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SubHumanRemains

PostPosted: Mon Apr 16, 2007 4:29 pm


so a few months ago i met this girl, Robin. She sat next to me in Geometry you've all probably heard of her once on here from me.

Anyway as we got to know each other we started to really like each other (and in this town it's hard enough to find bi girls... it was amazing that we sat next to each other!)
so we had a little fling going on and she told me that i was probably the only girl she could ever see herself dating (she's more hetero)...
then about a week later she starts dating Mike.

well... she started hanging off of him... holding him, hugging him, kissing him... but when i asked her if they were dating she kind of just... mumbled her way out of the subject.

So they're dating.
you know it.
and he obviously is getting that impression so if you're not serious about a relationship with him i advise you tell him before it gets too much.
but no they are dating.
and they have been for maybe... 2 months now.

and they're going to prom together.

ANYWAY after they started dating she would still flirt with me... touch me and crap like that in class all the time and well.. i don't do that sort of s**t EVER when someone is in a relationship because i'm not going to provoke that sort of behavior or drama so i pushed her off and i eventually told her than i was uncomfortable with what she was doing (and she did it with a couple other guys in our class)

and she's just laugh and dance away and tooik nothing i said seriously.

it started pissing me off.

but i was really attached to her but i knew that i couldn't be her friend if she wasn't even going to take our friendship seriously.. she already totally ******** with my heard by confessing all her love to me and then going off with Mike.
so yesterday i wrote a blog on myspace about how i felt really bad about it and how i didn't feel comfortable with it and that i couldn't be her friend anymore (i didn't say names and it wasn't like to her... it was a rant about it mostly)

and i forgot that she had subscribed to my blog... so a few hours later she commented on it.

"Fine"

thats all she said.

so today i saw her and felt kinda crappy...

and then during lunch before 4th block i go into my 4th to drop off my stuff and on my desk

THREE bouquets... 2 of them are orange roses. my favorite colour.
and a box of my favorite cereal... cocoa krispies.

and a card basiucally confessing all her love...
but it didn't have her name but i know it's her because no one else would have a card that said what it said because... well... she's the only person i've had problems with.

but she hasn't said a word ot me

so she has a boyfriend... i don't really want to be friends with her anymore but i'm so damn forgiving to people..
she'd have to give a good arguement and actually work to get back into my good graces.

the card was really kind of nice tohugh. I'd post it on here butit's realllly long.
PostPosted: Sun Aug 19, 2007 6:18 pm


That sucks but is cute at the same time.

She needs to get her s**t together and realize she's head over heels for you. Until then play it cool. Make yourself hard to get.

Loki Iago

Anxious Scamp


Leavaros

PostPosted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 2:14 am


Umm.... I think you might be a little late Nutcracker....
-LD
PostPosted: Tue Aug 21, 2007 10:29 am


Its really sweet how she made it up to you, but there could be other things behind her dating Mike. Such as she would have problems at home or school if anyone saw you together in a loving relationship, and that she's just using her 'causal' boyfriend as a distraction.
Things like this happen alot.
Keep at it, stay friends, make sure to keep communication clear. See what happens.

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Yuuto_Kigai

PostPosted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 12:37 pm


Shmoo-Chan
Its really sweet how she made it up to you, but there could be other things behind her dating Mike. Such as she would have problems at home or school if anyone saw you together in a loving relationship, and that she's just using her 'causal' boyfriend as a distraction.
Things like this happen alot.
Keep at it, stay friends, make sure to keep communication clear. See what happens.

What ^ said! She could also be using him as a frock, and vice versa! It could just be a mutually beneficial agreement. Maybe you should just ask her in private. It's a little trying taking insults at every corner, so people tend to just play the image.
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