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I am really curious right now about this. Which countries are friendly or open minded about the GLBT cultures? What is it like in your country? Or the foreign places that you have been to?

Hmm. From what I've read, the Scandanavian countries are really open and accepting; western Europe is fairly open, but as you travel to the south and east (especially in former soviet satelites), there's a bit less tolerance.

In France, from what I've read, the attitude is 'be whatever you want, but regardless of what that is (glbtq, poly, omni, etc), it's not a topic for discussion'. Overall, Europe is the most liberal continent, as many countries support civil unions and/or full marriage, have various forms of 2 parent adoption, and host pride festivals and parades.

In the middle east, a lot of same-sex behavior goes on, but people don't identify as being gay for the most part. It's considered very taboo and sinful. Lebanon and Dubai are much more liberal and western in that regard. Israel is definately the most open and accepting in terms of legislation; it's one of the only middle eastern countries where homosexuality isn't a heinous crime, and there may be some government protections available for gays. That said, reactions to Worldpride in Jerusalem showed that homophobia is still rampant.

India is pretty openly hostile to gays and lesbians. Attitudes in the rest of Asia vary widly, and I can't remember which countries are friendly and which aren't.

Most of Africa is very conservative, thanks to all the missionaries intent on spreading Christianity, but South Africa has a little bit of a clandestine gay scene.

I won't even pretend to know about central or South America.

There's a pretty good book, Out in the World (can't remember the author), that's all about this sort of thing; it's got a lot of really good information, if you can find a copy.

I think Haunted Boy is asking about the experience of being a gay/lesbian/bisexual/transsexual in a country other than America.

As for the Greeks and Romans, that's some difficult ground. There is no word in either language for 'homosexual' and 'heterosexual', but it's much more complicated than that. They didn't mind men having sex with other men (or even boys), but they didn't like seeing women have sex with other women. They also deeply reprimanded men who allowed themselves to be treated like women. Also, there were parts of the Roman Empire where same-sex intimacy was condemned and other parts where it was celebrated.

You have to make a distinction between the Abrahamic religions, and the cultures that harbored them. For example, Judaism strongly admonishes men to not commit sodomy. It makes no mention of what one woman should do if she loves another woman. Just thought I'd throw that out there.

In Croatia everyone who is not GLBT hates GLBT but they can be there and police is protecting them, but ppl often hit them, say them bad names, etc.

Well, in Utah it's the opposite and it's more from the Mormons than anyone else.
(Or should I say the 50% and declining mormons!) I'm constantly reprimanding/glaring at people who say "that's so gay."
My friend yelled at her seminary teacher for saying that phrase, left the class and nearly beat him up for chasing her. When she came back in, her friend told her "I love you" (friendly way) and the class went silent.