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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 7:34 am


NO ARGUING IN THIS THREAD! IT IS FOR OPINIONS!

I figure as people come online and try to see the sniper game they'll eventually wander here to try and get to talk to people and see what's going on. So lets talk.

I think closing the guild is stupid and shouldn't have been done. It isn't going to stop anything and when the guild reopens it's more likely that it'll start more drama because people will be pissed.

Oh, and Nymphie dear. If the people who are doing all these bad things REALLY cared about the guild and game, THEY WOULDN'T DO THEM. As far as anonymous harassment goes and harassment where the harassed remains silent as to the harasser(s), there is NOTHING you can do about it.

And as for mules... how the ******** are you going to know if it's a mule or just new user until they've already started drama. We can't just start banning every new person who shows up that seems a little odd, We would never get any new members.

No. Not all the crew are amazing. =\ And I'm not even going to get into that until I'm home from work and can reply to posts.

So... people who were smart enough to come to the old guild. What do YOU think.

tl;dr Closing guild fails, nothing we can do to fix reasons it was closed for.

PS: This is Eikichi's mule which he has been using for profile work, not some random mule. There, everyone knows it's me.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 8:55 am


Kichi, opinions mean arguing. It's what people do.

I'm going to try and put this all another way.

There is absolutely no way to get rid of harassers. The only way we can come close is to have the guild set at hidden, but that isn't rational. We shouldn't hide from it. Harassers are still going to dislike the guild in a week. Harassers are still going to do what they want to do. The best way to fight them is to take away the ways they can do anything. Us trusting the people who had the password to the GM mule after it had been posted in crew was a mistake. Someone taking my name was obviously a mistake. While that doesn't make me wrong or whoever's done whatever they did right, when we let it get to us, we're making it worth it. There isn't a way to get rid of them, but ignoring them is the ONLY way to keep them from getting what they want.

Are a few people making life difficult for you worth not having a guild forever? If you say yes, that is perfectly fine. If you say no, it's also perfectly fine. But the problem is, it doesn't matter what you say. Nymphie is going to make the decision without your opinion. She might get 2 or 3 crew opinions, but I truly believe if all the crew were against it, Nymphie would still do it. And I don't think that's fair.

There were a LOT of things going on in crew forum that I don't think a lot of you would agree with.

And I don't think that a lot of the decisions crew are making now are smart. What if we all have problems with crew? What if we feel we DO NOT want them as crew? Nymphie won't listen. She thinks Ezzy, Insom, and Druki are doing phenomenal jobs as crew, period. I'm not saying they aren't, I'm saying our opinions don't matter very much anymore

And I disagree with the warning rule. I got a warning for checking kichi's accrount for a placement PM then posting saying that I did. I had no idea it was against the rules because THAT RULE WAS MADE BACK IN NOVEMBER. I READ the rule back in November. That rule is a GAME rule, but when we played the game in the thread, I had forgotten whether or not it was against the rules. So I checked the thread rules, thinking that if there was a rule, it would be there. It wasn't. And I got a 2 day game ban. I'm not saying I don't deserve it. I'm saying that there was miscommunication along with my wrong action, and now that I've most certainly learned that that isn't something you do, and it really and truly was a mistake, and people MAKE MISTAKES, I should have a chance at crew.

The warning rule was made to keep people off of crew that they don't want as crew because they don't like. Just a few - Dukes and Sin. Whether or not you guys would be voted as crew is beside the point. The point is, I feel they are making too many decisions without our permission. And I really feel this is Nymphie's doing, because simply, she doesn't consider anyone else's opinions but her own. On some things, yes, she does. But a lot of the crew, most of it, listen to other people's opinions. Nymphie does what SHE thinks is best, whether it's what we think or not.

What she didn't think of was that A LOT OF PEOPLE HADNT READ THE LAST UPDATE. Parking Lot and I literally spent from 8 am to 5 pm writing that. It took so much emotion for us, and now it's gone. I'd transfer it to this guild, but problem is, to put it in the guild I had to take bits and pieces from 5 different word documents, and that takes a while, PLUS a lot of the guild version was spellchecked.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 11:02 am


I don't agree with the guild closing as a member, but from prior expierences as a captain and the troubles te sniper guild has had, I think it got its point accross, and probably was the only way to do it.

