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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 12:33 pm
Welcome
I know that this was in other guilds and i just think it's a good idea in general, it'll give people a chance to get ALL what's bugging them out into the open and get plenty of huggles and even advice in return. So basically this is a place to listen to others babble on about what's bothering them and to give advice or just a simple hug, glomp, squish, etc..Just try to cheer others up and if you wanna get cheered up, let it all out. Don't be afraid of being judged since that's a no no in this thread. No judging others based on their problems, be supportive..I want everyone here to be like a huge (if a tad odd) family. Or just really close friends. So yea basically that's all this is..If for some reason the owner don't like the idea, you can delete it..BUT i hope you don't, people need an outlet when they're upset wether they'll admit to it or not.
heart heart heart
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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:14 pm
Yeeps! Leeny, you know me better than that! I think this is a great idea.
OK, I'm off. Summer and maniac will take good care of the guild while I'm gone, and I'll check in Sunday night. Have fun, everyone! mrgreen
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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:20 pm
themischief Yeeps! Leeny, you know me better than that! I think this is a great idea.
OK, I'm off. Summer and maniac will take good care of the guild while I'm gone, and I'll check in Sunday night. Have fun, everyone! mrgreen C-ya Mischief...Hope you enjoy yourself biggrin
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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:31 pm
Ya have a good trip!! oh man i think this is a wicked idea for a thread!! omg you guys might be sorry tho cuz i have alot of crap i can vent about lol! i just spend the last 30 mins venting about my job to pothar as hes sitting right beside me and going through simular crap as me and we both think its ridiculous... i will appologize now if nothing i vent about makes sense cuz it will probably mainly have to do with my job and the company i work for as they are REALLY pissing me off lately and treating me like a sack of dirt!!!
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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 1:47 pm
Shorties Venting... She needs to get it out NOW before she exploded!! lol so as you all know i work at a call center as technical support. i fix broken printers and send out techs to physically fix them... well today they decide that they are going to have Mandatory Training AFTER work... Yes you heard me AFTER WORK... i get off work at 2pm and they want me to drive my butt back in to work at 5pm to do this training. so that means i work from 8am-2pm, go home come back for 5pm-7pm to do the training. Now they training they have going on at my company is absolutly ridiculous. Half the time its CRAP we have ALREADY had drilled into our heads day in and day out... so its pointless. Crap i already know as i am TOP of the CONTRACT of 60 people. (not to mention they want to do this on MY BIRTHDAY) ya im not happy about any of this. There is absolutly NO consistancy at this company... one week they give us a process we have to follow and then the following week they change it. This happens all the time... A new thing they introduced here is a Gap Analysis. (Test to see who needs training on what) its a 3 page quiz that changes EVERY month that we have to fill out.... and no we dont get spare time to fill it out, we have to fill it out BETWEEN phone calls. (i have maybe 5mins between calls so definitly not enough time to fill it out. Not to mention the fact that i feel like im working in some kind of elementary/highschool. GRRRRRRR! The test are ridiculous and shouldnt be given to the top people with the highest marks, those marks should SHOW WE KNOW HOW TO DO OUR JOBS! The people at the bottom of the list im sorry but they are the ones that need to do the test as they are the ones with the bad metrics (scores on how well we take our calls) But noooooo everyone has to write the damn thing every fricken month!! what else..... ohhh yeah if you work full time (thank god i dont or i would want to kill these people even more!) well full time ppl have an HOUR of mandatory overtime theyMUST work everyday so those poor people that have had to sit in this building for the last 9 hours now have to stay and do another 2 hours training... so total hours here 11.5 hours crappy deal if you ask me.... another thing.... they changed how we handle our cases... when a cu calls in they get a case number, the number will pull up a case with notes regarding the customers address, printer and issue.... well once we fix the cus issue, the case then goes into a wipbin where we have to monotor it to see if what we did resolved the customers issues... and when it has We close the case well thats how it use to be... Now 5 days after the cu calls in the case AUTO closes all by itself.... and if we dont keep track of cases and close them we get into big doodoo!!! so they just keep piling the work onto all of us and yet they give us NO time to do it. And this place wonders why we have such a hard time keeping employees. if i didnt have rent to pay and bills that need paying then i probably would have walked out today for the poor treatment and all this BS they are putting on us..... Well i think i covered just about all of whats bothering me about my job right now... i know its long and i appologize but i did warn you!! (you will probably see me post here quiet often!!!)
