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 Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 10:39 am
Okay so my gf lives in Seattle because her retarded parent's made her move >> so one of her best friends from this area was over (and still is >>) and so she called me telling me to say IDK my bff Jill? like I appearently did one time.. and I don't really want to I dunno why :/ but still so eventually her and her friend start saying DO IT NOA continuously >< eventually she apologizes and stops and tries to get her friend to also (I think)and she still hasn't >> (hates her now) and they keep bugging me about it. So tonight I got on IM and they're on and they start bugging me about it, by now it's gotten REALLY ******** annoying and I told her no means no I'm not gonna do it. so then she starts saying she'll break up with me if I don't >> so I don't believe her at first but then she keeps going on so I start to believe her and then she says I'm getting to serious or something like that and I find out it was a joke like all the other times, the she just keeps going from serious (for like 1 second to apologize like once) back to joking and being an idiot! and I'm trying to
talk to her seriously, but no she apparently can't do that! >> she just keeps being an idiot when I really wanna talk to her seriously... so she eventually stops when I decide to ignore her but her friend keeps going and going, and I don't think my gf got the fact I want to talk to her. so I log of because her friends being a itch and I logged back on later when they were do only to find out they were making fun of me and one of our other 'friends' so I'm pissed and I blocked both of them for a while
And today I have a little party thing, so I donno what I'm going to say,
because she's coming down for it :/
FYI I just quoted most of that from a convo from last night when it happened >>
EDIT: I kinda feel like she's trying to get me to break up with her.. but I don't know, I mean before her friend was there we were having little fights about who loves the other more XD.....I'm just kind of confused now...
EDIT #2: Well, the party went well I didn't bring it up because I didn't want to risk ruining the party and her friends gone so I'll probably talk to her tomorrow about it.. I'm just not sure how to bring it up...
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Posted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 7:03 pm
I don't really know, but if your gf is stressed (like cuz she lives in Seattle now), then not being serious about anything may just be a way she's trying to deal with stress. I could be wrong, but that's one of the ways I (and a lot of my friends) tend handle heavy stress levels so it's a possibility.
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Posted: Sun Aug 26, 2007 12:01 am
punkotaku I don't really know, but if your gf is stressed (like cuz she lives in Seattle now), then not being serious about anything may just be a way she's trying to deal with stress. I could be wrong, but that's one of the ways I (and a lot of my friends) tend handle heavy stress levels so it's a possibility. Well, she's been there for about a year now, and she hasn't done that before, I'm sure she was acting like that because of her though...
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Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 2:42 am
I think she just might be trying to see if you really love her, but a year apart and states apart could change things. Only you and your gf know if the love is real. Long distance relationships usually don't last unless you are true Soul Mates. You sound kind of young to me. (please don't get angry with me for saying that) but too young to even be thinking along the lines of marriage. You have lots of time to get really serious. But talk to her find out where her head is and let her know where your heart is. If the love is real, it will work out.
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