How else are you going to get the point across? If you don't know who the enemy is, punish everybody and you'll get the enemy. Not to mention that the whole thing with mules (I think - I've beenw rong before, you all know this) is that the guild was public.

You didn't even have to join the guild to be part of the harrassment.


And as for "Nymphie making decisions she wants." I've no qualms with that. AShe tries to make the guild democratic, but a lot of you are idiots (I'm not excluding myself from that statement) or things you suggest simply cannot be done for one reason as another.

I hate bringing up "When I was a guild captain, ohoho"(despite how it seems - I DO hate bringing it up) but since I was one for a little over two years of what USED to be the 2nd largest/best/whatever RPing guild, DEMOCRACY IN GUILDS DOESN'T WORK.

I tried ot make my guild a democracy, and nobody ever voted on important matters. Or, for the amount of people who did vote, they voted ocmpletely against what I or my crew thought was right, so we superceeded them anyway, simply because out of the people who voted, they were ultimately the minority.

Or, if I had kept the guild a democracy anyway, and the people who HAD voted on crucial things actually DID state their opinion, popular people would've stayed in the guild breaking rules and s**t, and unpopular people would've been kicked out simply because they couldn't spell right or form more than a paragraph at a time when roleplaying.

Although the dynamics of the guilds are different, I had to have been doing SOMETHING right, considering a lot of my rules are basis for a lot of other guild's rules (It may have changed now, but a year a go, there were at least five different guilds using my rules).

All social networking sites, including little guilds like the sniper game's, have popular people. If one person votes for a GM, everyone sheepvotes that GM (generalization, but you know what I mean). Our guild is one of the worst cases of that I've ever seen, and the problem is that a lot of the popular people who others will follow don't follow the rules or don't respect the crew.

And because of that, the guild can't trust most people's opinions if they're following a tyrant. Get my drift?

So, tl;dr is basically, What YOU think is best for the guild may not actually BE best for the guild. And what THEY(crew and such) think is best for the guild, you may not like.


And also. Why do you even care about not being able ot be crew, Hotju? I thought you were leaving Gaia/the guild once the game was over. rolleyes

(And the guild re-opens on tuesday, btw)
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 11:57 am


I think it is fail to do it on a 3 day weekend,

Personally if you are sick of harassment fill out the proper forms. The crew is right when they say they cant do anything about it, but Mods have more and better tools in dealing with this stuff.

Also make the guild private... thats the one where you can see but not post right? So what if it deters new users. Last I looked there arent a million wanting in every day. And if the people who hang around arent in it yet, they will have to join, it wont kill them.

And come on, if its a mule and has caused drama just ban them. I dont think you need a reason.

And about the whole crew elections... yay? I honestly dont care. Do whatever, I have thought why at least 2 of the crew were crewed, because they basically upped and left. But the rest I dont mind.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 12:22 pm


"And also. Why do you even care about not being able ot be crew, Hotju? I thought you were leaving Gaia/the guild once the game was over. rolleyes "

And I plan on it.
It's the fact that I couldn't if I wanted to, not that I can't and am going to try.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 12:33 pm


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    Meru is QFE, but I don't feel like quoting.

    Oh well, its not like many posted in the forums anyway. Lucky to get a post an hour.

    I don't see how this is helping though. So you've told the mules and harassers to stop. Big whoopee. So you can proudly say "We closed off a major gathering place because a few black sheep got in our way! biggrin Go us!" [/pissed off rant]

    AND I CAN'T RANT. :< THERE IS NO I AM ME HERE.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 12:36 pm


It's going to be hell when it opens back up, but people need to understand that it's not right how people are getting harassed now. In some cases, yes, they can still do warnings, but at the same time, the harassment is getting worse and worse.

What's left to do?

I think I actually accept the closing. It needed to be done.

And the thing about new crew members... What if someone was warned a long time ago? They could have learned from their mistake. I mean, it's an alright idea, and I sort of see where it's coming from, but mehh. I don't know. I actually want to try for crew, even though there are probably more reasons people could come up with to not vote for me than reasons TO vote for me, but whatever.

I wasn't exactly behind the scenes, so I probably have no idea really what's going on, though it's more than some. The thing about opinions not mattering anymore... Well, I don't think it's that they don't matter, I think it's that they aren't being taken as seriously as before. If that makes sense.

