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 Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 5:44 am
What are your views on premarital sex cause it seems a pretty common thing in todays culture but do you believe its wrong and people should wait untill marriage or do you believe something else?
Share your views on this subject and why you believe that
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 9:00 am
I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can't afford to take care of it. So then they're just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast.
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 12:24 pm
i totally go with what coolerz says
also the Bible says stuff about being pure and set apart for that persong before marriage (once you're set apart for God)
or something like that.
yes.
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 11:32 pm
coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can't afford to take care of it. So then they're just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child.....
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Posted: Tue Aug 02, 2005 10:46 am
BleedingCrescent i totally go with what coolerz says also the Bible says stuff about being pure and set apart for that persong before marriage (once you're set apart for God) or something like that. yes. Yup! It might have been a sin back then too.... (To have so many wives/husbands)
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Posted: Tue Aug 02, 2005 5:31 pm
goddess_of_music coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can't afford to take care of it. So then they're just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child..... where in the Bible does it say that a man could have 10 wives... how do you know that the "love of your life" truly loves you? he could be using you for your body. i'm not saying he is, and i'm sure he really loves you, but what if he was one of those guys who were like that? marriage is the ultimate declaration of marriage (although sometimes it doesn't work that way... but it's supposed to) having sex out of marriage is wrong and unpure.
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Posted: Tue Aug 02, 2005 11:05 pm
Outside of marriage, swx becomes a meaningless thing, especially if you have more than one partner. I mean really, what's the difference if you're having sex outside of marriage, and then get married? And really, most people aren't responcible enough to have sex. What happens to your education, your finances, and even your relationship if the girl gets prenant? Usually, the first two go down the drain, and the third is greatly affected, some times for better, others for worse.
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Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 7:14 am
BleedingCrescent goddess_of_music coolerz I think they should wait till marriage. For one alot of people leave the other person if they had a baby and they can't afford to take care of it. So then they're just left there and most parents want nothing to do with them because of what they did. Or alot atleast. i disagree with coolerz and lbeeding cresent. premarital sex is ok under cicumstances. I have found the love of my life, but we are not married, but we want to share intament moments. So i take birth control, and he wears a condom. BUT if you just have sex to have sex then it is wrong, i mean you should do it with a person you love! Now, to that the bible says it is "wrong". Well did you know that in the bible a man could have 10 wives and sleep with them all, but today that would be considered adultry. So times do change, and if you love some one with all your heart and you know this person is the one i think it is fine to have sex, to show your affection. But you can use a condom if you dont want a child..... where in the Bible does it say that a man could have 10 wives... how do you know that the "love of your life" truly loves you? he could be using you for your body. i'm not saying he is, and i'm sure he really loves you, but what if he was one of those guys who were like that? marriage is the ultimate declaration of marriage (although sometimes it doesn't work that way... but it's supposed to) having sex out of marriage is wrong and unpure. this is another thing that sets me apart from christains.....and goth christains.....i think marrage....its only a word. Sure you have a specail little ceremony by god and all, but in the end, i could be married already and no one knows it. I dont want to agrue about the whole marrage thing, but honetly. PREMARITAL SEX IS OK UNDER CERTAIN CICUMSTANCES i mean if you love some one, but your parents would not let you get married then what? i mean, if you love one person AND only that one person. Then it is ok. and i know, please do not talk about the "love of my life" he is ok? and you dont know him, so you have no right to say anything about himkk?
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Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:23 pm
Get married after both of you turn 18. Your parents have no say in it once you're a legal adult. Can't you wait that long at least?
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Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 8:26 pm
Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it?
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Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 9:20 pm
mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol
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Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 9:29 pm
mistressofthelost Get married after both of you turn 18. Your parents have no say in it once you're a legal adult. Can't you wait that long at least? i am going to get married at about 25....but i dont want to wait that long i just know i should. I am a very impatient person
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Posted: Wed Aug 03, 2005 9:51 pm
goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 4:33 am
goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol Glad to hear you aren't actually haveing sex with him, but it sounded like that's what you were saying. Trust me, I know what it's like to find that one guy, and have to wait forever to do anything with him. My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married in 2-4 years. I think I can wait that long.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2005 8:29 am
Dragon Warrior X goddess_of_music mistressofthelost Wait wait wait. Goddess, how old are you? I looked at your profile, and it said you're 14 (maybe 15, I didn't check the date). Personally, I think that's way too young to be having sex. If you get pregnant, I'm not going to feel sorry for you. I'm telling you, it will screw up your life, especially since you're still in school. Wait 3 years, then get married and do the whole sex thing. Why rush it? i never said i had sex with him did i? i mean i want to but i know sure as hell i am not ready, and he said he is not ready too. but we know we are like 99.9% sure were having sex before marriage. i mean yes i am 14. but i know i am waiting a bit, but i do want to have sex with him...to show our affection for eachother. I mean....i probably wont get married until i am about 25ish. So yes i want to have sex before then. BUT that is not the point i am trying to prove in this topic. I mean read my earlier posts people! lol you're an awesome leader... i still think that premarital sex is wrong... what if something happens between having sex and marriage? :: sigh :: well whatever.
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