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Sir Cookies

PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 11:48 am


I've seen this issue being discussed so many times and I have to say I am totally fine with Gays adopting children. But I've never seen so many people disagree with me and so harshly as well when I discussed this in the past on Gaia.

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If you think Gays should be allowed to Adopt.

Here are some things I like to point out and say to:

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If Gays adopted kids, they will turn gay themselves.

I fail to see how this works. If just by having gay parents turns the child gay, then how do you explain the gay or bisexual children birthed by Heterosexual parents? Besides, I have a guy friend who has gay parents. And he's loves women.

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Think of the children!

How are we not? We're giving the child a home to live in, clothes to wear, and food on the table.

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Kids need a mom and dad role model.

I don't think so. Kids can live with whoever their parents are. The key here is that they need GOOD role models. Even if it's two dads or two moms, as long as they are good and caring to the child, they are good enough role models to raise the kid. There are plenty of families with mom and dads that have kids that are awful parents. Beating the child is not a good role model. I've also seen a lot of good single parents in the world as well. Being gay has nothing to do with being a good or bad parent.

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Gay people are usually assholes.

I beg your pardon?
PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 11:52 am


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Of course!

I was raised by my mother and nanny (grandmother). I've seen many different men come in and out of my life as father figures, but it was mostly just the two raising me and my brothers.

Who the hell are these people who say these things anyway? xD





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Sir Cookies

PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 11:53 am


Homophobes. That's who.
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:02 pm


I have nothing to say, because I agree with you completely. I grew up with only my mom and NO role models, and in my personal opinion I came out better then a lot of people I know that have a mom and a dad. You can't raise a child to be gay and you can't raise a child to be straight. And I've only met one gay guy that was a total b***h, but he was only one person. Your sexuality does not effect your personality.

Actually...all the assholes I KNOW are straight, so what does that tell you?

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:07 pm


I see nothing wrong with gays adopting kids. As Kyle said, as long as both parents are good parents, the kid will grow up fine. If any difference comes of having two gay parents, it'll simply be that the kid will be more accepting of that kind of lifestyle.

On the other hand, if the parents are bad and the kid grows up having a bad life, he may decide that gay relationships are too unstable to support a healthy child. In truth, it's the fact that the adults were horrible parents, not that they were gay, but the kid most likely won't make the distinction.

As such, I don't think all gays have the right to adopt children, just like I don't think all people in general should be able to have kids, whether adopted or not. Some people are simply bad at parenting. That, not sexual orientation, is the call that should be made to determine adoption rights.
PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 12:27 pm


[Of course they can adopt children, they would make just as good parents as stright people would.

I think it's silly to say that kids need both a mother and a father, there are hundreds of thousands of single parents with out a mother or father and they are allowed to have children, people have no qualms with that, so what's so bad having two moms or dads?
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 7:39 pm


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I think that it would be a wonderful thing if gay couples adopted children.
I also think that any person who adopts is helping the child escape from the
horrors of an orphanage and possibly a life of crime and depression.
Being gay doesn't make your child gay, nor does being straight make
your child straight. Both of my parents are straight and I'm lesbian.

But anyways, thats my thought on things...
It doesn't matter what sexuality you are!

It matters if you have a loving, happy family. ^^
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 06, 2007 9:05 pm


Sexuality is not a good enough excuse to keep a child away from a loving and caring life that he/she has always dreamed about having.

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Lady Arezu

PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 8:49 am


First off I'd like to say that if you think gays are assholes you dont know any so shut up and sit in a corner some where. And secondly I have a few gay friends who would make perfect parents to a child who just needs some love and care and they would probably raise the kiid to be someone to save a life someday. So yeah, let gays adopt, there's nothing wrong with them
PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 9:10 am


As long as the child isn't mistreated/abused, or forced to go that sexuality, I see no problems with it. Don't get me wrong though, if the child does choose that sexuality, still no problem.

I personally never had any of either a male or female role model, well, I guess one of my friends is my role model, since he's amazing at everything I suck at, but want to be good at whee

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Rockula

PostPosted: Tue Aug 07, 2007 4:20 pm


ban abortion send the unwanted kids to the gays i bet they will take good care of them
PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 12:13 pm


Cathedral [All_Black]
Actually...all the assholes I KNOW are straight, so what does that tell you?


Not to b a steriotype or anything but that is compleatly true! I know soo many gays I cant count the amount, and only 2 are idiots, but god knows how many straight I know, and very few are decent people!

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 12:29 pm


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I fail to see how this works. If just by having gay parents turns the child gay, then how do you explain the gay or bisexual children birthed by Heterosexual parents? Besides, I have a guy friend who has gay parents. And he's loves women.
// But straight parents birth more straight kids than gay kids, aye? 3nodding And it would be the same pattern (reversed) with gay parents. I think that's their point.

However, that's assuming nurture over nature. I think homosexuality is caused by both. Gay people actually respond to hormones differently or something, I read that on Wikipedia. surprised So! If the gay parents adopt a kid from someplace, and the kid's real parents were straight, there would be more of a chance for the kid growing up to be straight (though I'm pretty sure he/she will be very accepting of homosexuality, and would probably explore it themselves no matter what their hormones say).

They're also implying that it would be bad if a kid turned out gay. This could be (and probably is) homophobia. But it could also be logical thinking. If more and more people became gay, the population would decrease, which is bad, evolutionarily. But I myself don't think that's plausible. >.>; Homosexuality is a recessive trait anyway, and I don't think it'll affect the population drastically enough for it to be negative.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 08, 2007 11:58 pm


Lady Arezu
First off I'd like to say that if you think gays are assholes you dont know any so shut up and sit in a corner some where.
You do realize I'm not the one who said they were assholes right? whee sweatdrop

Sir Cookies


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 09, 2007 8:14 am


The hundreds of stereotypes floating around about gays being bad parents, child molesters, or assholes in general hold no ground. Your ability to be a caring and loving parent does not come from orientation you are. You could be a horrible straight parent and a loving gay parent and vice versa. True, the child might be picked on, but isn't that better than them being in an orphanage?

Also, there are plenty of gays out there to be good role models, and gay parents can also be very good role models. Once again, this does not stem from what orientation you are. Gay people aren't aliens threatening to "destroy the sanctity of marriage" or "go out raping people."
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