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Questionable Shapeshifter
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 Posted: Fri Jul 15, 2011 6:51 am
BanefulBekkah vwytche BanefulBekkah My boyfriend and I built an altar together almost three months ago, and when I set it up for ritual and spell work alone, I feel a strong connection to it. But when I work with y boyfriend as a partner, or even with other people watching me, in rituals and spell work, I don't feel that connection anymore. Is that normal? I fear that if it's not, then I'll have troubles connecting to anything when I go into coven work. Can someone please help me? It might be that with others there you more concerned about there presence then the ritual itself and loosing your focus. Is your BF a practitioner, or just helping to appease you? When you say others are "watching" do you mean just watching or do you mean a group ritual? My boyfriend is a practitioner. He's the one who's kind of helped me along until now. And the others are watching, interested in the rituals, but not participating. It sounds to me like in a group setting you might be more concerned about getting everything right and not the ritual itself. The anxiety should alieviate some as you become more practiced and comfortable. Try taking some extra time to relax and focus before working with a parner.
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Posted: Fri Jul 15, 2011 10:37 am
vwytche BanefulBekkah vwytche BanefulBekkah My boyfriend and I built an altar together almost three months ago, and when I set it up for ritual and spell work alone, I feel a strong connection to it. But when I work with y boyfriend as a partner, or even with other people watching me, in rituals and spell work, I don't feel that connection anymore. Is that normal? I fear that if it's not, then I'll have troubles connecting to anything when I go into coven work. Can someone please help me? It might be that with others there you more concerned about there presence then the ritual itself and loosing your focus. Is your BF a practitioner, or just helping to appease you? When you say others are "watching" do you mean just watching or do you mean a group ritual? My boyfriend is a practitioner. He's the one who's kind of helped me along until now. And the others are watching, interested in the rituals, but not participating. It sounds to me like in a group setting you might be more concerned about getting everything right and not the ritual itself. The anxiety should alieviate some as you become more practiced and comfortable. Try taking some extra time to relax and focus before working with a parner. Alright, sounds good smile Thank you for your help
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