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MoonTree

Ursine Friend

PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 3:12 pm


I need someone to talk some sense into me before I create a big stormcloud of drama.

I have a boyfriend. He's nice. Clingy, and he worries too much about me, but he has my love. It makes me happy to be around him, and he and I get each other on more than a superficial level, which is something of a miracle in this town.

Small problem: I also have something of a ********. He's... well, he's freakin' awesome, to be honest. While I've known the guy for years, we started fooling around fairly recently, and it's really no big deal-- I go over to his place, there are 'gasms in mixed company, then we play WoW or watch Outlaw Star or something. No tough emotions, and we revert back to just friends when one or both of us gets involved with someone else.

Problem: We managed to slip up a few nights ago.

Bigger problem: OMG WTF HALP.

Strange problem: I don't feel guilty about this at all. Wtf? I know I should, but... it's just not there.

Add this to the fact that my best friend slept with my buddy's best friend a while back, and they have managed to create the drama to end all dramas (and dragged us all into it, natch), and add THAT to the rest of the drama floating around (drug stories! Near death experiences! Hookups! Breakups! Insane roommates! Ex-lovers! Secrets galore! Somebody call the WAAAAHHHHHMMBULANCE!) and you have something that could stand toe-to-toe with Passions, insanity-level wise.

Rrrrrrrg.

Halp?
Mike is a timid insecure girl.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 4:31 pm


Ouch, sounds painful.
Umm, not sure exactly what to say.
Like seriously.
Sorry I can't be of help,
except to offer sympathy...

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WinterBean

PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 4:49 pm


Hmm...

Well....

I guess if you want to keep your boyfriend, you should talk to your buddy and tell him that what happened between you is nothing and you just want to stay friends.

But... that fact you don't feel guilty might mean that you life your buddy better than your boyfriend.
In which case you should think about your feelings, really, really, really hard,
and then decide on who you want to stay with.

That's about as much advice as I can give you.
Hope it helped.
PostPosted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 5:39 pm




Some people don't have any problems with sleeping with more than one person at once. Since you don't feel guilty, it's possible you don't really consider that cheating since you've done it so many times before. It sounds like you know it is on a basic level, but you don't feel like it. You might also consider being with this other guy - the '********'. It sounds like you get on with him quite well.



Sailor_Chibi


Sonic Butterfly

PostPosted: Mon Sep 17, 2007 7:55 pm


I hear you calling and it's needles and pins
I want to hurt you just to hear you screaming my name


I consider a lot of that boyfriend/girlfriend stuff to be crap anyways. Don't feel guilty until you guys decide to get married or something. :/


Don't want to touch you but you're under my skin
I want to taste you but your lips are venomous poison


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 5:26 am


man, is that right? o.o

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