Teachroom22
Gatta Forte
tenshikitsune
Gatta Forte

I can relate to that. My mother and I share the whole psychic thing (sorry for calling it a thing, I don't talk to many others because most people I know aren't quite ready to know) and my father had a new wife who gave Mom bad feelings. Recently, I actually checked in on her subconsciously and got a huge headache from bad energy. Unfortunately, we recently discovered that she is not entirely mentally healthy... and that kind of explained it.


Oh ick, GF... Mind-surfing in people who are less than stable or 'feel bad' is best attempted with a bit of, um, outside help? shall we call it?
I usually call an angel (any one you feel most comfortable with) to help me shield out the painful memories or bad emotions I might encounter. Yuo can do whatever feels best to you though, prayer, sheilding, spirit guide...whatever, really. Just try not to go it alone next time... You might get hurt if it turns out the person is really playing host/tess to something less than friendly.
Also, the mentally unbalanced are incredibly chaotic... The only reason I don't get headaches when I touch their minds is because of my ADD and the total lack of order in my own mind- I'm used to the insanity, so to speak.
To be honest, I didn't even want to mindsurf, much less go it alone. (I didn't really know that I could) and then, well, I prayed like hell for... a lot of things. It would have been easier if I weren't actually relaxed that night. Timing is everything... *mumbles*
A lot of times it is easiest to protect yourself and try to tune out on those around you. If however you get nasty feelings from some one ask for lots of light to surround you. The dark and nasty spirits don't like the light and will stay away from light. Send light to the dark and it will usually leave you alone.
Trust me... since then, I've worked a lot on getting rid of stuff like that. Dark stuff tends to leave me alone somewhat, I'm pretty quick with the white light-ing. Though Suzycat did have to help me once, I couldn't single-handedly shoo a particularly nasty... thing.