Samantha_Grey
He wants me to go to college to get an education, but he doesn't want to get an education himself. He'll get his GED, but he only wants to do that because I want him to get it. He doesn't care about himself enough to want to do all he can to ensure a secure future for our family. He has a job that if someone in management leaves, he'll make a good amount of money, but that is an if situation, and the place might lay him off if there is an economic recession (he works at a car lot). He doesn't understand that life, no matter how planned out it will be, has random events that could ruin everything in moments. I try to tell him this, but he just shrugs it off because I seem to be emotional. He gets jealous about Jordan, which he shouldn't. He also wants to do more things physically than is allowed in the Honor Code. I care about him, but a future with him is seeming less appealing as the days roll on.
All right. Another thing (I'm not even reading the other posts): if he doesn't want to really take care of himself, you can't expect him to want to take care of you -- physically, spiritually, mentally, and/or financially. Again, I know it's hard, but it's a serious situation. If you want to be in a safe place where you know you'll be taken care of for time and all eternally in all aspects, GET ANOTHER BOYFRIEND! (Haha N*SYNC referrence xd . . . okay, I'm over it.)
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