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Well, I'm going to post the way I feel about love! I feel like love isn't real. Love is the feeling you get when you're with someone who you just like being with. Be it your boy/girlfriend or just friends, bit in most cases a boy or girlfriend, and that's what I'm going to base this around. Love isn't as much of an emotion or feeling than it is a dependancy. When you get used to someone treating you well, or even just giving you the slightest bit of attention, you start to think you love them. That's why a girl can say she's in love with a total jackass, because of the simple fact that he's giving her more attention than anyone and she likes it, be it positive or negative attention. When a break up happens, you feel all sorts of emotions. Whether it's happiness, angriness, sadness, etc. Usually the feeling falls between angriness or sadness. That's because you know nothing is left to fill that dependancy you developed. In reality, your life hasn't changed much from the day you started going out with someone to the day you broke up, but since you have developed a dependancy, you feel strong emotions. That's why I think in so many cases people start to cut or think about suicide when they're broken up with, because they don't have anything to fuel their dependancy. If you can look past the way you feel when you're broken up with, there's really no reason for such strong emotions. Well, not much more to say. The reason I don't date anymore is because I've felt those strong emotions, and there are far more healthier things for me to be lnvolved in. Anyways, do you agree or disagree?

Ok then, say you and your boyfriend break up for some reason. Would you be broken down to pieces or would you pick your life back up from where you left off before you started dating?

Depends on the reason.
I would be pretty broken inside, yes. But I wouldn't make it known to the world. I'd keep going on with my life, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't hurt horribly when I thought about him, or saw him.

Hon, I have more sense than just about anyone.
And they bother because of horomones, or that they really do care.
I bother because of both, but mostly that I really do care.
And at least I'm honest about it.

Yeah, I'm well into puberty Soviet Mudkipz. Puberty is probably one of the reasons I've gone so deeply into thought about this. What does puberty and adulthood even have to do with this though?

Haha, just letting you know, Sov's a mod, too.
No, you weren't being dishonest.
I was just saying that I'm one of the few that I know for being honest about caring, and having the horomone (or lust) problem.
I'm a fifteen-year-old girl (soon to be sixteen), of course I have that problem.

I think loves definition differs between people and times.
Some may think its wonderful and some think its worthless.
There is no correct answer.
Love is everchanging.