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 Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 1:55 pm
Chuuuu~ heart There are no words to express all the sorrow and love and compassion I have for you right now, and all the hate and rage, and "WHY, ******** YOU, WHY!?" I feel for your mom. Bah. I'm just one of those people that's bad with words I suppose. But don't EVER let your mother stop your art. I draw the same type of art you do, and it is a wonderful release for me. If nothing else, keep drawing, but don't let her know.
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Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 3:52 pm
Duct-Tape-chan See, that's just it. She'll hate it if I stop art. It'll make her feel horrible, which will make me feel happier. Well then ONLY draw what she won't like.
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Posted: Mon May 01, 2006 12:28 pm
*hugs*
I really give you some major kudos for actually coming out to your mother.
I'd never come out to my parents, mostly for the fact that they are really...
erm...narrowminded ? & cruel about the whole 'homosexual' thing.
(although I am only 1/2 homosexual, so I wouldn't think it'd matter, but it'd still matter to them, so yeah...)
*hugs*
Hopefully everything works out with you ^^;;
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Posted: Tue May 02, 2006 8:09 pm
When my mother first found out that I was gay, she took away my computer, removed the hard drive and pounded it with a hammer right in front of my face. Then she removed every one of my posters cut and burned them. Burned all of my manga, and destroyed all of my DVDs.
So what did I do? I got a job, I earned money I pay her 100 dollars every month for my room and I bought me a new computer bought A LOT more anime, DVDs, posters, etc... and virtually told her to ******** off and die.
My mother and I do not get along, nor will we in the future. Her and I do not see eye to eye on this matter.
She has sent me to a counselor several times, and every time I refused to speak to the counselor and then refused to speak to my mother for weeks at a time. Every time she sends me, she wastes several thousand dollars.
One day in spite of my mother, I brought home a boy who was very special to me. I took him to my room and him and I talked and had fun and eventually had a very romantic evening. After this boy had left, my mother was furious for one having a life, and two for kissing the boy as he left.
That is when I did the final wrong to her. I quit singing, I quit writing. My mother had paid for voice lessons for me since I was eight. I had a talent that I refined. She had also sent me to college courses on writing. I quit writing anything other than school related work. I also quit participating in choir.
To this day, my mother still despises who I have grown to be, but now she accepts that she will not change me and gives me the freedom to be who I am.
So being stubborn does work. It honestly does.
What this tyrade was originally about, I'm not sure. I just want to say that I feel your pain and wish I could help you more, other than giving you small words of support.
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 1:58 pm
Draxe When my mother first found out that I was gay, she took away my computer, removed the hard drive and pounded it with a hammer right in front of my face. Then she removed every one of my posters cut and burned them. Burned all of my manga, and destroyed all of my DVDs. So what did I do? I got a job, I earned money I pay her 100 dollars every month for my room and I bought me a new computer bought A LOT more anime, DVDs, posters, etc... and virtually told her to ******** off and die. My mother and I do not get along, nor will we in the future. Her and I do not see eye to eye on this matter. She has sent me to a counselor several times, and every time I refused to speak to the counselor and then refused to speak to my mother for weeks at a time. Every time she sends me, she wastes several thousand dollars. One day in spite of my mother, I brought home a boy who was very special to me. I took him to my room and him and I talked and had fun and eventually had a very romantic evening. After this boy had left, my mother was furious for one having a life, and two for kissing the boy as he left. That is when I did the final wrong to her. I quit singing, I quit writing. My mother had paid for voice lessons for me since I was eight. I had a talent that I refined. She had also sent me to college courses on writing. I quit writing anything other than school related work. I also quit participating in choir. To this day, my mother still despises who I have grown to be, but now she accepts that she will not change me and gives me the freedom to be who I am. So being stubborn does work. It honestly does. What this tyrade was originally about, I'm not sure. I just want to say that I feel your pain and wish I could help you more, other than giving you small words of support.
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 1:59 pm
xSILENTxSCREAMINGx *hugs*
I really give you some major kudos for actually coming out to your mother.
I'd never come out to my parents, mostly for the fact that they are really...
erm...narrowminded ? & cruel about the whole 'homosexual' thing.
(although I am only 1/2 homosexual, so I wouldn't think it'd matter, but it'd still matter to them, so yeah...)
*hugs*
Hopefully everything works out with you ^^;;
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 2:03 pm
Er!n-Ch4n Chuuuu~ heart There are no words to express all the sorrow and love and compassion I have for you right now, and all the hate and rage, and " WHY, ******** YOU, WHY!?" I feel for your mom. Bah. I'm just one of those people that's bad with words I suppose. But don't EVER let your mother stop your art. I draw the same type of art you do, and it is a wonderful release for me. If nothing else, keep drawing, but don't let her know.
