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 Posted: Sun Mar 06, 2011 10:45 pm
Ever think he might have ******** forgot it was there?
maybe he emptyed out his pocket so they wouldn't be all full or put it in a safer place and forgot about it.
cut out the note BS because that what weaklings do. Confront him, ask if he remembered the note. if he didn't then ask him right out front.
If he rejects you, ASK HARDER!!! and if that doesn't work, then you're wasting your time. go improve yourself and look for someone else.
Be pursuasive. make him think it was his idea to think about going out with you.
Or you could just walk up to him and say "We are now a couple in a relationsip. You have no say in this decision what-so-ever. You belong to me."
No more notes. Notes are for ten year olds.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 6:34 am
Don't ******** insult me in my own thread.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 10:08 am
It is her thread, she asked for advice, not insults.
Besides, she dosn't need him later on. >,>
He's all jerkish and stuff. mad
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 12:31 pm
funtime_laceration Or you could just walk up to him and say "We are now a couple in a relationsip. You have no say in this decision what-so-ever. You belong to me." Unless a person's into the whole submissive thing, that would probably come across as a really creepy thing to say. If a guy ever said that to me, he would kill any chance he had of being with me. Not to mention that if a teacher got wind of it, she could potentially get in trouble. Some schools are really trying to crack down on violence and other issues by investigating any hint of aggression or social issues. And they might call that "sexually aggressive behavior" or something. But I do agree with the no more notes thing. Notes can sometimes be good to get some things off your chest. But it's not good to rely on them too much. If you don't feel comfortable having a real conversation with a person, how could you possibly have a real relationship with them?
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 12:54 pm
Purple Flavered Neon So at lunch yesterday, I put a note in the pocket of the guy I have a crush on saying "I just wanted to let you know: I have a crush on you Dakota (his name). That's all I wanted to say. ~Riley". Today at lunch, he just walked up to me, smiling saying "Thanks for telling me" and walked away. Of course I hid my immediate sadness and smiled and said "Yeah (:" He's more of a quiet and shy guy. I don't think he's ever dated anyone either. Today was just awkward after that... What does this mean!? I'm not good with guy language >.> EDIT: So I gave him a note asking if he liked me back, and if he didn't that I understood, and I put my number into it... And he acted like nothing happened... He just ignored it and went on with the conversation, and when he walked away, I don't think he looked at it even though he knew it was there... Well, it sounds like you've made it perfectly clear to him that you're interested in him & would like to date him. You've done all you can; now it's his turn to do something. I know it's hard to just wait & see how something like this turns out with time, but unfortunately that's the only way you're going to be able to know for certain what sort of signals that guy was trying to send you, by waiting & seeing if he calls you or does anything to show that he's interested in you as well. I'd say give him a week at the VERY longest to do or say something to you about those notes you gave him. If after a week he still hasn't said anything to you, then just forget about him, & consider yourself lucky that you didn't end up in a relationship with him now that you know what kind of guy he really is. I mean, what kind of jackass would just say nothing & ignore the situation entirely? Trust me, you don't want to be with the kind of guy who acts like that; you deserve better.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 1:36 pm
Either he's quite dumb, or he just isn't interested. Like elyria says, just wait and see. It's all you can do. Although, if you can, try to talk to him. Try to rely less on the notes.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 2:20 pm
Purple Flavered Neon So at lunch yesterday, I put a note in the pocket of the guy I have a crush on saying "I just wanted to let you know: I have a crush on you Dakota (his name). That's all I wanted to say. ~Riley". Today at lunch, he just walked up to me, smiling saying "Thanks for telling me" and walked away. Of course I hid my immediate sadness and smiled and said "Yeah (:" He's more of a quiet and shy guy. I don't think he's ever dated anyone either. Today was just awkward after that... What does this mean!? I'm not good with guy language >.> EDIT: So I gave him a note asking if he liked me back, and if he didn't that I understood, and I put my number into it... And he acted like nothing happened... He just ignored it and went on with the conversation, and when he walked away, I don't think he looked at it even though he knew it was there...
