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but... Amy, Hunter's mother didn't answer the door when the Sheriff showed up to serve her the documents saying she can't keep Hunter away from us, so he called us and said there was a white car outside, which belongs to Amy. He asked if he could get her work address, if possible, so he could serve her there (that would have been awesome), but unfortunately, we don't know where she works, if she even is. The Sheriff told us that for the next three days he is going to show up at 6AM to serve her until she answers, hahaha. He said he doesn't like people who play games like this.
Also he told us their dogs were inside, which they don't do when no one is home, considering they have a fenced back yard. And we informed him that her parents do live there and they get home around 2pm (he called us at about 1pm).

It makes me laugh that the Sheriff doesn't take this s**t, and he was totally cool.

Yeah, I was surprised he called us lol.

Don't mind at all, I quite enjoy bitching about it. xd

My husband has a 6-year-old son that he had with this crazy chick who he simply slept with after she told him she couldn't have kids and she was an easy lay, and blahblahblah (btw she was 27, my husband was 19 at this time). This, of course, was before we even met (we met and started dating when Hunter was 1), and during the whole pregnancy and stuff, my husband was in the military and she tried to get him to marry her (see? crazy).
So because my husband wanted nothing to do with her, she decided he wasn't allowed to see his son. I won't deny, however, that my husband was a d**k about it, however it was obvious to me from the beginning, before we even started dating that he cared for his son, because I remember him showing everyone we worked with (we met as coworkers) pictures of his son that he had gotten from her and saying how cute he is.

So, fast forward to my husband and I deciding to get married and after attempts to see his son in between in those 2 years we dated, we wanted to have him at our wedding. I had never met his son, and Amy wouldn't allow Stephen to let him meet me before our wedding date. Stephen did, however, about a week before get to have Hunter for a few hours and introduced us. Her excuse was that she didn't want Hunter to be freaked out meeting new people (dumb amirite?). We get married, and Hunter attends our wedding as our ring bearer. And soon after a situation gets set up where Hunter will visit us every other weekend. In between that time and now (just over 2 years) there were times where Hunter was prevented from seeing us because Amy got butthurt over dumb s**t, but we didn't handle matters legally, because we thought we couldn't afford it and things could just be worked out without that.
Well, we had him for the weekend of my birthday (February 26th), I am pregnant, Amy is asking us for more money for something dumb Hunter doesn't need and we can't afford it (not to mention 20% of what we make in a month goes to her for child support to begin with), and she gets all mad about that. This was a few days before my birthday. Then on my birthday, the day Hunter is scheduled to go home, Stephen asks her if anyone is picking him up, because her parents, who normally pick him up on their way home from church (their church is very close to our house and Stephen has to work from 3:45pm to 11:45pm so it's hard for him to get Hunter home when they are there and Amy is working), had not shown up yet and we didn't hear anything from anyone. She texts back saying they are on their way, and my husband responds with "there goes my nap" (again, he works odd hours so he needs to make sure he's well-rested). She then flips out and calls him an a**, he asks her how he is one, and she doesn't respond so he says "Exactly". She then goes "******** off I'm sick of your games" and Stephen tells her that he just would have liked a phone call to let us know what was going on because her parents are never late in picking Hunter up. She goes on this rant about how we don't even pay for half of Hunter's living expenses (we pay $300 a month and he is a young child who is potty trained, which we taught him after she failed at it, I don't know HOW that doesn't cover half) and that he "refuses to help more than he has to" which is ******** stupid, because we only refuse when we don't have the money, which she apparently doesn't get that we have to pay rent and other living expenses that wipe out our entire paychecks, not to mention we are actually paying MORE than we should for the amount we make in a month because we didn't know how to change that and it just wasn't a priority since we knew that it was for Hunter so, whatever.Oh, and we have given her money for things like Hunter's sports and school pictures before.
Stephen made the comment that she lives with her Mommy and Daddy (who take care of her and her kids despite Amy making more money than we do in a month as a nursing assistant, wtf).
So because of that, she says that we won't be seeing Hunter again and she blocks us on Facebook and changes her phone number (like we even want to talk to the stupid b***h). We, obviously tired of her being able to take Hunter away on a whim, get in contact with a low-income lawyer, and she helps us get this s**t taken care of, and while we still have to pay a bit of money, the cost is deferred for now, because we don't make a lot. We are just waiting for it all to be settled and all we asked for was to see Hunter during the times we had scheduled before and to get child support reduced (and it was calculated that we should only be paying $100 a month) because we just can't afford it, especially with another baby on the way.

We have the texts saved, by the way.

I know that's a lot, but, it's the whole story (with some crazy dumb s**t left out). She's a dumb c**t and I really can't believe how stupid she is.

She's 32 now. razz She was 27 when she got Stephen to be her sperm donor.

And yeah, she's an immature t**t. It's really ridiculous. Her oldest daughter she had when she was 16, and she is 15 right now if I'm not mistaken. Amy acts like she is her age. It is really sad.
And we really do try to be a part of Hunter's life, but it is so exhausting, especially having to deal with her. There have been times where we both just wanted to say "******** it" but we know that we can't do that.
But if she refuses or tries to prevent Hunter from seeing us after she is served (and after a one-time warning), she loses custody, so that's awesome. smile

Yeah really. Some people just don't learn, lol. But we don't want things to get that bad, but if it does, she'll have no one to blame but herself.

Thanks. smile