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 Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:39 pm
I've had a lot of time to think recently, and I've seen a lot of twisted ideas of love lately. I've just been wondering, what is all of your ideas of love? I mean like, true love, if you believe in it of course, because I know some people don't.. sweatdrop
My own personal beliefs are that true love is unconditional. Of course, it's just because of my personality that I think that way. I suppose it's also the way I think and because of my morals. It makes me sad when people think that love ends when you yourself stop recieving it, even though you continue to give it. I think love, when it has time to grow, can never been unrooted. When I make good friends with someone, like, inseperable friendship, if they were to ever leave me,I would not stop loving them. It's just how I work. Besides, if I were to give up on someone who gives up on me, wouldn't I just be the same if not worse than them because I know better? I would personally feel like crap if I were to give up on someone, regardless of how they were to treat me.
Sorry, got carried away there...
But seriously, do you guys have your own opinions about love? You can utterly deny it if that's how you feel, but please be nice. exclaim
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:46 pm
I think we all have someone we are suppose to be with, i don't think it's by chance that we meet certain people.
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:53 pm
I think that true love can exist, but it takes work from both people.
I have to disagree with the keep giving after they stop. Personally, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. As long as you know that you did your part to try and make it work, that is what really matters (imo).
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 4:56 pm
Gravechild6 I think that true love can exist, but it takes work from both people. I have to disagree with the keep giving after they stop. Personally, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. As long as you know that you did your part to try and make it work, that is what really matters (imo). Yeah, Just becayse two people love each other very much doesnt always been they are right for each other. Sometimes, let's face it, love just is'nt enough. But I agree with Gravechild, i would hate to be with someone who doesnt love me back, because what's the point? They obviously aren't for you and they shouldn't have to learn to love you.
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Posted: Mon Sep 10, 2007 5:08 pm
My Hollow Gravechild6 I think that true love can exist, but it takes work from both people. I have to disagree with the keep giving after they stop. Personally, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. As long as you know that you did your part to try and make it work, that is what really matters (imo). Yeah, Just because two people love each other very much doesnt always been they are right for each other. Sometimes, let's face it, love just is'nt enough. But I agree with Gravechild, i would hate to be with someone who doesnt love me back, because what's the point? They obviously aren't for you and they shouldn't have to learn to love you.
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 5:49 am
Gravechild6 I think that true love can exist, but it takes work from both people. I have to disagree with the keep giving after they stop. Personally, I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me. As long as you know that you did your part to try and make it work, that is what really matters (imo). i agree with you totally grave
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 7:35 am
True love is just a matter of compromise. It does not exist unless you want it to exist... If you decide to love somebody forever, there you go... the rest is chemistry
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 9:07 am
IAmAlwaysHereForYou I've had a lot of time to think recently, and I've seen a lot of twisted ideas of love lately. I've just been wondering, what is all of your ideas of love? I mean like, true love, if you believe in it of course, because I know some people don't.. sweatdrop My own personal beliefs are that true love is unconditional. Of course, it's just because of my personality that I think that way. I suppose it's also the way I think and because of my morals. It makes me sad when people think that love ends when you yourself stop recieving it, even though you continue to give it. I think love, when it has time to grow, can never been unrooted. When I make good friends with someone, like, inseperable friendship, if they were to ever leave me,I would not stop loving them. It's just how I work. Besides, if I were to give up on someone who gives up on me, wouldn't I just be the same if not worse than them because I know better? I would personally feel like crap if I were to give up on someone, regardless of how they were to treat me. Sorry, got carried away there... But seriously, do you guys have your own opinions about love? You can utterly deny it if that's how you feel, but please be nice. exclaim unconditional love means you love somebody, no matter what they may do. they could be a mass murderer, but you would still love them... isnt unconditional love the same thing as indifference? just a thought...anywayzzz, i dont believe in one perfect soulmate, but i do believe in love. but love doesn't necessarily have to be confined to one person. im not going to continue loving my ex after she broke up with me - geez, im 17, i'd hope i could find love again before i died. now this is talking romantic love. if we want to talk platonic love, the love between friends, that's a little different. but still if a friend doesnt wanna be friends anymore, im not going to continue with it...however, if a lover wants to remain friends even after the romantic love disappears, then that's fine. it may be a little awkward at first, but it's not that hard to move from romantic love to the love you have for friends and family.
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 1:12 pm
MegaTherion777 however, if a lover wants to remain friends even after the romantic love disappears, then that's fine. it may be a little awkward at first, but it's not that hard to move from romantic love to the love you have for friends and family. That really could go either way because sometimes you can't just be friends afterwards. Especially if you still have feelings for them that you can't really get rid of.
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 4:47 pm
Lomedin True love is just a matter of compromise. It does not exist unless you want it to exist... If you decide to love somebody forever, there you go... the rest is chemistry I don't think so. Ever had a crush on someone who didn't like you back? Maybe in like the 3rd grade or so? If they decided they loved you then they really didn't love you to begin with then did they? I can understand someone not loving someone and then learning more about them and THEN loving them. But I don't think that just because you decide to love someone that it happens.
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 6:08 pm
Gravechild6 MegaTherion777 however, if a lover wants to remain friends even after the romantic love disappears, then that's fine. it may be a little awkward at first, but it's not that hard to move from romantic love to the love you have for friends and family. That really could go either way because sometimes you can't just be friends afterwards. Especially if you still have feelings for them that you can't really get rid of. speaking from experience, it can be worked out.
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 9:19 pm
Love is all in your head, it doesn't exist unless you are blinded by your own weaknesses. Love is nothing but pain covered in a chocolate coating. I dont see the point in getting involved with something thats addicting, hurtfull, and bad for you. although I beleive that only inbetween two unrelated people, relation by either blood or say foster parents is different, thats family, love in families exist because everyone is bound together.
all though these are the words of someone who cant love...so they really mean nothing.
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Digital Malevolence Vice Captain
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 10:11 pm
I would like to think true love exists, but I've seen plenty of marriages with people who I thought would always be together crumble and end terribly. I suppose it can exist if people are willing to keep it alive and go about it the right way, but that's rare, too, apparently.
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Posted: Tue Sep 11, 2007 10:20 pm
My girlfriend of 19 months broke up with me today, but we were very in love. But I agree with Hollow. I believe that someone else will come along, who is really meant for me. Even with love, maybe two people aren't meant to be.
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Warrior of Metal Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 7:36 am
My Hollow Lomedin True love is just a matter of compromise. It does not exist unless you want it to exist... If you decide to love somebody forever, there you go... the rest is chemistry I don't think so. Ever had a crush on someone who didn't like you back? Maybe in like the 3rd grade or so? If they decided they loved you then they really didn't love you to begin with then did they? I can understand someone not loving someone and then learning more about them and THEN loving them. But I don't think that just because you decide to love someone that it happens. Sorry, I did not explain myself properly... Obviously, you have to feel something for the rest to develop. But love is more to do with your own decisions than people think. Of course, I'm not saying you cannot have a crush on someone and that's it, but I'd say that kinda passion and "quick" feelings are related to teenage years (not only, since your own personality plays a role, but still...). What I meant is that, once you are in love, you can decide it to be the love of your life, because it's more likely you won't be "in love" with that person for the rest of your life, but that "passion" will evolve/mutate/degenerate into a more familar and deep love as the one you could feel for relatives/close friends. Anyway, I agree with you in your reply.
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