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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 1:47 pm
I know this is probably against your guild rules, but I really wanted to address this ^^;; Since I've been a bit more active in this guild, I keep getting random IMs, usually perverted, on AIM. I find this very rude, and I don't like it in the slightest, and rarely do I find what some of you have to say flattering. I wouldn't have mentioned it, except now I'm getting invites via AIM from people who I suspect are from this guild (because when I look up the AIM name it references to me, I find bbw sites linked to it). I don't like this at all. If you want to talk to me or build up a FRIENDSHIP with me, either tell me who you are on gaia, or better yet, start it up on gaia. Sorry if this was against the rules, but it's been happening quite frequently and it really is just annoying now.
Thanks <3
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 2:23 pm
Huh, that's odd... I've never had that problem since being a member of this guild.
That sucks, I hate when people do that (I've had it from other sites).
I hate when guys think because they like a girl she's going to like them back, or that she'll want to hear what perverted things they think about/want to do to her.
I've had it happen once or twice where a guy has IMed me and I haven't figured out where they found me from so eventually I just blocked them 'cause they were creeping me out and I feel stupid being like "Uh, who are you?"
I hope it gets worked out!
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 5:30 pm
Cyber-stalkers are the worst. I had this one woman add me (from an online game I used to play) to MSN after chatting for a bit. Over the course of a few days, she appeared to become increasingly depressed until eventually she sounded like she was boderline suicidal. Just as things were seeming a bit hopeless, she suddenly started to talk sexual . . . and then it hit me.
I asked her . . . "Did you spend the last few days acting depressed because you have a fantasy of being the helpless girl who needs to be rescued?" . . . she admitted to it . . . needless to say, I was a tad pissed off after that . . .
I'm sorry to hear that you're dealing with cyber-stalkers with your own. I'd love to help, but sadly, all I can do from this end is tell you that it's not me. I don't even have AIM.
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 8:08 pm
When I was 12 I had this lesbian that lord knows where she found me...but she IMed me all the time and would hit on me.
I don't know what happened to her :/
But since then it's only been guys, I had a guy on Gaia PM me and try to force me to cyber...wtf?
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 8:18 pm
I know this sounds mean but I don't mean it.
But in your sig you look naked, you can hardly expect to not get perverted messages.
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 1:57 am
Being a rather biased oldbie in the guild, I say it's most likely due to the influx of newer people....And I don't really feel like dealing with any drama, so if anyone has an argument, save it.
I've just noticed that in this and similar guilds, a surprising number of troll/mule-like posters seem to be showing up, with a shocking lack of regard and respect for anyone's privacy.
But perhaps that's just me being paranoid.
Honestly, I wouldn't be too worried. If whoever's messaging you seems like a creep, block them and go about your day.
Also, on a personal pet peeve-ish note: It's probably some closet chubby-chaser who feels that they have nothing better to do/has to validate their pitiful exsistance by harassing girls over the interwebs because they don't have the stones to actually go out in public and try and meet someone. Yay for run-on sentences, and sorry for the crude terminology.
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 4:11 am
I'm sorry that's happening to you.
Most people here just only IM me because they want to buy my account, not because they want to get into my pants. I find it pathetic that people are doing this. (No insult to online relationships. I was in a wonderful one for around three years. I just don't like people who harass people to try and get dates.)
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 7:13 am
I get creeeeepy messages and such on gaia and through IM, but not anything bad from the people in this guild.
Usually old *****>
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 7:23 am
In my usual fashion, I shall address things backwards surprised
Hehe I love you JvG <3 I'm too old for old ***** XD I used to get them all the time, though o.o Anyone else old enough to remember the original MSN chatrooms? gonk Dear god! crying The nightmares still haunt me 3 hehehe
I've had a couple of offers to buy my account, a few 'go kill urself's, even more 'hack gaia with this!'s, and quite a few 'shoe me ur titz0rz plz'. xp I know what you mean, I find it really pathetic, too xp I mean, it's not like porn's hard to come by online rolleyes Go look up 'fat girl' in google. Just with that, about 50 pages of porn pops up o.o
Hmm yeah we've gotten a couple of new members in my guild, too, but they're pretty inactive. I have to wonder if they aren't someone's mule, because the guild isn't really advertised well^^;; I do block them, but either it's a lot of guys, or one or two with a lot of accounts. scream That's why it's so frustrating xp And I agree with you 3nodding I notice more and more that guys who are open about liking big girls are much more gentlemanly than the 'lolz u fat bich c** flash me gonk ' guys 3nodding
Hehe don't worry razz It's hard to get me ticked off, unless you're the goverment mad Then it's easy >x Anyway, I am naked 3nodding I'm a nudist...sorta. I'm not like hippy hair placent eating kind of nudist, but I'm a "naked is more easy and cooler" sort of nudist 3nodding
LOL! xd Sorry to laugh, but you reminded me (both Dread and Sir) of the time my cousin got stalked by a 30 year old lady in a bunch of chatrooms. x3 I know it's not really funny, just his reaction was so wonderful xd (And he sort of deserved it. He was trying to cyber, and some old ***** found him before people his own age xd heart Karma <3)
I suppose it could be from just running around in the petitions subforum, but I really just suspect it's from here because that problem at least had gone away for some time now, and I've even had people make reference to this guild and that pic xp So maybe it's just one or two from here, and the rest are from other places, I don't know xp It's just really annoying xp And thank you <3 I hope it gets worked out, too gonk
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 9:08 am
I'd offer to post me in my candy bra in my siggy...but I'm pretty sure that would scar some of my friends in my thread I loiter in sweatdrop
Also, I'd for sure get harassed by various people on gaia.... sweatdrop So it wouldn't be testing much.
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 1:59 pm
I remember MSN chat rooms biggrin
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 5:36 pm
XXX Zombie Porn I remember MSN chat rooms biggrin lol xd I'm so glad someone else here is that old heart @Dread - I've actually only had like 1 person complain about the pic so far 3nodding As for people harrassing you, just tell them to shove it xd But yeah, if it'll make you uncomfortable, don't do it :3 ..I want a candy bra gonk
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 5:54 pm
Mimisi Setsuai XXX Zombie Porn I remember MSN chat rooms biggrin lol xd I'm so glad someone else here is that old heart @Dread - I've actually only had like 1 person complain about the pic so far 3nodding As for people harrassing you, just tell them to shove it xd But yeah, if it'll make you uncomfortable, don't do it :3 ..I want a candy bra gonk That's retarded, you can't even see anything, there's nothing to complain about.
I don't mind the pic of myself because it's the only photo ever of me where I've gotten from a lot of people "Woah, that is hot" I guess my pose and the bra just did it.
But you can see my n****e if you're looking closely enough >>; Or else I have to edit it.
This here is the edited version of it, just for example:

Seriously, my young barlings in my thread would be like "Saaaaadie! Change your siggy!"
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 6:27 pm
I could never pull off the candy bra. Not only would it not look good on me, but I imagine the hair would get in the way . . .
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 6:47 pm
I find it's really quite alright, it was hard for me to pull off because my boobs were huge in it gonk
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