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PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 7:51 pm


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do you think these things exist?
do you think that two people can fall in love at first sight..

i think it happens for most people. perhaps it's not love at first,
but there definitely is a strong attraction that turns into love



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 8:13 pm


Depending on one's definition of love, it's certainly possible. By my own definition, however, I don't think it is. "First sight" can only give basic information, and most of that is simply physical attraction. By my definition, that only qualifies as "passion", not actual love.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 11:43 am


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Exactly what I was thinking, Z.

If it's love at first sight, clearly it's a physical attraction, as it involves sight. I don't believe in it, because it seems like a pretty shallow way to say you're in love. What happens after you get to know the person's personality? If you don't like it, are you still in love with the person? Of course not.

Some people just LOOK like they're a nice person, someone whom you can fall in love with at first sight. So does this mean ugly people, people who dress like sluts, and poor people who can't afford clothes can't be in love at first sight?

Admittedly, it depends on one's personal tastes whether they fall in love 'at first sight' or not. But in the end, it's all just an intense physical attraction.

True love, however, is certainly real. It doesn't ever happen right away, but as I'm personally experiencing it, it's undeniable to me. <3

It's based more on a person than just how they look, although physical attraction can still become a part of it.


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PostPosted: Sat Sep 29, 2007 2:02 pm


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 12:31 pm


I have to say, I don't believe in it. Maybe love at first meeting (although that's not as catchy...), but definitely not love at first sight. It only means lust, or shallowness. Maybe some girls believe in it... but I'd rather get to know a guy before I declare myself to be in love with him.

Of course I secretly wish I wasn't so cynically about the whole topic and could whole-heartedly throw myself into believing such a romantic cliche.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 12:49 pm


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 1:47 pm


    i think it depends on the person.
    for more trusting, outgoing people, "love at first sight" could very well be true.
    but for the other shy, not-so-quick-to-trust people, they might have to know the person a little bit before they fall for them.

    i do, though, believe in true love. i think it's just a natural balance of the world, and everyone can experience it if they believe.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 9:06 am


I believe I have found my true love but I don't believe in love at first site. It took us 6 months where we got really close and truly got to know each other, and gradually fell in love over that time 3nodding
now it's been over 3 years since we firt met and we love each more and more . 3nodding

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PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 9:14 pm


LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT HUH?
KK FIRST OF ALL IT ONLY WORKS FOR SOME PEOPLE AND NOT FOR OTHERS BECAUSE USUALLY POEPLE MEET EACH OTHER BEFORE THEY FALL IN LOVE. AND ALSO LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT HAS MANY DIFFERENT TRAITS LIKE FOR EXAMPLE YOU MAY SEE A HOT LOOKING GIRL/BOY AND THEY MIGHT NOT KNOW YOU SO THEN YOU START TRYING TO GET THEIR ATTENTION SO THEY WOULD NOTICE YOU MORE. OR U MIGHT TRY TO GET TO KNOW THEM BETTER SO WHEN YOU FIRST TALK YOU CAN START DATING RIGHT AWAY BUT THEN IT'S A TRICKY GAME BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW IF THEY REALLY LOVE U OR NOT. SO I SAY THIS "GO WITH DA FLOW!!" LOL

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 7:41 pm


Sure! But, just not for me...~ sad

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 11:14 pm


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LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT HUH?
KK FIRST OF ALL IT ONLY WORKS FOR SOME PEOPLE AND NOT FOR OTHERS BECAUSE USUALLY POEPLE MEET EACH OTHER BEFORE THEY FALL IN LOVE. AND ALSO LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT HAS MANY DIFFERENT TRAITS LIKE FOR EXAMPLE YOU MAY SEE A HOT LOOKING GIRL/BOY AND THEY MIGHT NOT KNOW YOU SO THEN YOU START TRYING TO GET THEIR ATTENTION SO THEY WOULD NOTICE YOU MORE. OR U MIGHT TRY TO GET TO KNOW THEM BETTER SO WHEN YOU FIRST TALK YOU CAN START DATING RIGHT AWAY BUT THEN IT'S A TRICKY GAME BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW IF THEY REALLY LOVE U OR NOT. SO I SAY THIS "GO WITH DA FLOW!!" LOL

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 10:40 pm


"Love at first sight!" Is just another silly term people say. lol well at least I think so. I mean what about "I'm head over heels."? Does this mean that people love falling over all the time. xD razz


Sometimes love can be spotted when two eyes lock, but for most case senerios then I'd have to say that is's sometihng much more stronger that brings people together.


I mean, if love is a sight then I guess us guys "love" looking at the female anatomy. xD lol xP

To me what bonds people together isn't love at all. It is something else. I'm not sure what that is. lol heck I'm no guru. xD

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 1:39 pm


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I mean, if love is a sight then I guess us guys "love" looking at the female anatomy. xD lol xP


That's being stereotypical. Because I know I certainly don't.



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