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 Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 7:48 pm
alright well ive got a question to ask just to hear some answers if you dont mind helpin me out?
ok well ive just recently been experencing how sexual guys are
and i dont really want to be sayin bad things here but lets just say my bf got a little tense and he started petting shal i say my middle (really trying to be cautous with my words here) area and i kno what he wanted me to do
OOOK (that was gross, anyway)
so what i was wondering is that is this TOO far for us?
hes 17 and im only 15 and we've gone out for 5 months now
i know i have a sensitive consious and thinkin that if we go further, itll haunt me even worse (^this one is giving me chills ><)
and more than that what would happen if we brake up?
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ugh! i cant think of it because it would be like hell tryin to go to school
but of course we arnt doing anything REAL bad right?
i mean we dont touch skin or anything
but i do have a HUGE conscious...
please help me! T.T
is it really wrong? or is it just my silly consious buggin me to much?
(ive already told him that we shouldnt go any further but OF COURSE we cant guarantee anything sweatdrop )
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 8:39 pm
again me answerin my own stuff
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2005 9:09 pm
yes that is going way too far, once you start things of that nature, it is verrry veeery hard to stop, its almost like trying to stop a train, it cant be done that easily, so i would advise to stop that immediately, things of that nature should be saved for marriage, yes i dare say till marriage, and if your bf gets upset that you dont want to do anything like that anymore, then you should probably rethink of how your relationship is turning out
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 10:53 am
check my post in the outreach guild smile
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 3:16 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 3:47 pm
you also insulted and hurt me because of what i said.
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2005 7:16 pm
ScarredImage you also insulted and hurt me because of what i said. i was kidding you took it to personaly i told you that your story helped a lot (it DID) i never mean to hurt people ugh.. but if you still think i did it on purose then sorry i really didnt mean to upset you (i accually tried to HELP you)
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 1:45 pm
I think that's definately going way to far. Here is some Scripture: Quote: Ephesians 5:3But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. I think this verse establishes a very clear boundry when it comes to sexual immorality. Our goal should be not even a hint. Quote: 1 Timothy 5:1-21 Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father. Treat younger men as brothers, 2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity. I think that last part of the verse is relevant. As a young man, he should be making a point to treat you with absolute purity. My advice to you would be to break up with him. It doesn't sound like he's matured enough to get his convitions in order. In the long run, that boy will not be worth the amount of grief he will cause you. Quote: 2 Timothy 2:22Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
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Posted: Wed Aug 10, 2005 8:32 pm
thanks for the scripture it helps me more UPDATE!!!!!!!!!!!
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okay well 2 days ago i decided to tell hi what i thought about his actions
well he seemed okay until he dug his head into my shoulder
i asked whats up
he told me not to look at him (his face)
after a few silent seconds i pulled up his head and he was crying
awww
right after that he said, in the sorryestful tone, "Im so sorry!"
awww
he was so upset about doing that
i think he started thinking that he was bad or something like that
i told him that i forgave him and that hes extermly caring for me and that hes never done anything that i should get mad at him for
(he REALLY hasnt, hes very kind and sensible towards me, and hes a GREAT friend to have, he tells the truth and loves to help out others)
after that i pulled his head up again and he started crying again, gave my another huge hug and said i love you
aww!!!ya so thanks for all you guys help i needed it heres a pic i drew in my diary yesterday http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v259/mindy_manga/cryinjustinbysea.jpgi have another question though do you guys think he'll do it again? or will he really try not to and wont?
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 7:11 pm
I am not sure. if he respects you then he wont unless he is hard and cant help himself(sorry for my ligo)
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Posted: Fri Aug 12, 2005 7:25 pm
I have to agree with Ezeikial
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 3:03 pm
Like gayruto said, is he respects you then no he wont do it again, remember trust is also an imprtant part of a relationship, and you need to think if he really means what he says and if you trust he meant what he said when he appolgised to you.
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Posted: Mon Aug 15, 2005 3:51 pm
i have to agree with Ezeikial as well
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Posted: Fri Aug 19, 2005 10:04 pm
well guys will be guys
^__^
we dont get THAT close anymore but we do play around
like poking each other and tickling (you know normal fun stuff)
and occasionally slap each others dare-e-airs (BAD english) for play (nothing more phycical than that)
he still feels bad about it and i do to (it was 40% my fault as his), but we both agree that its the past and dosent need to be discussed anymore
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