When a guy is very clear that he's interested in me, I have no idea how to react, what to feel or what to do.
Okay, so here's an update. That married guy from before...well, he's not really married anymore. He separated from his wife today, doesn't wear the wedding ring anymore, etc. Now he's dropping hints that something 'might' happen with us soon.
I don't know how to respond to that anymore. At first, I was like 'Nah, he's not going to leave her because of their kid' and now that he's in the process of a full divorce, things got a lot more complicated for me. There's a lot wrong I can think of about this. The big one, he has a kid. I'm not into dating dudes with kids, because I'm not cool with being a step mommy if s**t gets serious.
Another thing, I'm extremely ******** loyal to my best friend. I mean, yeah, I b***h and complain about him, but I still love him and part of me does still think he and I belong together. But at the same time, I'm tired of waiting for something that might not happen. I feel an opportunity like this, where someone that's openly interested in me comes around, might not happen again.
So yeah, never really thought I'd be in this situation before. I was hoping it would pass. Guess not. I'm pretty sure y'all are sick of hearing about my best friend, but he plays a major part of this as well as being a major part of my life.
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