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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2016 8:38 pm

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Welcome to LOTUS SafeCall!

Whether it's a first date, a 'try again' date with an ex, or you are going out with new friends that you are wary of trusting just yet, a safe call is a great way to stay safe.

Fill out the form below to receive a SafeCall from a fellow LOTUS sister.
If you are accepting a SafeCall position, please quote the call request and say "Will Do!"

First Name/Nickname:
Phone Number: (you can write "PM Me" here if you are uncomfortable
Location of Date: (can also have this PMed if you request, but be specific)
Local Police Department:
Call Time(s):
Opening Question: (a good example would be: "So guess who Sam is dating now??" or "Guess what my brother bought me??"
"Fine" Answer: in the cases above: "Sam is dating Dana, right?" or "Did he get you the firefly dvd set?" Or it can be even simpler!
"Danger" Answer: Similar to above, the answer you give when things aren't right.

Here's an example.
Tester: *calls*
Dater: *picks up*
Tester: Hey Volly! I have some crazy news... You'll never guess what my folks got me for graduation!
Dater: Is it a car? (I'm Fine) Is it a laptop? (Please call for help)
Tester: Yes! Oh my gosh! it's so exciting!
Dater: I'll have to call you back later, I'm on a date!

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NOTE: The purpose of a safe call is to be answered. Please charge your phone before or send your safe caller a note saying your phone may die -- otherwise the caller is obligated to call the police for you after 3 tries.

Posted: Fri Jun 24, 2016 6:03 am

This is a good idea 3nodding

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Posted: Tue Jun 28, 2016 12:46 pm

=^____^= This is a really good idea to have on Gaia! heart

Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2016 5:56 pm

With my brain damage, I am very late to notice a person or situation has gone bad.
With my mom watching out for me I'm pretty good. But when I'm without her, I just....am the opposite.

Firstly, personal safety is probably my weakest link. I've been in MANY bad situations because of this. And it's why mom is my legal guardian.
Also because of this I'm almost not allowed to mingle or go out at all really(also I don't drive or pay).
I'm very extroverted and social...adore going out and meeting new people. BUUUUUT not all are the good ones. Some want to rape or steal or whatever. Annnnd I don't catch the ball in time.
I'm lured by a puppy in a van basically.
So....even if I do get a call like this, I will probably not even notice I'm in danger to say that I am.
So I'm sortof not even sure this call will help me out. But I suppose we can try it out and just see. I don't know. If it does, woo. If not, well, I found one more that doesn't do anything.
I'm just a target. People take advantage of me. They all know I can't do s**t about it.

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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 2:42 pm

Green_crayon42

With my brain damage, I am very late to notice a person or situation has gone bad.
With my mom watching out for me I'm pretty good. But when I'm without her, I just....am the opposite.

Firstly, personal safety is probably my weakest link. I've been in MANY bad situations because of this. And it's why mom is my legal guardian.
Also because of this I'm almost not allowed to mingle or go out at all really(also I don't drive or pay).
I'm very extroverted and social...adore going out and meeting new people. BUUUUUT not all are the good ones. Some want to rape or steal or whatever. Annnnd I don't catch the ball in time.
I'm lured by a puppy in a van basically.
So....even if I do get a call like this, I will probably not even notice I'm in danger to say that I am.
So I'm sortof not even sure this call will help me out. But I suppose we can try it out and just see. I don't know. If it does, woo. If not, well, I found one more that doesn't do anything.
I'm just a target. People take advantage of me. They all know I can't do s**t about it.

Well it would work in the worst case scenario.
-hugs-
It would be do much better if people were just nice

Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 2:53 pm

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Green_crayon42

With my brain damage, I am very late to notice a person or situation has gone bad.
With my mom watching out for me I'm pretty good. But when I'm without her, I just....am the opposite.

Firstly, personal safety is probably my weakest link. I've been in MANY bad situations because of this. And it's why mom is my legal guardian.
Also because of this I'm almost not allowed to mingle or go out at all really(also I don't drive or pay).
I'm very extroverted and social...adore going out and meeting new people. BUUUUUT not all are the good ones. Some want to rape or steal or whatever. Annnnd I don't catch the ball in time.
I'm lured by a puppy in a van basically.
So....even if I do get a call like this, I will probably not even notice I'm in danger to say that I am.
So I'm sortof not even sure this call will help me out. But I suppose we can try it out and just see. I don't know. If it does, woo. If not, well, I found one more that doesn't do anything.
I'm just a target. People take advantage of me. They all know I can't do s**t about it.

Well it would work in the worst case scenario.
-hugs-
It would be do much better if people were just nice

ideas of "nice" very by individual.-shrugs-

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Posted: Wed Aug 24, 2016 3:01 pm

Like 4-7 years ago, my friend and I had a 'danger' password. It was 'bicycle' or a drawing of a bike. She lived all the way across the country though, so I'm really unsure how she would help me anyway.

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