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fiery-ginger

PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 6:23 am


I was going out with a guy in my youth group. I fell hard I was so in love with him. Well about 2 months ago before I went to bed the night before I was leaving for Missouri I checked my myspace and got a message from him saying "I don't know how to say this but I don't like you anymore... havefun with your cousins." I cryed myself to sleep that night because I have never felt that amount of pain from anyone in my life expecially not from someone I cared about. Now I have forgiven him for it, but when we decided we would stay friends we can't look at eachother and we can't talk unless we're alone without friends around. Now I wish I wouldn't have falen so hard. How do I pick myself up and become his friend without getting hrt again because that is what I fear most. I don't want to get hurt by him again.  
PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 7:44 am


volleyball_chica_101
I was going out with a guy in my youth group. I fell hard I was so in love with him. Well about 2 months ago before I went to bed the night before I was leaving for Missouri I checked my myspace and got a message from him saying "I don't know how to say this but I don't like you anymore... havefun with your cousins." I cryed myself to sleep that night because I have never felt that amount of pain from anyone in my life expecially not from someone I cared about. Now I have forgiven him for it, but when we decided we would stay friends we can't look at eachother and we can't talk unless we're alone without friends around. Now I wish I wouldn't have falen so hard. How do I pick myself up and become his friend without getting hrt again because that is what I fear most. I don't want to get hurt by him again.


i can't say i don't know how you feel

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 25, 2007 6:02 pm


Even though it hasn't happened to me, I totally understand what you mean. There's a reason why pastors discourage their kids to not date within a church setting. Breaking up through MySpace? That is... pretty bad. First of all, you shouldn't have dated that boy if he was doing stuff like that! It's going to be hard being his friend again; sometimes, it just doesn't happen. Pray to God for strength and renewal. I think exposure is good; keep talking to him WITH friends around. What was it that made you two so close then made it so awkward when you two become friends?
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