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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 11:21 am

I'm lonely...

I recently moved to University in Glasgow...i share a flat with 9 people...at first, we all got on really well...we still do, but people seem to be separating into their comfortable groups...

I have no one...i feel so out of place here and find myself just sitting there while everyone else has fun and cracks inside jokes...

Even back home i found myself kind of separated from my closest friends at times...they'd do things together seemed to unintentionally forget me. I'd occasionally find myself waling 2 steps behind everyone else...

It's like i don't properly fit in...anywhere...

I just feel so alone...and depressed...I want to go home User Image - Blocked by "Display Image" Settings. Click to show.

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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 12:55 pm

I hear you calling and it's needles and pins
I want to hurt you just to hear you screaming my name

That seems to be a natural part of growing up. Right out of high school, a lot of my friends either moved away or got full time jobs. I don't do much now and I feel downright pathetic sometimes.

If it helps at all, I know what you're going through. *hugs*

Don't want to touch you but you're under my skin
I want to taste you but your lips are venomous poison

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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 3:46 pm

Hmm...
I sort of know what is like to be the odd one...
You don't exactly fit into any particular group, yea...
For, I'm, for the most part, content with people by myself,
I feel more independent, I don't have to rely on anyone...
I'm fine with going places by myself

I think, not fitting in, is fine...

Perhaps just try talking, becoming closer friends with just one person for now
Sooner or later, you'll feel more accept by people, by just becoming close to one person. ^^;;

Don't get depressed over it. ^^;
and don't go home!
It's college, it's your trial period before you go out in the "real word"
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I hope you feel better soon~
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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 3:52 pm

-hugs-
You know you'll always have the penguins for a little internet chat.

But, even so, I'd say wait it out a bit.
Approach other people.
Like Zephyr said, as long as you make one good friend, more will be on the way.
Just be friendly and open, and you'll have friends in no time 3nodding

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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 6:19 pm

I have a similar problem to you, and I know what you mean.
I have friends and all, but...
Sometimes, I get a little paranoid.
I start to worry that no one likes me, and that everyone goes off and has fun without me.
And then I think everyone is turning against me.
And then I start to wonder if I'm too clingy, so I distance myself.. D:

I'm actually in that kinda situation right now IRL, and I'm really frustrated about it.

As for you, I suggest you try to look for other people to befriend.
If you just moved there, then there should be many people you don't know yet. n_n
My mum always said that you find your true friends in University!

Posted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 6:47 am

I kinda know what you mean. 3nodding
I only have two friends, and their really great, but sometimes, they just talk and talk and talk, and sorta forget me while I sit there quietly eating lunch. And then sometimes they have a conversation like this: OMG, I can't believe she likes him. I know! I mean, he is kinda cute, but they don't really go together, you know?
And so on. All the while, leaving out the peoples names, so I become clueless.

But, anyways,
just get a friend or two. I usually drag them out of the big, insecure groups xd

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