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 Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 4:59 pm
So there's this guy and he's nothing shy of amazing. But that's the problem. Everything he does makes me want to fall. And now, I'm slowly going for it because [he says] he likes me. But he has a girlfriend.
And I don't have enough trust in myself to get past the fact that, at any time, he could screw me over.
I need to talk to Zach. It sounds illogical but its a fact.
But this guy... I don't care that he's like a little bit of a perv. I mean, so am I. But he makes me melt. And I try not to and I try to hold it together but I text him a lot... And...
Well Liz is like amazing friends with this boy. Don't worry, nothing more than that, I swear. And she thinks he's falling.
he has a GIRLFRIEND.
ughhhh shoot. And he even said himself, had I started talking to him about a week earlier, he wouldn't be with her right now.
I still don't have enough faith in that to trust it though.
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 6:12 pm
Better day. I had a job interview. surprised
I would offer advice but it'd all be speculation as I've never been in a relationship. So good luck with that.
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Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 6:13 pm
Kitteh had a good day too ^^ My stoumach didn't curl up into a little ball like it normally does on school days, and I was only depressed for about 20 minutes today!~ XD
Normally it lasts like 2 hours. Sometimes more. It's like 4 hours on Thursdays. XPP
So yeah, happy day ^^~
I understand exactly what you're going through, though.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 3:48 am
Aww Druki how did that go? [: <33 But go ahead with your speculation if you want. Cause I wanna hear it.
Kitty: Yaaaaay! Haha. I guess yesterday was just a good day for everyone. I'm still happy about it.
But now I have a problem.
Jared is blatantly flirting with me. He constantly says I'm cute and stuff. And I thought that was just his personality. I texted him all day yesterday, too. And I IM'ed him and talked while he was at work. He told Liz he kinda likes me but he doesn't really know me. BUT I know he also likes some other girl, well two. At least MY guess is he does. And I don't feel anything. As soon as I start to, I freeze up and think about Zach. I can't fall for this kid a day after talking to him. I'm not, actually, but maybe I should be.
And then there's Charlie. I know this kid's a total flirt. He goes up to random girls like, "Hey lets makeout." I'm not down with that but I'm nice to him since he makes me laugh and he's really comfy to hug. Well he told Liz he might seriously love me. I froze again. Liz had to say something to him. :/
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 9:57 am
I know how that is, I was hurt baddly by a guy that I put up a huge wall so no one could get it. And it did take me awhile to get over this one guy, but as more time passes the easier it will be to let down that wall and like other guys.
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Posted: Wed Oct 17, 2007 7:41 pm
` l e x i i Aww Druki how did that go? [: <33 But go ahead with your speculation if you want. Cause I wanna hear it.
Kitty: Yaaaaay! Haha. I guess yesterday was just a good day for everyone. I'm still happy about it.
But now I have a problem.
Jared is blatantly flirting with me. He constantly says I'm cute and stuff. And I thought that was just his personality. I texted him all day yesterday, too. And I IM'ed him and talked while he was at work. He told Liz he kinda likes me but he doesn't really know me. BUT I know he also likes some other girl, well two. At least MY guess is he does. And I don't feel anything. As soon as I start to, I freeze up and think about Zach. I can't fall for this kid a day after talking to him. I'm not, actually, but maybe I should be.
And then there's Charlie. I know this kid's a total flirt. He goes up to random girls like, "Hey lets makeout." I'm not down with that but I'm nice to him since he makes me laugh and he's really comfy to hug. Well he told Liz he might seriously love me. I froze again. Liz had to say something to him. :/ LEEEEEXXIIIIII I completely and totally understand how you feel. Just wait. Don't jump into anything. I know you WANT to like people, but it's just not going to happen. Just get to where you're okay, and go from there. Let people know that while they're sweet, you just aren't ready for a relationship. If they don't understand, well. They weren't worth it to begin with. :/ You'll be okay. The only thing you can really do is wait. :3 <33
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Ginny Amidala of Hobbiton
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 9:17 am
*hugs lexii*
Guess what? Your good day was my birthday and it was good for me too.
I hope everything ends up ok with your guy problems...i would offer advice but i have no clue what i am talking about since i haven't been in a relationship.
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 4:34 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 5:28 pm
I would advise not going steady with him. Namely because he said he recently got into a relationship and the fact that he's getting over it that quickly. If he will do that for you, what's to say he won't do it for someone else?
I would advise, however, to date him you feel so inclined, but not in a steady manner. Date a lot of people, find out what characteristics you like and what you do not. Double or group date as it's a lot more fun.
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 5:39 pm
If I were you, I'd go for it if you both want it.
If I were him, I would castrate myself for being such an a**.
If I were his girlfriend, I would castrate him for being such an a**. :3
Well, no. I'd just feel terrible and like I'm not good enough for him and I fail and all of that.
My point is, while it's so easy for you to see a relationship with him, look at how his girlfriend feels about him. Is it worth hurting her to have him? She might not be all that into him, or she might understand, but there's a good chance she'd be really hurt. :/
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 7:11 pm
Honestly, I wouldn't date him.
My friends went through a very similar situation, and it turned out horrible, and he left my one friend, started dating the other the next day. And a few months down the line, dumped her for another girl.
Not worth it.
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 7:30 pm
NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!
Don't do that, I HATE it when people hook up when they're still dating other people... it's like, if you KNOW you have a problem with someone, I mean, enough of a problem to be looking for other people, then you should just break up. If you know you don't like your bf/gf Just ******** break up with them and stop dragging them along... a*****e... stare
XDDD
I just noticed that halfway through that I started talking to my cousin who is cheating on his gf... sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 9:44 pm
oh, yeah. I shall reiterate what everyone else is saying. this guy is most likely screwing with you. I had a crush on a guy just like him, and he turned out to be a serious jackass.
it probably hurts, but the hurt is gonna be even bigger if you let this keep going.
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 3:19 am
I know it doesnt make sense, but Liz knows him. When he genuinely likes a girl, he'll wait for her. He wouldn't screw anyone over. He's NOT a cheater. He isn't like that. I don't think I'd like him if I knew he was.
I think he likes me and his girlfriend about the same and they've been dating like a week. I mean, I hope he isnt gonna break up with her and ask me out right after. But I don't know her. No one I know does, actually. I don't know how much she likes him.
I mean, a few people told me that I'm prettier than her. But that's on the shallow end there. haha.
But I forgot to mention. He's a sophomore. But he had a "no more freshmen" rule because he's gotten hurt by three of them in the past year. Three strikes, you're out. And then I came along. And I guess I'm the one that can break that rule.
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Posted: Tue Oct 23, 2007 2:36 pm
I still stick with what I said. I can only see bad things coming from it.
But in the end the decision is yours.
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