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 Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 11:45 am
I posted this topic in LI but only got two replies.
So now that I joined this guild,
I thought I'd re-post this here.
Ok.
My parents and my best friend's parents were friends before we were born.
We used to live in the same town but I moved a bit away.
(Yeah we still see each other all the time and talk and stuff)
About two and half years ago she introduced me to her friend from her school.
We met once and talked alot online for two years.
I told him practically everything.
It seemed like he felt that he could open up to me.
We talked about the girl he liked and his family.
He was mean to most of my friends and a bunch of people from his school.
But he was never mean to me.
Until one day about 5 months ago.
He started saying that we couldn't be friends anymore.
He said I didn't know anything about him and to stop acting like we were best friends.
He wouldn't tell me why.
Before I signed off line I asked him if this were good-bye for good.
He replied "whatever" and I said "bye... I'll miss you."
I've sticked to that.
The first month after the "incident" I tried to get him to talk it out.
He never replied to anything I said.
After that, I left him alone for four months.
I tried to forget about him, but he was always in the back of my mind.
The other day I IMed him for the first time since then.
He talked to me and we had nice conversation, like we used to before the "incident."
I brought it up but he shrugged it off.
It was still kind of awkward for me.
I think it was for him too.
But he talked to me again!
I'm not sure what's up with him.
Does he want to be friends again?
Or is he just being nice by talking to me again?
I still don't understand why he said those things at the time of the "incident".
My friend says I shouldn't try to talk to him again.
She says he was mean to me and I shouldn't forgive him.
But I can't help it, I missed him so much.
Should I forgive him?
I sort of already have...
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Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2006 1:53 pm
And everytime someone signs on or off or goes away or something I always look to see if it's him...
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 3:41 pm
And it hurts to think of him but I can't help it.
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Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2006 3:43 pm
If your going to forgive him or not is your choice... But all I have to say is that you should judge people by their actions, no matter how much you want them to be different.
If he acted like that towards you once, don't be suprized if it happens again in the future.
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Posted: Fri Nov 03, 2006 3:34 pm
maybe he had a really....... bad day... and put it out on you. s oim not really sure what you should do T.T
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Posted: Sun Nov 05, 2006 11:41 pm
If you miss him so much and want to still be friends with him, keep talking, but remember what he did to you before so if it happens again, dont be surprised.
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 12:18 pm
Everyone in this world likes to be on the receiving side of an apology. Tell him sincerely that you really, really apologize him for being so mean back then, and everything will come out just fine.
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 7:13 pm
Da_Nuke Everyone in this world likes to be on the receiving side of an apology. Tell him sincerely that you really, really apologize him for being so mean back then, and everything will come out just fine. I really don't see what I have to apologize for, though.
I wasn't mean :/ ...But somehow it still hurt to hear.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 9:58 pm
It's good that he's being nice again, but you can't let it go off and on, that hurts, I know.
You should talk to him about it.
Unless you're afraid it'll be awkward or he'll be an a** again, in which case don't. Because that could happen, and then you'll have just ruined a good spell that could've lasted longer...
I'm sorry to be negative, but it's reality, if you're willing to risk it talk to him, honesty is always better I guess.
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