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 Posted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 9:30 pm
Girl <3s boy.
Boy says <3 Girl.
Girl talks to friends about doubts about boy and friends bring up a good point and girl becomes suspicious. Girl comes to conclusion boy wants attention, and does not <3 Girl.
Girl tests theory by talking to him about random stuff. Boy does not seem interested anymore.Girl also tries waiting and seeing if boy messages girl first, as if boy really wanted to talk, boy would talk. Girl waits a month. Boy does not message.
Now what does girl do?
Boy is on Girl's thoughts 80% of the time, and it's been two months, and girl, even knowing that boy is no longer enthusiastic about her anymore, and probably only said that he liked her for attention, she still misses him very much so.
To the point where she ends up spending 30 minutes to an hour on the computer just sitting there and either daydreaming while listening to music, crying, or just staring at his contact name on MSN thinking "fcking message me" over and over again.
It sometimes even gets to the point where girl is trying to do school work but somehow thoughts stray over to boy and girl gets absolutely nothing done. 2 months it has been for girl, and girl is very confused. How does girl stop thinking of him? Of course, girl can get a hobby or surround herself with friends, but girl can't do that all the time, as girl is an introvert, and needs time by herself to recharge and be by herself with only her and her thoughts.
I need a ******** therapist.
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 8:22 am
 Girl could take Boy off of her contact list, so she never sees him online. Boy might get concerned after some period of time and might talk to Girl, but it is very likely that Boy has no interest in Girl, and was very cruel to say otherwise.
Therapy is expensive, just keep talking to us.
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 8:55 am
Mys A is right. Girl should take Boy off her contact list.
Mys A is also right about therapists being expensive, and we're cheap and fun! (We're like low end slutty hookers with out AIDs.)
The Rules, honey, the Rules. I thought they were bullshit at your age too. But they WORK: Let the boys contact the girls and let THEM do the work. If they don't it means they're just not that in to you.
Hobby doesn't mean people so that shouldn't interfere too much with girl's introverted alone time need.
Oh s**t, class time. More wisdom after this commercial break!
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