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 Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:32 pm
So I'm having major love problems. Foreward. After this thread you may hate me a bit more than you used to.
I haven't been the... luckiest with love. I've dated quite a bit online, it's always a bad choice. If you don't know me very well you don't know that I am a dependent person. I'm used to having someone by my side. I'm also used to hoping to have someone by my side but having them not there when I need them.
Let's start with Dukes. As many of you know he and I dated off and on for about a year and, well, if you didn't know. We broke up in July. Honestly? I could care less about that. Just meant I could open up to other choices.
In August-September (I don't remember which) I began to date another guy named Alex. Once again. Online. Everything was going amazing until I began to have second thoughts because, like another ex, this one didn't have much time to talk to me. I decided I could deal with that and decided to wait and check if things changed. They haven't. But whatever. I was fine.
Not here comes the heavy hitter. After all this time of being afraid that no one in my school could ever think of me like that I learned that one guy in my choir had a major crush one me. And then a kid in my english class liked me. And that the art club senior president and GSA president had a crush on me. And finally, that my youth group board member and member of band liked me. Yeah, comfidence boost. Accept there are only two that I really like. One of them I don't like because he pinned me to a desk freshman year. The other I don't like because he and I are way too good friends. It'd be akward. That leaves the bandee and the english class kid. The english class kid is way to popular to date me, in my opinion. His friends and my friends conflict. That leaves the bandee. He's pretty much perfect. He's smart, nice, around my age, our families are close, he's really cute, he's close, and he likes me. He made out with me last Thursday.
Now, I know what you're thinking. What the hell way to end a story?! Well it's not over yet. I'm still dating Alex. The bandee know's it and respects it cuz he's not ready for a relationship himself. But I don't know what to do about Alex. Right now I have to break up with him. I can't live with myself if I don't. But I've never broken up with anyone. And if one of the people who likes me finds out I'm single he'll jump into my pants and it's one of the ones I don't like. The one who pinned me to a desk. What do I do?
Spoon- We have five guys.
One I'm dating long distance.
I made out with and was felt up by another. (Lets call this one... Poll)
Another one I'm telling I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend because I don't like this guy much. (Chris)
Another I'm telling we should just be friends. (Rico)
Another I'm eye flirting with. (Reid) Help?
UPDATE! I'm single. And I can't tell Chris that I'm single or he'll jump on me. I want to talk to Poll but, suprise! He's out of town for the weekend to leadership conference for our youth group. Reid and I talk more than ever now and Rico and I are friends.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 7:45 pm
Just be honest with Alex and tell him exactly how you feel. The longer you wait the more pain there will be.
And good luck with whomever you end up with. <3
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:34 pm
I've said it once, and I'll say it again.
You lucky slut.
Break up with that Alex kid (aka Lexii talk2hand ), by saying "Yeah, it's not working out, the distance is too much, and it's making me kind of psycho. This is for my own health, and yours, because I just want to hunt you down like a dog, and know everything you're doing".
After Lexii reads that last part, I'm pretty sure she'll be all "yeaaah... break time K? Good". If you don't WANT to sound like a psycho, you can just strike out the last part, and it'll be good.
OR, you can just tell her that you've met somebody else, and that it wouldn't be fair to her (lexii) to string her a long, knowing that you're boning someone on the side.
You don't have to be a crude as me, I just don't want to be too serious about this, cuz I'd kill to be in your shoes xd ... WELL, not kill... sleep with a ton of people, yes, but not kill.
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Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 8:48 pm
Meiko_Michan Just be honest with Alex and tell him exactly how you feel. The longer you wait the more pain there will be. And good luck with whomever you end up with. <3 QFE... And, about that guy that pinned you to a desk... that's why there's a nice little thing called MACE... or failing that (no weapons in school...), a knee to the groin will... take away his "mood", so to speak... o.o But other than that... you sound like you're trying to do the right thing, so things will work out for ya! ^_^
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 3:26 am
you are such a pansy.
Just do it. For real, it's not that hard. You aren't hurting anyone because I'm sure Alex feels the same way.
hm. And maybe that's why you called me 4 times last night.
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 4:03 pm
Meiko_Michan Just be honest with Alex and tell him exactly how you feel. The longer you wait the more pain there will be. And good luck with whomever you end up with. <3
Thanks! But I've never broken up with anyone. What do I say? Do I tell him the truth? :GONK:
Buzzyboo- xd
Yup, damn Lexii and her distance. Actually if I use the... Yeah, it's not working out, the distance is too much, and it's making me kind of psycho part then that might be okay. xDDD You make me lawlz Buzzy. I dunno what to say. "I've met someone else...' it sounds like I'm an a** and, even though I am, y'know?
Sibeiko- I know! I wanted to kick him there SO BAD but I'm pretty sure there's nothing down there to kick. Thanks for the support!
Lexii- So... you KNOW I called you four times last night and STILL didn't answer? ;0;
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 4:13 pm
s a x e Meiko_Michan Just be honest with Alex and tell him exactly how you feel. The longer you wait the more pain there will be. And good luck with whomever you end up with. <3
Thanks! But I've never broken up with anyone. What do I say? Do I tell him the truth? :GONK:
Buzzyboo- xd
Yup, damn Lexii and her distance. Actually if I use the... Yeah, it's not working out, the distance is too much, and it's making me kind of psycho part then that might be okay. xDDD You make me lawlz Buzzy. I dunno what to say. "I've met someone else...' it sounds like I'm an a** and, even though I am, y'know?
Sibeiko- I know! I wanted to kick him there SO BAD but I'm pretty sure there's nothing down there to kick. Thanks for the support!
Lexii- So... you KNOW I called you four times last night and STILL didn't answer? ;0;
Just tell him the truth, that's the best thing to do. When I broke up with someone, I said I needed to be single for awhile to think about things.
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Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 4:38 pm
yeah I knew.
Didnt feel like talking. :/
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Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 6:06 am
Ewwww, internet relationships. <3
I don't think you need to tell him about the people IRL. Just say it's too hard on you and you don't think you can put in the time and effort to make it work. You still care about him, wish him well, etc.
Guy you madeout with BETTER be hotter than Alex <3
PLAYER. talk2hand
Just DO it. Try and do it as in-person as you can.
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Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 8:58 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 11:20 pm
I have the PERFECT solution for the whole Chris thing. Tell him... nothing. OH WOW! That was easy. Or is it that he asks you your relationship status every time you see him? Because if he does, you need to stop hanging out with him, he's just horny talk2hand .
AND you should have sex with Rico, and then you can be all "Rico... Suave" [/90's reference].
Yeah, no, but seriously, you're making your love life a little too important. This whole thread kinda seems like some attempt at making somebody jealous. I'm being honest, because you know I care. <3
And wait, "Alex" wasn't hot? I can't believe you would date somebody who's sub par Damien, I just can't.
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 10:46 am
 Okay, I'm really confused. Are you gay or just a girl?
~<3
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 8:19 pm
korikun the cat Okay, I'm really confused. Are you gay or just a girl?
~<3
O.o
I'm a guy...
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 9:40 pm
s a x e korikun the cat Okay, I'm really confused. Are you gay or just a girl?
~<3
O.o
I'm a guy...
~<3
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