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PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 7:51 pm


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Now he is saying he wants to kill himself so everything will be better, when that is the stupidest thing I had ever heard of. I've always had to convince him not to kill himself before, a few times in fact. And i've gotten to the point to where I wasnt to say "Do it! See if I care because I've had enough of trying to cinvince you to not do stupid things." but the problem with saying that to him is….


My mind hates him, when most of my heart hates him too, but theres a teensy bit left of my heart that still loves him. And I don't know what to do at all….

This.
His saying he wants to kill himself sounds like a selfish act of trying to get attention, I know because when I want attention I make it seem like I hate myself and would do whatever to make it right, which is simply to make the person feel bad for me.
I wouldn't buy into it, but if he actually does kill himself, one less suicidal fool in the world. ( Hate me if you want for that comment)

There is this one girl I know that I used to be with, we broke up but she still loves me, whenever we talk my heart sort of breaks because I know eventually I'm going to have to sever her love for me even though I no longer love her.
Basically I don't like to see anyone sad.

I'd say move on, if he's not faithful now he most likely never will be.

I completely agree with your comment on suicidal people. He's always been immature and attention wanting I have learned, and he always made me feel left out and confused….
So I am forgetting about him completely.
PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 7:54 pm


There is a good chance he just wants sympathy and attention. However, just to be safe it probably wouldn't hurt to contact his parents or call 911.

Other than that I would probably recommend totally ignoring both him and the other girl. I'd probably take them both off my friends list, block them if need be, and never talk to them again if I were you. Because I doubt you need that kind of drama in your life.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 12:05 pm


This happened to me recently... not the cheating part but the suicidal ex.

I dumped him, he came crawling back to me saying he was sorry and he'd do anything to make me happy, then the next day changed his mind and left me in the dust. Now he just runs whenever he sees me.

Just ignore him. He's a loser in the long run.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 9:24 pm


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This happened to me recently... not the cheating part but the suicidal ex.

I dumped him, he came crawling back to me saying he was sorry and he'd do anything to make me happy, then the next day changed his mind and left me in the dust. Now he just runs whenever he sees me.

Just ignore him. He's a loser in the long run.

Stab him in the p***s. mad

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 9:26 pm


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This happened to me recently... not the cheating part but the suicidal ex.

I dumped him, he came crawling back to me saying he was sorry and he'd do anything to make me happy, then the next day changed his mind and left me in the dust. Now he just runs whenever he sees me.

Just ignore him. He's a loser in the long run.

Stab him in the p***s. mad
I wish I could.
PostPosted: Sun Feb 13, 2011 9:34 pm


If he was suicidal then he probably would've done it already, probably without a word to anyone. A friend of mine -well, more of an acquaintance, I barely knew him- committed suicide in 6th grade because he was being bullied. He didn't seem to act any different before he did, so it was kind of devastating to those who really knew him and shocking to those who didn't.

Just watch out if he suddenly stops talking about committing suicide.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 1:57 pm


No means to be cruel, but I'd say call his bluff. I doubt anyone would kill themselves over a little thing like that, and if he does, he never deserved to live in the first place.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:07 pm


i have never had a boyfriend but i knew someone in my school not well but he commited suicide. One day he was playing dogde ball with us younger kids and then about 3 days later he did it and everyone was shocked. Just remember that everybody is a peice of a puzzle and if when gets lost the puzzle cant be finished.

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