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Hi, I've had a crush on a girl for a while and I'd like to ask her out, here's the thing though, there are some pre-determining factors in my whole situation. Me and her have been friends for oh say 3 or 4 years, I've had the crush for 2, we dated for about a week 1 year ago and she said lets just be friends, but recently she's been super nice to me, to the point I'm actually living with her as we go to college. I do pay rent though, but I was the first person she offered, none the less the only guy. Anyway me and her are co-workers, as well as roomies, so I duno if I should ask her out, I mean if things blunder the rest of the year could be pretty awkward. I've been told by her that I'm sweet and I make her feel safe, but she also considers me noth'in much but the funny guy of the group we used to roam with in high school. What do I do? O.o

On a side note I feel kind of bad about posting this here... she's actually rather skinny.

I'm so fecking confused! Last night me and her had like the best time just swapping stories and laughing and it eventually led to a short back rub for her, she complained of a sore lower back, then we laughed and told a few more stories, and now she's acting a little pissy this morning. O.o Also we had dinner a few nights back, I've never known a girl I could have sucha deep theological discussion with, we stayed in that Chinese place for maybe 2 hours just rambling about all the different religions. Everything this week has been going pretty good and now this morning she just seemed a bit pissed. sweatdrop

Ummm, she kinda has been just staying around me when I'm not doing anything in particular, and she sometimes just smiles or laughs at random when we're together, like not hanging out, just at work she'll turn to me and smile or something. Besides, we both have a lot of self control, so the whole dating co-workers thing is probably easy to handle, we're both rather quiet nerdy types, she has an easier time being commanding though, I can't enforce rules for diddly, my voice doesn't carry. I'm more willing to supress how I feel to keep our friendship than take a chance that might ruin it though... so I guess I may never know. sweatdrop

Personally, if my lower back ached and I was near any of the guys who like me or any close friends who I thought would give me a massage, I would probably state that.

But I'm never around anybody I think I can dupe into giving me a massage, so I never gets them sweatdrop Maybe it's because of a definite lack of massage in my life that I'd just take that as "Hey, my back hurts"

Well it's official, it's not that she doesn't like me, it's that our parents have agreed that if we do date I have to move all the way back home, great, wish I had been told this before I moved all my classed an hour and a half drive away from my old place, ******** A!!!

I just didn't know, when I was told the rules I was told, no drinking, partying, smoking, and in general no frat style college stuff, which is no problem for me, I actually like being straight laced, but no one said anything about not being able to ask out the girl I live with. crying

for once my dad actually agreed on something like that and my mum didn't know, I'm so beyond confused for the moment, ever since she said that I've given her some space but still been her buddy, I'll try asking again later sometime now that I know, maybe I can work my way around it, if yu really care about someone there's always a way. ^_^;