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Posted: Sat May 06, 2006 3:32 pm
Duct-Tape-chan Er!n-Ch4n Chuuuu~ heart There are no words to express all the sorrow and love and compassion I have for you right now, and all the hate and rage, and " WHY, ******** YOU, WHY!?" I feel for your mom. Bah. I'm just one of those people that's bad with words I suppose. But don't EVER let your mother stop your art. I draw the same type of art you do, and it is a wonderful release for me. If nothing else, keep drawing, but don't let her know. Yay for keeping up the fight!!! (glompes) xd heart
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Posted: Sun May 07, 2006 7:14 pm
Duct-Tape-chan Draxe When my mother first found out that I was gay, she took away my computer, removed the hard drive and pounded it with a hammer right in front of my face. Then she removed every one of my posters cut and burned them. Burned all of my manga, and destroyed all of my DVDs. So what did I do? I got a job, I earned money I pay her 100 dollars every month for my room and I bought me a new computer bought A LOT more anime, DVDs, posters, etc... and virtually told her to ******** off and die. My mother and I do not get along, nor will we in the future. Her and I do not see eye to eye on this matter. She has sent me to a counselor several times, and every time I refused to speak to the counselor and then refused to speak to my mother for weeks at a time. Every time she sends me, she wastes several thousand dollars. One day in spite of my mother, I brought home a boy who was very special to me. I took him to my room and him and I talked and had fun and eventually had a very romantic evening. After this boy had left, my mother was furious for one having a life, and two for kissing the boy as he left. That is when I did the final wrong to her. I quit singing, I quit writing. My mother had paid for voice lessons for me since I was eight. I had a talent that I refined. She had also sent me to college courses on writing. I quit writing anything other than school related work. I also quit participating in choir. To this day, my mother still despises who I have grown to be, but now she accepts that she will not change me and gives me the freedom to be who I am. So being stubborn does work. It honestly does. What this tyrade was originally about, I'm not sure. I just want to say that I feel your pain and wish I could help you more, other than giving you small words of support. Texas law doesn't recognize emancipations. But I've only got a year more left in this house, and then I'm free. My dad is buying me a car and then I'm out.
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Posted: Fri Aug 04, 2006 4:03 pm
I can't describe how sad I feel after I read about what has happened with you if this went into more detail I would burst in tears. It's almost like I can feel your pain. You have my sympathy and compasion. By the way you draw very beautifuly its sad your giving up to get your point through but I guess if you drew again your mom would say "see I was right you're not able to do such a thing as giving up drawing". I hope your situation gets better and if it helps argue with the councelour(sp?) and make him rethink all of the things he learned in college.
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Posted: Mon Aug 07, 2006 8:25 pm
Your not alone... my mom is doing the same... but she;s prepared to accept the worst should it erupt... but i know she's not.
It makes me angry how she sees me as some like of maileable doll she can mold... I'm a person, not a doll!
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Posted: Tue Aug 08, 2006 2:41 pm
Duct-Tape-chan Draxe When my mother first found out that I was gay, she took away my computer, removed the hard drive and pounded it with a hammer right in front of my face. Then she removed every one of my posters cut and burned them. Burned all of my manga, and destroyed all of my DVDs. So what did I do? I got a job, I earned money I pay her 100 dollars every month for my room and I bought me a new computer bought A LOT more anime, DVDs, posters, etc... and virtually told her to ******** off and die. My mother and I do not get along, nor will we in the future. Her and I do not see eye to eye on this matter. She has sent me to a counselor several times, and every time I refused to speak to the counselor and then refused to speak to my mother for weeks at a time. Every time she sends me, she wastes several thousand dollars. One day in spite of my mother, I brought home a boy who was very special to me. I took him to my room and him and I talked and had fun and eventually had a very romantic evening. After this boy had left, my mother was furious for one having a life, and two for kissing the boy as he left. That is when I did the final wrong to her. I quit singing, I quit writing. My mother had paid for voice lessons for me since I was eight. I had a talent that I refined. She had also sent me to college courses on writing. I quit writing anything other than school related work. I also quit participating in choir. To this day, my mother still despises who I have grown to be, but now she accepts that she will not change me and gives me the freedom to be who I am. So being stubborn does work. It honestly does. What this tyrade was originally about, I'm not sure. I just want to say that I feel your pain and wish I could help you more, other than giving you small words of support. |Love me|
I wanna b***h-slap both your moms. Give 'em a reality check. Thank...well...Thank whoever that my mom isn't so freaked out about my sexuality. If all else fails with getting the counselor of your back, give him the finger and tell him he's an a*****e.
|That's all I ask of you|
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