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Friends who STILL don't wear bras...

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PostPosted: Sat May 20, 2006 1:44 pm


OMG.So,that's what happens when you have younger friends .My friend Sarah,is about 11 or 12ish. Sarah,me,and a friend were out to lunch.Sarah was wearing this super see-through pink shirt,with NOTHING underneath.Lord,I almost lost my pizza. You could see every detail of her lady bits,it was basically like she was topless.Me and me friend Gaby,are thinking of saying something to her.Should we?I know she owns a bra,but she never wears it.Why? gonk I mean,damn!
PostPosted: Sun May 21, 2006 10:41 pm


In private, tell her she needs to wear a bra. 3nodding
Some girls just don't know when to truely start wearing one. >_<

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PostPosted: Sat May 27, 2006 4:18 pm


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In private, tell her she needs to wear a bra. 3nodding
Some girls just don't know when to truely start wearing one. >_<


Plus the added support from a bra worn most of the time will keep 'em nice and firm in your older years.
PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 12:06 pm


Ya. Tell the girl to wear a bra or if she doesn't want to wear a bra then at least wear a more suitable top.

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PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:16 pm


or do it the way i would. ask her what cup ahe is and when she asks why tell her your thinking of buying her a bra and forcin it on her cos she looks like a whore without one. it gets in their head better. my exgirlfriend had that problem, we didnt break up cos of that tho, i just found a boyfriend.
PostPosted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 1:13 pm


I've seen that with several girls I've known, younger ones usually either fall in love with their bras and want to show them off, or don't really wear them much. Just wait until you're in private and tell her that you think she should be wearing one, especially if she's going to wear a top like that.


pyropunksexqueen: ... Um, no. That has got to be one of the worst things you could possibly do in that type of situation. I'm not sure how much your girlfriend liked it, either. Whether it was the cause for breaking up or not.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 28, 2006 10:26 am


um yeah, tell her in private that you think it's time for her to start wearing a bra
(I didn't start wearing a bra until i was like 14 but that's cuz my mommy's a hippy and never got me any XD)
PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 1:57 pm


[ K y r i i ]
In private, tell her she needs to wear a bra. 3nodding
Some girls just don't know when to truely start wearing one. >_<

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PostPosted: Sun Jul 30, 2006 7:04 am


You should talk to her about it in private, or make a comment like "Don't you just love wearing bras?" But not as bad as my example comment.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 11:19 pm


Maybe she just hates wearing bras and doesn't feel the need to be modest about it either. However, as everyone else has been saying, do talk to her about it, but be discrete. Even just starting a conversation about bras involving your relationship to them and then turning the subject to her (ex: "I like wireless bras because they're more comfortable. What kind do you like?) might at least get things going. Or you could just be direct about it. OR be direct but kinda subtle; ex: That shirt you were wearing the other day at lunch was cute, but why didn't you wear a bra underneath?"

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 17, 2007 3:33 am


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She doesn't even have to wear a bra, she could just wear a 'crop top' or a 'trainer bra' or whatever you want to call them.
This means that you won't see her 'lady bits' through her tops and these are also a lot less expensive than proper bras.
PostPosted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 11:49 pm


if shes not ready for a bra
she could wear like a cami or spaghetti starp tank top under
that would help!

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 10, 2009 9:06 pm


yeah tell her in private. But just dont scream it at her or say it randomly. Bring it up through a conversation. I didnt start wearnig a bra untill I was 10 or 11 because I played a sport and we had to wear one. She may not like to wear one because its uncomfortable at first. Just tell her it will get better.

I know this girl who is 6 or 7 and she already wears a training bra. I know this because one day she was riding her bike and you could see it through her shirt. And she doesnt even need to wear one yet..I wonder if many kids are doing that...
PostPosted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 9:03 pm


Another thing you may want to tell her to keep in mind is that even though she does have a top on, something like that is still under the realm of indecent exposure if she's out in public.

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