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 Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 5:31 am
Yea, My boyfriend will be leaving with his parents and brother to Hong Kong next week. To see his family. It will probably be the last time he'll see his grandmother. And I couldn't come along because I have college. And I am dying to see his family. gonk
Thing is, on the 19th this month it's our 3th year anniversary. And he is gone that day. Also, when he gets back next month I'll be gone that day for my internship for a half year.
We have never been this far and long away from each other. Thank god I still have the cats tho to keep me company.
So, what do you guys do when you're all home alone?
I have no idea what to do when I'm all home alone, no one to talk to, or to hug with. . _ .
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:22 am
So you're not going to see him for 7 months basically? That is definitely sucky. My ex was in the air force and when he told me about his 6 month taskings I was a bit freaked out. But we talked every night on the computer. And he gave me one of his shirts each time he left. That way I had something that smelled like him and I would sleep with it when he was away. It might sound weird but it helped.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 7:23 am
I haven't seen my boyfriend since August other than on Skype. And I won't until maybe later this month if I get a chance to go to where he's gonna be doing additional training. He's in Germany right now, but his training is in Arizona.
If I don't see him then, I won't see him till he takes R&R in August. So it would be a full year since I saw him last. He was gone for our 1-year anniversary, and he'll be gone for our 2-year anniversary. And he's deploying to Afghanistan in February.
Just keep yourself busy.
And I hate to sound like a b****, but I always say this when people are upset about not seeing their significant others... It could be worse. He could be in the military, and you should be thankful that he's only gone for a month or whatever. You don't have to worry about him getting shot at in some third-world country.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 11:44 am
I know. It could be much worse.
I'm scared I'll feel lonely, and I have an important test the week he leaves. And I'm afraid I might fail it because I'll be somewhere else with my mind. . _ .
@ gabrielle; I know what you mean. We'll probably talk to each other a long by facebook when he's in Hong Kong. And over text messages and skype when I'm on internship.
I don't know, I think i'll clean the house daily to keep myself busy.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 12:19 pm
I know how you feel. My husband will be gone on the 25th to maybe July, if he doesnt have more training. He is in the Navy and will be missing alot. Our 2 year anniversary of being together, the birth of our son, and watching him grow. My advice is to keep busy.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:45 pm
xXGabriella-ShadowfireXx I know how you feel. My husband will be gone on the 25th to maybe July, if he doesnt have more training. He is in the Navy and will be missing alot. Our 2 year anniversary of being together, the birth of our son, and watching him grow. My advice is to keep busy. They aren't going to let him take maternity leave?
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:49 pm
Norse Princess xXGabriella-ShadowfireXx I know how you feel. My husband will be gone on the 25th to maybe July, if he doesnt have more training. He is in the Navy and will be missing alot. Our 2 year anniversary of being together, the birth of our son, and watching him grow. My advice is to keep busy. They aren't going to let him take maternity leave? It depends on what school he goes to and if he has any special training to do. =/
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 2:35 pm
xXGabriella-ShadowfireXx Norse Princess xXGabriella-ShadowfireXx I know how you feel. My husband will be gone on the 25th to maybe July, if he doesnt have more training. He is in the Navy and will be missing alot. Our 2 year anniversary of being together, the birth of our son, and watching him grow. My advice is to keep busy. They aren't going to let him take maternity leave? It depends on what school he goes to and if he has any special training to do. =/ That sucks. neutral
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 2:46 pm
Dianda Panda xXGabriella-ShadowfireXx Norse Princess xXGabriella-ShadowfireXx I know how you feel. My husband will be gone on the 25th to maybe July, if he doesnt have more training. He is in the Navy and will be missing alot. Our 2 year anniversary of being together, the birth of our son, and watching him grow. My advice is to keep busy. They aren't going to let him take maternity leave? It depends on what school he goes to and if he has any special training to do. =/ That sucks. neutral Yeah it does.
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 8:18 pm
My husband and I are in an international LDR and have been since 2007.
He was here from August - November, before that I hadnt seen him in a year confused
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 8:41 pm
Hong Kong eh?Maybe you guys could get webcams and skype???What do I do when I'm home alone.Of course cuddle with my PMSing cat until I have to take my enhailer.Take my dog Rylee for walks in the mud.
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Posted: Sat Jan 15, 2011 8:55 pm
I know when i was dating my ex, I stole a couple of his shirts, and had a large stuff animal he gave me for valentines day. It gave me something to cuddle with, and I could put his shirts on it and it would smell like him.... if it stopped smelling like him actually bought his deodorant and wore it once in a while (it is weird I know, but if i slept at his house and forgot mine/running late he would let me borrow his so i wouldn't smell all day...I would just smell like him/a guy)
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