And I feel HORRIBLE about the last update not getting read by some people. Like Padme said, the spellchecked version was in the guild.

Maybe they can post it here or make a Xanga/Livejournal and give the link to us to read it in parts.

But why close RIGHT when a game is over? At least give us notice.

I JUST WROTE A ******** BOOK. a**.

Basically. I'm saying that blah, it was kind of the only thing they could do, I kind of want to be crew, and that Pixie/PL should be able to have their update actually read.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 1:53 pm


Hotju Cecock
There were a LOT of things going on in crew forum that I don't think a lot of you would agree with.

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The warning rule was made to keep people off of crew that they don't want as crew because they don't like. Just a few - Dukes and Sin.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 2:17 pm


Wait... going out on a limb here but Isnt the crew forum private for a reason.

And that is going to cause HUGE drama and there are no crew in this guild.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 2:32 pm


Kichi, you really shouldn't have posted that.

-agrees with Meru-

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 2:44 pm


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Kichi, you really shouldn't have posted that.

-agrees with Meru-

I know I shouldn't have. So you shouldn't have to tell me I shouldn't have.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 3:36 pm


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 4:28 pm


You know maybe making the no people with warnings can be crew rule was bad. And after reading what Pixie said I agree with not doing it.

However, the reason it WAS done was to protect Sin and Dukes from being publicly displayed as people not worthy of crew. It would rule them out, without having to necessarily single them out. But since you just posted that screenshot I guess it doesnt matter anymore.

Eikichi

Oh, and Nymphie dear. If the people who are doing all these bad things REALLY cared about the guild and game, THEY WOULDN'T DO THEM.

I know some people who have done harassing, and I know they care. They just feel the need to be asses for God knows what reasons.
Pixie
Harassers are still going to do what they want to do. The best way to fight them is to take away the ways they can do anything. Us trusting the people who had the password to the GM mule after it had been posted in crew was a mistake. Someone taking my name was obviously a mistake. While that doesn't make me wrong or whoever's done whatever they did right, when we let it get to us, we're making it worth it. There isn't a way to get rid of them, but ignoring them is the ONLY way to keep them from getting what they want.
Be realistic though. We're not going to just ignore them. Most people cant just turn the other cheek. And even if they can pretend to ignore them, most people still get hurt whether they show it or not. When someone cheated in your game, did you ignore them? When someone stole your name, did you ignore them? When people are bitchy to you, do you ignore them? No. Its against human nature to just ignore when you're getting hurt. And its not ok to let them walk all over you until they get bored of it and then they get away scot free. And eventually they will probably feel like doing it again. And again. And again.


Pixie
Are a few people making life difficult for you worth not having a guild forever?
You mean until Tuesday? Yes.

Pixie
Nymphie won't listen. She thinks Ezzy, Insom, and Druki are doing phenomenal jobs as crew, period.


You are completely correct there. You have no clue what crew does. I know everything. Now if crew ever did abuse power and you saw it, I would listen to the report you make, and I will talk to the crew member, and I will not ignore you. However, if you think the crew is just bad - I dont care. Because no one knows. You dont see into the crew forum. You dont know what we do. You dont know who does what. You just dont know if you're not there. I am always there and always know what my crew is doing. And if I dont know and they are doing something wrong...then the person witnessing the wrong doing should report it. And dont say "I was GM I can see into crew" because you still dont know. You dont deal with the drama. You didnt have to deal with the old drama. Even if you read it, you dont understand what it was like because you werent there.

Pixie
What she didn't think of was that A LOT OF PEOPLE HADNT READ THE LAST UPDATE.


Thats why the guild wasnt closed last night. I kept it open so people could read the update, and so that Wren and Monkey had a chance to bask in their winning. I made sure both of them had a nice thread with a nice amount of replies before I closed the guild down.

Nymphie
She tries to make the guild democratic
3nodding It just doesnt work to have a completely democratic guild. Nothing will EVER get done and all people will do is fight. Hence why you need leaders. Remember the old guild? When there was no one in charge? Do you want that to happen again? Thats why we are trying our best to stop it.

