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 Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 11:09 pm
okay yall, id guess this is mainly aimed at the ladies, but why does it seem that when i court a young lady, i try to be a nice to her as possible and then i get walked all over.....
and in a "previous" life...if i was a butthead to a female....she seemed intersted...
i guess it boils down to the age old question...why do nice guys finish last?
i dunno....i guess women will always cornfuse me
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 12:16 am
Here's a few helpful tidbits:
Everybody likes a hard worker, because they do all the work for them.
Nice guys finish last, because they let everybody pass them by.
You = Doormat
Doormats are for getting the grime off your shoes. Nobody's going to date a doormat.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 12:54 am
We love a nice guy, but we also like our nice guy to teas us just a bit.
Not going to far though.
Open our doors, and have fun with us.
We don't want someone we can just push arround.
We want a real man who takes charge, but also keeps our feelings in mind.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 5:03 am
i guess that we also expect it from guys and bein that "doormat" is confusing to "us"
just be a true guy and dont be a pushover...
speak your mind but tend to our needs...
we all will be happier that way
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 5:40 am
You didn't finish last. You're lucky that you didn't end up with her. You would have gotten walked all over everyday. The person who really finished last has to put up with her. You get to move on to someone a lot better.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 6:01 am
i totally agree with her.....
be thankful you knew what this was about before feelings really got hurt eek
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 7:33 am
They don't. Sure, you may not get the girl now, but you'll find a nice one eventually and get married. The guys who aren't nice just end up with STDs and child support payments.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 10:11 am
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AmmonSuperCombo Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 12:41 pm
Liera Unullagata They don't. Sure, you may not get the girl now, but you'll find a nice one eventually and get married. The guys who aren't nice just end up with STDs and child support payments. yup! high five for that one. we win in the long haul!
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 1:04 pm
I think its cause lots of girls think that when guys are extra nice they only want one thing. Also, they see the bad kind of guys on tv and such and they are made so appealing.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 3:19 pm
Gwyndara We love a nice guy, but we also like our nice guy to teas us just a bit. Not going to far though. Open our doors, and have fun with us. We don't want someone we can just push arround. We want a real man who takes charge, but also keeps our feelings in mind. thats completely right....we need a man who has our feelings in mind, but isnt afraid to take charge....agree all the way....
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 4:41 pm
*clears throat*
Im that man!!!!!!
On a more serious note:
I agree with what they all said!! They know what they are talking about!
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 6:45 pm
Your problem may be in the sort of girl you try to date. Some will appreciate a nice guy and some won't. It's true: girls can be as shallow as boys and only go for what's exciting. Look for girls with the emotional IQ to understand what a gentleman is worth.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 6:58 pm
Nice guy sucess story: There's a guy, let's call him Bob shall we. When I first met him around two years ago I considered him unattractive, inept, and a little on the slow side; generally I considred him vaguely repulsive. However, I was trying to avoid a stalker in Geometry class so I sat by him and made conversation. As I got to know him I realized that he was funny, so we became friends, though I didn't consider myself that close to him.
Eventually his sense of humor got to me and despite his vulgarity I realized that he had a lot of great characteristics. Eventually he started liking me, I was annoyed by that, but I figured that he would get over it quickly. He didn't. He started making lifestyle changes. The vulgarity dissapeared, with a little prodding he learned manners and chivalry, he had always treated me with as much respect as he knew how to show, but now he treats me like a queen. He joined a religion, lost weight, got a job, and stuck with me when all of my other friends abondoned me. When I turned him down for prom last year he accepted it like a gentleman and never pressured me despite the fact that I had no other friends and I depended on him greatly for emotional support.
Finally he won me over, after about a year and a half I started to like him as well. we've been dating for several months now and we couldn't be happier. I like him because he's a nice guy. It took a looong time, but he was the only person who would've considred me worth the wait. It's harder for a nice guy to get a girl, but the relationships are so much sweeter, I promise.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 7:08 pm
nice guys don't always finish last. my soon-to-be-hubby is a very nice, respectful, chivalrous man, who also speaks his mind and leads his own life. in our relationship where one life goes, the other goes as well, not behind or in front, but together.
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