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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:57 pm
AHHHH!!!!
*runs away from the wall of text*
Wow, that is a bunch of stuff that they do. Yall should like strike or something. Please dont listen to that last remark, I say it all the time. But I hope things get better for you.!
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Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 4:19 pm
maniac0611 AHHHH!!!! *runs away from the wall of text* Wow, that is a bunch of stuff that they do. Yall should like strike or something. Please dont listen to that last remark, I say it all the time. But I hope things get better for you.! HAHAHA! I Know eh?! When i was done and i seen it in front of me i was like holy crap, thats long!!!... Wasnt sure if too many people would read it for that reason.. turns out walls of text scare lots of people... next time i will try and break it up a bit for you!! Oh man and thats just the latest things they have been doing there. I could probably go on about the company and all the crap i deal with on a day to day basis for days!! (trust me you will all see my vents in here now!) I literally feel like I work in an elementary school/high school setting with all the "clicks", drama, games, lies and nonsense (no affense to anyone in school still but im sure you know what i mean..) I mean if this person doesnt like you then your not going to go anywhere, if this person likes you then you can do whatever you want, its a HUGE gossip mill where i work, ive had to move away from ALL my other contract employees, literally to a different part of the building with a select few from my contract co-workers to a peacefull section where i dont have to hear it constanty in my ear thats how bad it was getting!!! Lots of people on the contract have thought about a strike thingy, but see we work for a company that HP pays to take their support phone calls so if we did that then HP could move our contract somewhere else and we would all end up with no jobs and most of us need the job to pay the bills so its not exactly an option and we arent union. Thanks for giving me some hope that things could get better there! I know things are never going to change at this place its been like this for years from what ive been told, but i look at it like this im 20 im not going to be working here forever im just bidding my time, getting my experience so that i can and WILL move onto something bigger and better. This forum just lets me get it all out so its not bottled up inside making me want to go psycho on some innocent by stander..
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 6:02 am
man. Yesterday was mah first day as a highschool senior & it was mkay. lyk nuttin got me excited, I jus wanted 2 work, have sumthin 2 do. And 2day, b/c of fire code violations, no skool so i won't b back till monday. itz lyk this yrs gonna go uber slow.
i got bac w/ mah ex-gf whom I love 2 pieces but she's 2 grades younger than me, meaning we won't see 2 much of each other during the school day. And get this, I STILL HAVE A CRUSH ON MAH BEST FRIEND....arrrgh. I realli don't want 2 do sumthin stupid 2 either but i want 2b w/ her cuz she's jus so tender & loves me & cares 4 me although she can be a *bit* clingy.
I need 2 raise mah GPA if I wanna get anywhere. I realli wannabe an english teacher. Mah grandma, she's sick and feels lyk her "time is coming" & all she wants b4 she goes is 2c her 1st grandaughter become great @ whatever she excels. I want 2 make her proud. If i don't become an english teacher for mah own purpose, I'll do it for the woman who has been with me since day one.
Sry I'm rantin & ravin so much.....I gotta survive this skool year.