Thats why I'm SO against this harrassment bullshit. LOOK AT THE OLD GUILD gonk Just LOOK. It is our HISTORY. History repeats itself if you dont learn from it. There were NO consequences for ANYTHING back then. Do you want there to be no consequences for anything now? Do you want history to repeat itself? Hellz no. And thats why crew is doing its very best to try and prevent it.

Siamese
I think it is fail to do it on a 3 day weekend
I agree. But we wanted it done between games, and the game just happened to end right before a 3 day weekend.

Siamese

Also make the guild private... thats the one where you can see but not post right? So what if it deters new users. Last I looked there arent a million wanting in every day. And if the people who hang around arent in it yet, they will have to join, it wont kill them.

I agree, making te guild private would make it easier. Maybe we could ask all the new people how they found the guild and what made them join first. And if alot of them say "I found the guild randomly, lurked for a while, then decided to join" it would be bad to make it private. But if none say that, it might be ok to make it private.

Siamese
And come on, if its a mule and has caused drama just ban them. I dont think you need a reason.

We do. I would rather get rid of the mule before any drama starts though sweatdrop

Hirun
I don't see how this is helping though. So you've told the mules and harassers to stop. Big whoopee. So you can proudly say "We closed off a major gathering place because a few black sheep got in our way! biggrin Go us!" [/pissed off rant]

We closed it for a weekend, not forever. And you dont like it being cloed, do you? Most people wouldnt want it closed, right? So hopefully the problem makers wont want it closed either, and will stop causing problems so that they dont have to have the guild closed again. Because if they keep doing what they're doing, the guild will keep being closed and if they dont want that they'll stop. This is the -only- way we can think of to punish them.

Lexii
And the thing about new crew members... What if someone was warned a long time ago? They could have learned from their mistake. I mean, it's an alright idea, and I sort of see where it's coming from, but mehh. I don't know.
Thats true. Like I told Eikichi at the beginning of the post, we had a hidden reason for making that rule, but now that I've heard your opinions, and when the rest of crew hears them, we may change our minds.

Lexii
But why close RIGHT when a game is over? At least give us notice.

Since we dont really have down time between games now was the time to do it. We didnt want to interrupt a game because that would be really harsh. The no notice thing, I did, because I thought it would be harsher with no notice and for the people this is being done against, the harsher the better. I didnt want it to be too harsh and really hurt (like doing it mid-game) but I didnt want it to be soft (like letting you know beforehand).

The update will still be there on Tuesday for those who want to read it.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 4:51 pm


This whole situation just stinks.

First off- to address my comments in the screenshot. I don't think anyone who has had a warning in the last six months should be able to run for crew elections this time around. I have nothing against Dukes and Sin, they're fun to talk to in guild threads...just about everyone is. That rule for not being allowed to run for crew this time around goes for MonJ and a couple others too... I think, not sure about the numbers. This isn't going to be the last round of crew elections either, meaning that just because someone can't run at this moment, it doesn't mean they can't in the next round of crew elections. (Something like every 6-8 months, for example.) Its still something that needs to be discussed so nothing is official yet. ...And I don't remember what I was thinking when I was writing that, because that was some REALLY bad choice of wording, I don't even remember why I put quotation marks. :/

As for the guild closing, I was actually surprised it happened so quick. I thought it would be Friday evening. Anyways, it sucks all around. The harassment keeps going on, getting worse for some people, and its done in a way that makes it impossible to do anything. Then at the same time some people want crew to do something about it but we can't. It's like having everyone telling you that you can/can't/have to/need to do all these things at the same time when in reality there is almost nothing you can do. Then you come up with the only solution you can think of but best case scenario is if it can fix up things a bit easier.

I probably missed a lot of points in this post but I've been really limited this week. If you really want to ask, b***h at, complain, or suggest something feel free to PM me. But just a warning that I can't respond back quickly. I'm moving and have been trying to get internet set up at my place- among a million other things. And I'll be lucky to get dial-up if anything this weekend.

Oh and when I saw the update first place I wanted to post was the guild. -_-;

Edit: And for the warnings, I mean for serious things. Not something minor. Either way that's just my opinion...and I got a pink gift box for editing this post. ninja

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 6:12 pm


User ImageBHK has a feeling that he will have to join the guild if it reopens xp
I haven't been there for awhile, so I really can't speak on any other matters emo
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