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 Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 8:23 pm
So my girl friend say were not really dating, but I belive that we are. I guess she dosent see it the way I do. sad It makes me upset though because I love her, and she dosent know. and it really makes me sad. Any ideas of what I should do?
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 10:04 pm
Do you know if she's gay?
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 10:10 pm
Let her go- you can't force someone to date you, no matter how you feel about them. Find someone else to spend your time with.
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Posted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 10:16 pm
I personally think it would be best to tell her exactly how you feel, be open and honest about it. However, you'll need to also hear and respect her feelings. You just can't say "I'm dating this person," without her acknowledging it as well. Doing so would make things very awkward between you two when the both of you are saying something completely different. It could even make her upset if you tell other people that you two are dating and are a couple when she doesn't see it that way.
If she doesn't returns your feelings then you'll have to accept and respect it. If she does then fantastic! Just don't force it.
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2011 2:22 am
Uh...your relationship with this girl sounds very one-sided. I suggest you find someone who actually loves you. Sorry, dear.
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2011 9:15 am
im gonna go against what everyone is sayin and try focusing on a friend-relationship for the moment. i love my best friend and we have bro-dates, but he doesnt consider thm dates when i do. it's not the end of the world if your friend doesnt love you the way you love them. Give it time and maybe you'll see she loves you too and consider your dates actual dates
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2011 11:42 pm
Sorry love, but you can't force someone to date you. If she doesn't see you as relationship material then you need to take a step back and take another look at your life. Be her friend if anything, and try being honest with her and telling her what you've told us. You can only hope that she can be honest in return.
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