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And also, Since there are 'Japanese only' places, I was wondering if there were places in japan just for foreigners, like some kind of club or karaoke club or something.

The main audience for those sort of media are going to be Japanese people right? So isn't it obvious that they will have to have at least some Japanese aspects. If they didn't it'd be harder for the audience to relate to that. And its the same anywhere else - In Home and Away/Neighbours [aussie shows]for example, there are pretty much only white people, and even if Australia bases itself as a multicultural country, the "token" asians generally get screwed over in the shows anyway.

As for the Japanese only places, I can't answer that because I don't have much information about it, but one would assume it might have something to do with past negative experiences? I heard there was this one korean restaurant in sydney that banned aussie[white] people from entering since they asked for spring rolls =_=

Ok, take it from someone (me) who has lived and worked in adult Japanese society, both in the city and out in the countryside. Also l found no difference in dealing with people in the countryside and in the city.

Japan has a group mentality. Quite often all it will take for a Japanese person is a couple of bad run-ins with a foreigner to make them think that all foreign people are bad apples. It's actually quite understandable that there is alot of racism against foreigners in Japan, considering the vast majority of native English speakers over there are complete assholes with cishy English teaching jobs. I'm serious. Absolute retards. Most of the tourists I bumped into over there were obnoxious little bastards too. After a few months of living in Japan, I started to become prejudice against my fellow gaijin. Also, the media is always shining their spot light on "foreigner crime", highlighting the few isolated cases of it, and making out like it's going to end Japan as they know it.

As for the "Japanese Only places" which are mostly bars and pubs, well, I have actually been inside a "Japanese Only" bar. The reason they made it that way is because they had too many drunken butt-wipe foreigners getting rowdy, breaking things, harassing women and picking fights. So they ban them. It's not fair on the rest of the foreign population, and it's unethical, but I can completely see why the do it that way as it solves the problem instantly.

Also, there was a case of a foreigners being banned from an onsen, most likely because they had too many idiots in not following the onsen procedure. One angry gaijin decided to take them to court, dragging out a legal battle which I'm sure cost and arm and a leg, I think he even wrote a book about it. Thing is, if he had just made an appointment with the owner of the place, brought him a small gift, sat down and talked to him calmly about the situation and ask politely if he would be allowed in, he probably would have been. But he didn't, so he didn't.

Basically, if you go about solving your problems and issues in Japan the Japanese way, you should be fine. if you go about solving them the western way, you are going to find your self in more mess than you started with. True story.

At the end of the day, the Japanese are no more racist than any other race of people on the planet. There are just alot of stupid people and bad media giving us all a bad name. Thats basically what it boils down to.

Though the racially homogeneous Japanese have biases, the 'Japanese Only" exists in the city. I've seen bars in Tokyo that read "Japanese Only", so to say there isn't a xenophobia or just prejudice in urban areas, just because they cater to more foreigners, isn't accurate.
And in Japan, because ethnic Japanese is the majority with few minorities, they just are used to being in an all-Japanese environment, so seeing non-Japanese is a little different for them.