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 Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 11:34 am
in return.
even though he knows how much i hate it, I do it for him anyway, and whenever I ask for oral he immediately says no and that he doesn't think he ever will try it because he "doesn't want it to taste bad."
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neutral
i'm about to stop giving him what he wants if he can't even try it out and see if he likes it or not
i'm so used to it being part of sex and i really enjoy it and ugh
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 1:11 pm
Fair is fair! Maybe offer to clean yourself immediately before he tries it?
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 5:46 pm
that is so selfish
my guy probably goes down on me more than i do on him, pretty much always before we have sex.
most guys i've dated are always super willing, tell rob to stop being a ********
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 7:23 pm
I probably wouldn't date him. Sexual incompatibility really puts a damper on things. Even if you stop giving him blowjobs, that's only going to make the situation worse and probably cause more fights.
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 8:30 pm
LeRaven that is so selfish
my guy probably goes down on me more than i do on him, pretty much always before we have sex.
most guys i've dated are always super willing, tell rob to stop being a ******** class="clear"> i'm so in love with you nicole
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 2:58 am
withhold, then if he ever asks for one be all like "******** maybe go down on me once in a while and I'll start doing them again. boo ******** hoo, you think it might taste bad? you think your sperm tastes like a ******** chocolate cake or something?"
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 4:09 am
I think the idea of 'withholding' sex is just going to breed resentment. And the idea that if he gives in and is like "ok i'll just go down on you because i want a bj" just seems a bit funny. I mean I know sex should be reciprocal and stuff but making it out like some sort of deal you're striking...I can't see that leading to very satisfying sex.
Really I think you're going to have to tell him that this is really important to you and you're not feeling satisfied because he's missing this out. And that you worry that this sexual incompatibility is really negatively impacting your relationship. Like rather than say "I'm not going to give you a bj unless you go down on me" in that strike a deal sort of way, make it more like "I really don't feel in the mood for sex because it's not very fun for me."
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 4:52 am
This guy sort of seems like a t**t.
We should hook up and 69, sup girl.
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 9:11 am
i agree with michelle and travis and felin even though you all said something different
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 12:39 pm
Smear hotsauce on your genitals and surprise rape his nose while he sleeps.
He'll get the message.
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 1:23 pm
Tie his a** up and sit on his face.
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 2:08 pm
Xiporah Tie his a** up and sit on his face. yesplz
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Posted: Tue Jun 05, 2012 5:11 pm
breedney i agree with michelle and travis and felin even though you all said something different my thing has more profanity than michelle's thing and thus, is the truest answer
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 10:03 am
LeRaven that is so selfish my guy probably goes down on me more than i do on him, pretty much always before we have sex. most guys i've dated are always super willing, tell rob to stop being a ********This. Actually I'm pretty sure we taste a lot better and it's much easier. How about asking him to open his mouth as wide as possible and seeing how long he can go before his jaw aches like crazy. Also, no gag reflex for him. He has it sweet.
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Posted: Sat Jul 14, 2012 2:23 pm
Streetlight Fights I probably wouldn't date him. Sexual incompatibility really puts a damper on things. Even if you stop giving him blowjobs, that's only going to make the situation worse and probably cause more fights. This is true! Also, can we all stop doing sex stuff we really don't like because our partners want it? I don't get it, this Rob chap KNOWS you're not a fan, knows you do it because you know he likes it, and won't reciprocate still. Can he not mentally see the parallels in this situation? Does he get off on seeing you do things you don't ******** like, or something? This Rob guy sounds like a huge hanging chad. neutral
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