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 Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 11:09 am
ok im confuzzled(my word if you ever use it i while devour you) so i need opinions am i gay or bi?
i find girls bodies to be extremely sexy and girls can be fun(not in that way pervs)im attracted to them physically and personality wise but i am rarely romantically attracted to a girl and i cant imagine myself with a girl(and i mean it in both ways)and i find the down area nasty so im not really sexually attracted to girls
now i have been romantically,physically, and sexually, attracted to guys and i find every thing about a guy sexy but i still stray to being attracted to a girl in the ways that were stated in the above paragraph but when i have said to myself that im bi i always get overly attracted to guys and i have been in relationships with girls but i have never been able to be romantically attracted it has always just felt like they were friends and nothing more and in the 2 relationships i have been in with guys i have been extremely and utterly attracted to the person in every way,shape,and form
so im just really confuzzled so please put opinions (sorry for the lack of periods and commas my friend spilt milk on my keyboard and the periods and commas dont work)
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Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 12:08 pm
I'm a little bit the same... but I have attractions to some girls... and some guys...
But I'd consider you most-likel bi, just haven't found the right girl.
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Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 4:00 pm
You're probably bi, leaning more toward guys. I'm bi with a female preference, personally.
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Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 9:24 am
I don't think you need to decide indefinitely what sexuality you are. After all, you are who you are, straight or bi or gay or whatever. You are you.
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Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 12:51 pm
You don't have to put a title on your sexuality. I don't use Bi, becasue I am attracted to both guys and girls, but it is still awkard. What maters is that you are okay with yourself. But if you need the title you would be Bi but leans to men.
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Posted: Fri Oct 12, 2007 6:36 pm
What they said ^
that, and really, who gives a ******** anyways?
Love, ********, kiss, and be with whoever you want...
...and in the end, just be happy n.n
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 3:31 am
same here... confused
im attracted to girls more...
but to the boys to... just i have a bigger selection for the boys..(and all the really cute boys are gay cry lol)
i think it is still mean that u and me are bi.... 3nodding
you don't need to be attracted 50%/50% to each one.... to be BI...
and if you love more boyss so be with the boys...
and have fun mrgreen
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Posted: Sat Dec 15, 2007 3:38 pm
i've had the same problem, only between bi and lesbian. so, since i've not dated a guy yet, i can't decide. i would call you bi, that's what i decided on for myself. but hey, if you turn out to be gay, the gay guys are hottest. cool anyways, if you choose to be bi, das cool too. just be proud of who you are, my friend.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Mon Dec 31, 2007 1:01 pm
Look at this website and maybe it will help you put things into perspective a little.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html
I had the same dilema as you. I thought guys werre physically interesting...but sexually and romanticatlly I would never be able to do it. Now with a girl...thats a different story. I LOVE GIRLS! I was always under the influence that i was striaght, until i was told about gays in grade 7. I somehow always knew...but still, I seemed to like guys. I had crushes on them. THat was before I fell in love with a girl. Then i started thinking I was bi...but for the life of me i couldnt figure out if i liked guys or not anymore. THen i found this site. I finally decided i was a lesbian because i was so attracted to girls. So mabe this will help you in the same way.
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 12:58 am
I like how a friend of mine put it.
"If I'm with a girl, I'm straight. If I'm with a guy, I'm gay. If I'm not in a relationship, then it doesn't really matter."
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:20 am
I agree with these guys. Don't label yourself with stereotypes. Heterosexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, transexuals, metrosexuals, nymphosexuals, whatever. Don't lump yourself in just so you have something to call yourself. Be what you are, don't try to fall into the mold.
If all else fails, you can always get yourself a pretty hermaphrodite. (That'd solve the liking boobs, hating vajajays part)
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:23 am
not to sound retarded, but what's pans, trans, metro and nymphosexual?
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:52 am
the_forgotten_thought not to sound retarded, but what's pans, trans, metro and nymphosexual? Pansexual = Being attracted to anybody regardless. Transexual = Someone who identifies with the opposite sex more than their own. Metrosexual = Someone (generally male) who takes great care of their appearances but is not necessarily gay. Nymphosexual = Likes sex. Period.
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Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 9:46 pm
i know people say don't label yourself, but you always label yourself, no matter what. you label everything, but it's how you see yourself that matters. are you gay? are you bi? i think that's really up to you, but for there to be a true relationship, there's got to be an attraction in all 3 parts: emotional, mental, and physical.
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the_forgotten_thought Captain
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 10:08 pm
Canard Fairy Matsuko the_forgotten_thought not to sound retarded, but what's pans, trans, metro and nymphosexual? Pansexual = Being attracted to anybody regardless. Transexual = Someone who identifies with the opposite sex more than their own. Metrosexual = Someone (generally male) who takes great care of their appearances but is not necessarily gay. Nymphosexual = Likes sex. Period. thanks. i've heard those words before and i had no idea what they meant!
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