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 8:42 am
 My humps, my humps..@Blondie - Wow..They put you through hell and back O___O i call for a revolt!>. @Steel - Wow yer busy>. Now for my own babble..I'll start how things are right now..I've been with this guy whom i love very much for 7 monthes, we took eachother's virginity and went through hell and back for eachother..He's endured so much for me and helped me to trust again, and love again..After my last ex cheated on me with like..4 different girls that i know of, lied to me and used me as an outlet for his anger..Well Nathan was always different, he was like me, noone else had as much in common as he did..And now, well..He has memory problems that act up when he gets really depressed, the last time was when his first girlfriend Mizuki died..But his memories came back after awhile..He doesn't remember me and isn't sure he wants to, the way he is now..He just seems to hate me, my situation with my dad is weird to him, my lifestyle is boring to him, i'm annoying and he can't believe that he at one time would love someone like me..He dumped me afew days ago and i'm trying to just be his friend, shock value is not going to trigger anything with him, that isn't how it works..I just havta be patient and oneday eventually he'll wake up, and remember everything he's forgotten..He's fawning over this girl at school and hanging out at her house alot, and saying she's there for him more then i could ever be cause of my situation and..Bleh..I know i've lost him and it hurts..Cause i feel like ima lose him even more, if he goes out with this girl..Some people thought i should move on at first, but then they saw how much this man means to me..Now they all agree, i just havta be patient..But i'm really hurt over this and just need to talk about it..Advice doesn't cheer me, all that does is comfort..I just feel really helpless and that life has always been cruel to me..I just love him so much, and i'll wait as long as i have to..Bleh..  My cute panda lumps!
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 9:28 am
oh wow Leeny. I'm sry. Wow. He realli jus 4got ya. I've nvr been thru sumthin lyk that, I 'd hate that. I kno itz not much 2 give advise n wat not so i'll jus give ya storii. The same storri dat always helps me in the end. Itz lyk a lil fable in the village that i'm from in the Domincain Republic. itz in spanish so imm try mah best 2 freely translate.
A man loved his wife. Had two children. Had a home w/ farm n a few animals. His loved his wife lyk no other man could but his wife wasn't one 2 stay in one spot 4evr. She wuld 4vr have an xcuse 2 leave home. Go in2 town 4 supplies or visit a friend or family. The man was simple. He needed not such things other than his farm n family. He was there to make his wife happi although she was blinded to this, she felt to pented up.
So one nite. She left. W/ their eldest son (her fave) and left a lil note. "I love u but u can't understand the pain I feel in keepin you happi so I did wats best for us." The man read the letter in disbelief and cried his eyes out. His young daughter was awestruck @ seein such a strong man in tears. she said " Daddy, u nvr knew?"
The man merely sobed with his daughter in his arms. All he wanted was her happiness. And she the same of him. But in order for either, they needed to sarcifice their own. " She wants both of you to be happi. So be happi daddy, be happi"
I kno a crappi story but idk, i lyks. It basicalli proves that in the end it is up 2 ourselves to create our own happiness. Yes we need help 4rm others but itz lyk realli, in the end, we have 2b happi so the other person can become happi as well so that we'll all try. Sry. That sux. XP
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 9:57 am
 My humps, my humps..Thanks for the story..But creating our own happiness, is sometimes not in our own hands..But thank you for the comfort *huggles you tightly* and all i can do is be there for him.  My cute panda lumps!
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:02 am
Most def. & anytime -huggles bac-
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:03 am
 My humps, my humps..*Squishes*^_^i'm glad people are likin this thread.  My cute panda lumps!
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:18 am
Itz a gud thread. ppl always need a place 2 jus vent and jus the idea that mayb "I might be able 2 help" or "I've kno wat ya mean", it helps. we as humans live off the idea of havin sumone there. One of the greatest fears of the human race is to be left alone. Well, we're realli not. Even if ya bestest friends can't DO anything, jus knowin that they're listening, is enuh. We might not realize it right away, but it means alot 2 us all. And as such, this thread is perfect b/c.....sumone's listening.
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Posted: Fri Sep 07, 2007 10:35 am
 My humps, my humps..All i really ask anyone to do IS listen to me..And it's what alotta people do want wether they realize it or admit to it or not, it helps to know someone cares and knows what yer feelin.  My cute panda lumps!
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