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 Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 9:40 pm
Gosh I havent posted here in a while and now that I am I have a few questions. well I'm not a child for one I'm 20yrs of age, I recently am with the a guy named morgan well we were friends for like 3 weeks then decided to hook up. Anyways we have sex and everything seems like its going great perfect its just odd for some reason I can't seem to get him to really give me oral...I dunno how to ask him. we have talked about it ..we talk about everything before hand. though normally I give him oral and he fingers my v****a but never goes near it with his mouth. I feel that if I have to ask then its like hes only doing it cause I ask but doesn't like it. He never has to ask me to give him oral I do it cause I like doing it. Also freakin condoms we have sex with condoms and suddenly after going for a while my v****a tightens up though not as a sign of orgasm but it hurts him. That like happens with most of my partners and it makes them not want to have sex with me they just suddenly stop in the middle of joining with me and complain. I really don't know what to do about it, I keep thinking its the lubrication but I keep lube on hand and still am having this issue.
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Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2007 9:51 pm
Some people like to give oral, other people do not. If you two don't talk about it, then you'll never know why he is avoiding it.
If lubrication is not helping you, you can mention it to your ob-gyn. Perhaps you have an allergy or something that is causing swelling. You could also try non-latex condoms. Also, make sure you are not using an oil-based lubricant.
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Posted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 10:25 am
LorienLlewellyn Some people like to give oral, other people do not. If you two don't talk about it, then you'll never know why he is avoiding it. If lubrication is not helping you, you can mention it to your ob-gyn. Perhaps you have an allergy or something that is causing swelling. You could also try non-latex condoms. Also, make sure you are not using an oil-based lubricant. yea I'd never use an oil based lube I know better.
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