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 Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 10:22 am
My parents are getting divorced. Nothing really happend, they just simply don't get along anymore and my mom asked for a divorce. My dad has allready set it up so he will be living at a rented house with my 22 year old cousin and he is offishly moving out January first. We will be living with him half the time.
But there are some upsides, for example i will get my own room at my moms house and my dad is a golf teacher and the house he is renting is right next to the golf course, so ill be able to play and practice alot of golf and i will be living my 22 year old cousin who is kinda like a older brother. But it still sucks.
I was just looking for ppl to talk to about this, so post here or im me (my aim is: Hazelrah13) or pm me.
thanks: Trent
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 1:46 pm
TDDL My parents are getting divorced. Nothing really happend, they just simply don't get along anymore and my mom asked for a divorce. My dad has allready set it up so he will be living at a rented house with my 22 year old cousin and he is offishly moving out January first. We will be living with him half the time. But there are some upsides, for example i will get my own room at my moms house and my dad is a golf teacher and the house he is renting is right next to the golf course, so ill be able to play and practice alot of golf and i will be living my 22 year old cousin who is kinda like a older brother. But it still sucks. I was just looking for ppl to talk to about this, so post here or im me (my aim is: Hazelrah13) or pm me. thanks: Trent hey i feel ya man, ive been there and i know how hard it is, and how awkwards it can be, my aim is Aidanverse, just IM me whenever alright
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 1:47 pm
Woo! Divorce!
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Divorce. Well, I hardly know you so far be it from me to try and solve all your problems in one forum post. But I can see that you are trying to reach for reasons, some reason, anything at all to make this divorce not such a bad thing.
But you need to remember three things:
1. Divorce is a BAD thing. Don't burry the pain. It'll always (always always) come back later. And usually it comes out worse then when it went in.
2. There are no people who are exclusivley to blame. Not mom, not dad, not anyone. Both mom and dad have some part in this, good and bad. So try not to blame one or the other alone. Remember they are both your parents despite everything.
3. Kids are the vicitms. Even if the kids are all grown up, we are the vicitms more then anyone else. We see and feel all the negative emotion. But remember that its not our fault! It's not your fault. And you don't have to fix everything. And you don't have to like this situation. And you DON'T have to keep your mouth shut. Mommy and daddy are adults, they can handle it if you speak out.
I wish I wasn't headed out for work just now but I am so I have to cut it off here. I'm just letting you know you're not alone. I'll be keeping an eye on this post. I lived through a divorce when I was really young. Maybe I'll tell about it someday biggrin
It's been ten years since my parents split, so if you've got questions or anything else to say please! Say it! I'm here. Others are too I'm sure.
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Prayer helps too. Ask God your questions as well as us. And hold on tight...
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 1:50 pm
PM me if you feel the need. I'm not on any IM prog enough for it to be useful to leave my info.
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 2:13 pm
wow, man thats BAD
my cousins parents got divorced some years ago, although he hides the pain i can see what he is really feeling, I am not someone who has been through this but i know that it is wrong, it was stated in the bible, and in wedding vows that the couple should be together as long as they live and that divorce is wrong.
if you feel you need to Im me, my MSN is djgresh88@hotmail.com and i have an AIM(DjWill Gresh) although i do not use it much.
I will always be willing to talk to anyone about problems, even though i may not say much, i do know that a listener can always help(or at least it helps me!)
so yah, feel free to Im or Pm me anytime!
~~Will~~
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2004 9:05 pm
Thanks everyone. If i feel like i need to talk to somone i will im or pm you guys.
Thanks: trent
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Posted: Sat Dec 04, 2004 2:52 pm
Aw... I'm really sorry to hear about that. I really hope that it works out. Though it hasn't happened to me [yet], I have had friends go through their parents' divorce, and I know it's hard. If you ever feel the need to talk about it, feel free to IM me. My MSN is: witheredteardrops@yahoo.com
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2004 3:18 am
That's a bummer.  My parents got divorced when I was 16 and it threw me for a loop. But slowly things got back to.. normal? Well maybe not normal.. but they smoothed out. At first everything was chaos.. and I am convinced now that it was because I had no one to go to with it. And while I can offer my pm, and my e-mail (k8ty777@aol.com) it is all so small compared to the love and compassion that Jesus Christ has to offer if you only ask. Your parents still love you, even if they have decided to divorce. Go to Jesus with anything you are scared about, give those fears to Him. He is able to hold them, and calm your heart. A quote that I tell myself all the time.. that I can't really remember where it's from.. but it rocks.. "Sometimes he calms the storm.. and sometimes he calms the child." It's a tidbit from a full poem that I can't remember. If you want you can also pray for your parents, to help them through this trying time also. There is going to be pain ahead.. we all know that with life, but the big comfort is that we do not have to be alone. Jesus Christ is right there with you every step of the way. You and your family are in my prayers and my heart. God Bless. heart
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Posted: Wed May 04, 2005 6:37 am
Sometimes I get really scared when my parents ague and that they will get a divorce. They almost did once.
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Posted: Sat May 28, 2005 4:52 pm
hey, I'm becca. From someone who's been there- God will help ya through, though I know that doesn't make it any easier. If ya ever need to talk, just email me gldnsumr@bellsouth.net, or pm me, I'll be glad to talk. God bless!
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 4:25 pm
I am sorry to hear that your parents are getting divorced. I am glad that you are able to handle it. Some kids will go into depression and things can get bad. It must be hard. I am sure you will make the best of things even if it seems hard. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jul 26, 2005 4:36 pm
I am sorry to hear that about your parents! I will pray for you.
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Posted: Fri Jul 29, 2005 8:36 am
TDDL My parents are getting divorced. Nothing really happend, they just simply don't get along anymore and my mom asked for a divorce. My dad has allready set it up so he will be living at a rented house with my 22 year old cousin and he is offishly moving out January first. We will be living with him half the time. But there are some upsides, for example i will get my own room at my moms house and my dad is a golf teacher and the house he is renting is right next to the golf course, so ill be able to play and practice alot of golf and i will be living my 22 year old cousin who is kinda like a older brother. But it still sucks. I was just looking for ppl to talk to about this, so post here or im me (my aim is: Hazelrah13) or pm me. thanks: Trent it was kinda the same w/ me i never knew about my parents spliting up until my dad moved they both got remarried but i accually like it now becuz no more fights no drunken dad and i have 2 computers ^_^
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