If he tries avoiding the situation, press him on the issue--in a way that does NOT make you seem desperate--until he replies. If he escapes you, get over him; so if he comes back and says "I like you back," you can say confidently that he took too long and now he's lost his chance to go out with an awesome girl like you :3
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 3:23 pm
elyzia Purple Flavered Neon So at lunch yesterday, I put a note in the pocket of the guy I have a crush on saying "I just wanted to let you know: I have a crush on you Dakota (his name). That's all I wanted to say. ~Riley". Today at lunch, he just walked up to me, smiling saying "Thanks for telling me" and walked away. Of course I hid my immediate sadness and smiled and said "Yeah (:" He's more of a quiet and shy guy. I don't think he's ever dated anyone either. Today was just awkward after that... What does this mean!? I'm not good with guy language >.> EDIT: So I gave him a note asking if he liked me back, and if he didn't that I understood, and I put my number into it... And he acted like nothing happened... He just ignored it and went on with the conversation, and when he walked away, I don't think he looked at it even though he knew it was there... Well, it sounds like you've made it perfectly clear to him that you're interested in him & would like to date him. You've done all you can; now it's his turn to do something. I know it's hard to just wait & see how something like this turns out with time, but unfortunately that's the only way you're going to be able to know for certain what sort of signals that guy was trying to send you, by waiting & seeing if he calls you or does anything to show that he's interested in you as well. I'd say give him a week at the VERY longest to do or say something to you about those notes you gave him. If after a week he still hasn't said anything to you, then just forget about him, & consider yourself lucky that you didn't end up in a relationship with him now that you know what kind of guy he really is. I mean, what kind of jackass would just say nothing & ignore the situation entirely? Trust me, you don't want to be with the kind of guy who acts like that; you deserve better. Like today, he didn't say anything about it, but he started being more open. Like he told me he cried yesterday >.>
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2011 3:30 pm
ravenkitty776 Purple Flavered Neon So at lunch yesterday, I put a note in the pocket of the guy I have a crush on saying "I just wanted to let you know: I have a crush on you Dakota (his name). That's all I wanted to say. ~Riley". Today at lunch, he just walked up to me, smiling saying "Thanks for telling me" and walked away. Of course I hid my immediate sadness and smiled and said "Yeah (:" He's more of a quiet and shy guy. I don't think he's ever dated anyone either. Today was just awkward after that... What does this mean!? I'm not good with guy language >.> EDIT: So I gave him a note asking if he liked me back, and if he didn't that I understood, and I put my number into it... And he acted like nothing happened... He just ignored it and went on with the conversation, and when he walked away, I don't think he looked at it even though he knew it was there...
If he tries avoiding the situation, press him on the issue--in a way that does NOT make you seem desperate--until he replies. If he escapes you, get over him; so if he comes back and says "I like you back," you can say confidently that he took too long and now he's lost his chance to go out with an awesome girl like you :3 Haha yeah. I'ma wait a little and see (:
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Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2011 7:48 pm
Purple Flavered Neon So at lunch yesterday, I put a note in the pocket of the guy I have a crush on saying "I just wanted to let you know: I have a crush on you Dakota (his name). That's all I wanted to say. ~Riley". Today at lunch, he just walked up to me, smiling saying "Thanks for telling me" and walked away. Of course I hid my immediate sadness and smiled and said "Yeah (:" He's more of a quiet and shy guy. I don't think he's ever dated anyone either. Today was just awkward after that... What does this mean!? I'm not good with guy language >.> EDIT: So I gave him a note asking if he liked me back, and if he didn't that I understood, and I put my number into it... And he acted like nothing happened... He just ignored it and went on with the conversation, and when he walked away, I don't think he looked at it even though he knew it was there... It sounds to me like he likes you, but is just too shy. I wouldn't worry about the fact that he didn't read the second note. He probably just didn't want to read it where anyone could see him read it. Plus, if a shy guy DIDN'T like you back, then he probably wouldn't have made the "Thanks for telling me" comment. My advice is to talk to him, though. Not in front of everybody. You can call him, talk to him on the computer, but it's best in person. Just ask him how he feels. I don't think just asking him out is a good idea, being as, from my experience, when a relationship is rushed into like that, things get awkward. I feel it's better to know the person pretty well first. I'm just curious, but how old are you?
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2011 10:44 am
Wait, he was crying? Why didn't anyone ask about that...
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