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 Posted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 9:42 pm
It seems so final and so curel. Even though I understand the plan of salvation and I know exactly what comes next. The living are the ones who morn, and the dead are the ones who rejoyce.
It just doesn't seem fair the way it has to be.
My Grand-Father died today. He was so wonderful and I loved him so very very much. I wish that the ones I loved would stop dieing. I know its the way it has to be, but for me it seems that those who I get close to end up dead. Not just the old, but the young ones too. This time it just happens to be his time to go. That doesn't make it any easyer or better though.
I'm sorry to create such a depressing thread, and I didn't mean to say so much, my fingers just keep typing.
i may be away for a while, or I may not, just depends on how i'm feeling at any one particular time.
~ Gwyndara ~
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Posted: Mon Oct 29, 2007 10:14 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 9:45 am
*more hugs*
I miss my grandfather too.
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Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 11:27 am
*hugs* I can say I understand but I don't. I have lost family, but it's different for everyone. If you need a shoulder to cry on, mine are available.
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Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 12:55 pm
Look at the bright side, that's how I've handled death. He's no longer in pain from whatever ailed him, and he's probably with people that he hasn't seen in years. I was glad for my grandma when she died. She really missed her husband and siblings. Knowing the plan of salvation helps alot, then put it into perspective from their point of view. Be happy for them, and learn even more about them. It makes things alot easier.
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Posted: Tue Oct 30, 2007 8:28 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 5:08 pm
*Hugs times 20*
Try thinking of all the good times you have shared with him. and try not so much thinking of him not being there anymore so much..
if it makes you feel any better;; at least you got to get to know and meet your grandpa. my grandma died before i was born. and i'm constantly hearing how great she was. so at least you get to know full on how great he was.
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Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:05 pm
i wish i could tell you it willbe all right.
this is somthing i learnt form the movie Charly
when she died her husband her husband told the story of Jesus.
when Lazerith died he whnet to the family, he didnt tell them it would be all right or try to mack them be happy, he cryed with them and mornd the passing of his friend.
what you feel is good to feel, these feelings let us know that we are human and though people tell you to be strong and not cry, you should cry, i can tell you loved him and you will miss him, let your self miss him until you see him again.
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Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2007 9:45 pm
Thank you everyone for your love, understanding, and support.
It has meant a great deal to me.
Thank you.
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Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2007 10:57 pm
My grandfather died when I was just a little girl about 5 or 6. It was so sad for me. I understand so much.
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