I Need Advice

[Mysterious_0ne]

Okay, I just got back with my ex, Steve & he's close friends with my best friend Angela. Now Steve is the huggy touchy-feely type with his friends and he didn't end it even though we're back together. I'm worried there's something going on between them. I mean she told me she liked him in the past and he always showed signs of liking her. I don't like the way he hugs her all the time and they say "I love you" supposedly in a friend way. I'm not the kind of girl to get paranoid over every girl my boyfriend is with, I'm actually the opposite. I usually am very mellow, but something just doesn't feel right when I see them together. Angela is at his house right now and no one else is home beside them too and I wasn't invited. Is there something wrong with the picture or is it just me? Apparently he wanted to just meet up with me, but he didn't even call me, he had her tell me. I was very weirded out by that. Why wasn't I invited when I'm his girlfriend? Am I just being paranoid or do I have a right to not trust them? Should I confront him and/or her? Could someone please help me.  

[Mysterious_0ne]

can someone please help me?  

[Mysterious_0ne]

bump  

[lazy bonz]

From what you've said, I would be suspicious too!
If you really want to stay with with Steve, I would talk to him about your concerns.  

[MiaIkumis#1Fan]

its sounds like there might be something going on, but i think you should talk to them and get the whole story first, before you jump to any conclusions.  

[naive melody]

I would be terrified.  

[~ murderd in cold blood ~]

It's pretty suspicious. You should keep an eye on them.  

[XxXxFoxii_demonxXxX]

well, if he's more touchy feely with her than you, then theres most likley something going on there, you may be in a pickle here, but no your not paranoid, i think there'd be something going on there, i would talk to them, and possibly dump BOTH of them, if she's doing stuff with YOUR boyfriend, then she's not really your friend, and think about it this way, if their all over eachother when your around... what do you think happens when your not, im not saying to jump to stuff, but you might have to in the end.  

[InvaderZimHads]

Mysterious_0ne

Okay, I just got back with my ex, Steve & he's close friends with my best friend Angela. Now Steve is the huggy touchy-feely type with his friends and he didn't end it even though we're back together. I'm worried there's something going on between them. I mean she told me she liked him in the past and he always showed signs of liking her. I don't like the way he hugs her all the time and they say "I love you" supposedly in a friend way. I'm not the kind of girl to get paranoid over every girl my boyfriend is with, I'm actually the opposite. I usually am very mellow, but something just doesn't feel right when I see them together. Angela is at his house right now and no one else is home beside them too and I wasn't invited. Is there something wrong with the picture or is it just me? Apparently he wanted to just meet up with me, but he didn't even call me, he had her tell me. I was very weirded out by that. Why wasn't I invited when I'm his girlfriend? Am I just being paranoid or do I have a right to not trust them? Should I confront him and/or her? Could someone please help me.

if it doesn't feel right to you, then confront them, i mean it couldn't hurt to ask.  

[Lovely Rainbow Samantha]

Yeah, there's definitely something fishy from your side of the story.

 

[Secret keys]

Dump his a**! My ex did that too, I dumped him, and I stopped talking to my supposed "friend".

 

[o-o_TeaThyme_o-o]

Just ask. Be careful about asking, don't be too blunt or accusing or angry or anything like that. Just bring it up casually. Watch either person's reaction closely, depending on if they're together or you confronted one without the other. I would trust your boyfriend's reaction more than your friend's, but just be careful. If it's too easy to see how strong your suspicions are, he might get angry or upset, which could ruin what might actually be a sound relationship.  

[7raindrops]

I would say something to him, like: Hey when you are with (friend) alone I feel left out. Could we all hang out together instead of you and her alone?