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Doc_Shoc

PostPosted: Sun Jun 19, 2005 9:07 pm


Aislinn_Callaghan
I'm the largest of my friends.

All of them are tall and weigh about 135.



they like to go shopping for me because they say I need more stylish clothing...

But the things they want me to wear are either not my size or excentuate the fact that I'm big.

.......So I get mad at them because I'm embarassed.......


My parents don't help my making me wear old lady clothing........they says it's my punishment for being big.

I'm tried losing weight but with my muscle mass and bone mass I'm never gonna get any smaller.

So should I be mad at my friends and should I be embarassed?







i say just accept yourself for how you will be and if your friends cant exept that you will be over weight, they are not truley friends.
PostPosted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 3:02 pm


well, we all know that loosing weight is a BIIIIIIIG problem ... at least to me and som of the other girls i know that are overweight ...

but, you have to do what i do ...

as hard as this may seem ... accept yourself for who you are ... and point out the good in you ...

be comfortable with yourself ...

find a clothing style that you like, and look good in ...

and, get friends that wont embarrass you ... exclaim heart

Bestet


dedhart

PostPosted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 8:27 pm


Aislinn_Callaghan
I'm the largest of my friends.

All of them are tall and weigh about 135.

So how much do you wiegh if you don't mind me asking?

Aislinn_Callaghan
they like to go shopping for me because they say I need more stylish clothing...

But the things they want me to wear are either not my size or excentuate the fact that I'm big.

Is that supposed to be a bad thing?

Aislinn_Callaghan
.......So I get mad at them because I'm embarassed.......


My parents don't help my making me wear old lady clothing........they says it's my punishment for being big.

Now that's just rude.

Aislinn_Callaghan
I'm tried losing weight but with my muscle mass and bone mass I'm never gonna get any smaller.

So should I be mad at my friends and should I be embarassed?
You shouldn't be embarassed. I think your friends are trying to help, if they think you look fine in the clothes they pick then you probably do. It's hard to undo years of negative critisism for your wieght and the negitive self image that goes with it. don't be afraid to just be yourself. Nothing wrong with just letting it all hang out every now and then.
PostPosted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 3:09 am


I guess being skinny, and as a guy of the male gender I don't really shop for clothes with friends, I have no such problem.

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