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 Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:03 pm
Seriously. I've seen and heard so many stories about these girlfriends dating such assholes of boyfriends. They yell at them, hit them, beat them. It's just awful! What makes the woman so attached to them even after what they did to them?
I honestly wouldn't take that kind of bullshit if I had a boyfriend like that.
Discuss:
Abusive boyfriends.
Why you think they stick to assholes?
What would you do if you saw a boyfriend slapping/yelling/beating his girlfriend?
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:12 pm
 + They suck.
+ Because they are either dependant or stupid. Either that or madly inlove? I have no idea. D:
+ I would probably punch him. I would ask him how he likes it and help his 'girlfriend' get cleaned up. ~ I Love Tommy ~
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:15 pm
ugh, I suppose those girls are already super dependent on other people due to something that happened to them earlier in life; i really can't see any other reason to stay with someone that abusive.
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 6:11 pm
Thr girls almost always thinks they can change him with their love.
rolleyes
And I'd hurt him.
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 11:00 am
Well it's not all that easy to discuss...however, one can deduce certain things through behavior of both the abusive male and the innocent female in the relationship:
-The female feels that she'd be cool if she dated this guy?
-She couldn't get any better (so she thought)?
-Her last boyfriend was uncool.
Now that being said, I do not wish to blame the girl. Sometimes, psychological issues are important factors in such relationships. And personally, I'd give the guy a 'pleasant' talking-to, and a swift kick in the crotch.
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 12:06 pm
♥ my first boyfriend yelled at me and hit me and was a jerk to me...
but see I am a nice girl who never wants to hurt anyone...so I stayed with him for like a year and a half until he broke up with me...
now I got a guy that a lot of people see as bad, but he is really great and nice and sweet and actually knows how to treat a girl... ♥
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Posted: Wed Sep 26, 2007 3:29 pm
yeah looks can be deceiving in that way. People are usually intimidated by me an most of my girlfriends friends told them to stay away from me, and none of them will ever call me violent... well at least not to them.
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Posted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 1:31 pm
That's something I really can't understand at all but the girl that stay with a violent guy is as much stupid than him, in a way. I dont mean that she don't deserve help but still....That's just something too complicated for me xd
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Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 2:00 pm
Not all assholes are abusive.
I know guys that are assholes because they have good looks, which somehow make them better than EVERYONE else, and treat good girls poorly.
This issue also isn't merely one-sided. Girls can be assholes too. Trying to take advantage or a guy/girl is not right.
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Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2007 8:14 am
I think either gender can be an a*****e. But if I saw a girl get hit, I would go ape nuts D:<
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 2:00 am
See differentiating between genders in an abusive relationship is a kind of sexism. Sure guys are more likely to use physical violence to abuse their partners; but women are responsible for as much, if not more abuse in relationships as men.
I am the product of a parental domestic violence situation and it was my mother who was the abusive partner, it tore my father to shreds. By the same token, physical violence against someone you are supposed to love is detestable and needs to be stopped.
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Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2007 9:41 am
Forget assholes and nice guys. I'll take the smart one. n.n
I've never personally known someone who was in an abusive relationship, but I think the reason for staying depends on the person. Personally, I'd get out as fast as possible.
While I'd love to say that if I saw a guy slapping his girlfriend I'd go and yell at him or something, I'm gonna be truthful and say I'd ignore it. I'm non-confrontational by nature, especially with strangers. And I'd really rather not get hit, to be honest. If it was a friend, I'd do something. Random people off the street, not so much.
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 1:37 am
You know, i will beat the liven stew out if any male who abuses a female, but what gets me is why do they still be with the guy, knowing he's
going to beat her again and still say but sill i lov u/him? you know its kind of sad yet funny when some women get arouse by being beaten, then have the nerv to talk about the nice guys they could had been with, but instead they go right back with the thugs that be ******** them, beating on them, telling them what to do and the sad thing about it is, what i just said is a routine for these girls. On till they stop this endless ouroboro (means endless circle or cycle...) themselves, nothing will change.
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Posted: Tue Dec 18, 2007 1:53 am
theprettypoison See differentiating between genders in an abusive relationship is a kind of sexism. Sure guys are more likely to use physical violence to abuse their partners; but women are responsible for as much, if not more abuse in relationships as men. I am the product of a parental domestic violence situation and it was my mother who was the abusive partner, it tore my father to shreds. By the same token, physical violence against someone you are supposed to love is detestable and needs to be stopped. Never underestimate the human capacity for stupid, illogical and petty behaviour. I like what you said, thats speking from the heart! biggrin
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Posted: Wed Dec 19, 2007 8:50 pm
Usually abusive boyfriends don't become abusive until way into the relationship.
And it starts out slowly.
Most women just ignore it as their boyfriends being a little too jealous.
These women fall in love with these men they think are perfect.
And then-bam- (no pun intended) their fairy tale comes to an end.
Their boyfriend because just a horror to be with....
Insults. abuse.
These men will do anything for control, and they try to lower their spouse's self-esteem so that they believe that they need the abuser.
But yes, bascially, I think the women had been tricked into a relationship she doesn't know how to get out of.
And people do crazy things when they're in love. 3nodding
'Cause personally most women nowadays would dump an a*****e like that.
Hell, most women wouldn't even give the a*****e a chance.
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