forward to it the most haha.
anyway, sorry it's long i was just wondering. i fancy girls and yes when i have kissed a girl i've enjoyed it, but am i actually bisexual? i mean i can't see myself dating a girl, i have no idea what i would do in that situation.
A few of my friends think that everybody is "open minded" and only some have the guts to show it.
so yeah...what are your opinions?
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Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2007 1:09 pm
Keep in mind that sometimes bisexual people are more attracted to one sex than the other. Some bisexual people even say they find one sex attractive enough to do some sexual things with them, but not enough to date them. So when it comes to sexuality, there are a lot "in between" areas.
From what you have told us, I would say it sounds like you might have some interest in females, but more of an interest in males. So I would say you might be bisexual. However, only you know what you are feeling and what you are comfortable with. If you want to call yourself straight, feel free to. If you want to call yourself bisexual, go for it. If you are undecided and don't want to call yourself anything just yet, that's ok too.
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 12:29 am
well dear, it seems like you already answered your question. I prefer the company of my krystal, but I'm not above flirting with a cute guy if i knwo he likes me. anyway, what's the deal with labelling yourself? I'm not bi, gay, or straight, in my own opinion. to me, I'm just me. labels are unnecessary, but if you really want one, I'd say bi, just bc of the fact that bisexual ppl can feel strongly for both genders, and it doesn't matter for them.
good luck, and if you need advice or anything, just come pm me, and we'll
talk one on one.
and remember the golden rule: Do what you must to be happy
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 2:55 pm
thankyou ^^
it's just i was talking with one of my friends and she said i probably wasn't bisexual as i didn't think i could ever actually date a girl
so does it just mean i'm open minded? =D
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Posted: Sun Nov 18, 2007 4:52 pm
priestess of light thankyou ^^ it's just i was talking with one of my friends and she said i probably wasn't bisexual as i didn't think i could ever actually date a girl so does it just mean i'm open minded? =D As I said, sexuality and sexual preference is not necessarily about who you would or would not date. It's about who you find attractive. Many bisexual people are attracted to one sex more than the other. Sometimes they say they would kiss, fool around, or sleep with one sex, but they would not date that sex.
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