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 Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 11:54 am
I told a girl that she's fat today. She's REALLY mean to me, and gave me the middle finger for no apparent reason last week. What do you think I should do?
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Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 12:10 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 12:20 pm
Responding to her negativity with an insult is not a good thing to do. She's really mean to you? I'd suggest reporting her to someone involved with the school. Don't make the mistake I made - don't be afraid to report someone who is making life difficult for you. (I'm assuming this is in a school setting).
Don't respond to her in anger by sinking to her level and insulting her in return. However, don't let her continue to treat you poorly, either.
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 10:11 pm
eek She isht not mishing!Apparently, reading announcements isn't my forte. sweatdrop anywho, yeah, basically what ablazed said. Don't sink to her level. Sure, those jerks at (I assume) school may be getting you down, but it's not much. They're just stupid and jealous of you. XD oh, and I would reccommend against reporting in. In my experiance, that only makes the teasing worse. Just keep on ignoring them and they go away. Eventually.
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Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 8:43 pm
Well, when you called her "fat," were you trying to insult her or were you trying to tell her she needed to lose weight but in a good way? Remember, think before you speak!
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Posted: Sat Feb 11, 2006 12:10 am
oh dear... never ever call a girl fat
I don't know if you meant it to be insulting... or you were trying to point out a weigh problem... but you NEVER should have used the word fat. There isn't a girl in the world who would respond positively to it.
anyways, there's not too much you can do. don't try to fight fire with fire by insulting her (or flipping the bird) Personally I think your best option is to apologize for calling her fat and don't mention what she did. You can't make her apologize, but chances are, if she even remembers it as significant, she will.
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Posted: Sun Feb 12, 2006 11:47 pm
You could apologize. That's an obvious one.
You CALLED SOMEONE FAT. It only makes sense to apologize.
She has every right to be a jerk to you. And it sucks for you, because as a Christian, you have to turn the other cheek.
Apologize sincerely.
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Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2006 5:46 pm
turn the other cheek. i can't believe you did that. sure, i think it when i see someone who looks like they could eat me, but i never say it to them...jeez. just cuz someone does somethign bad to you does NOT mean ou have the right to retaliate..its WRONG...bad...and other things.
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Posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 9:49 pm
My god!! That's like me going up to you and telling you, "Hey go to hell you God Da** Christan, burn and die for your religion." Someone may take that as a major insult, you probably hurt her really bad, apologize. I would have kicked your a**, flipped you off, and then kicked you for fun. No one has the right to judge anyone. Personally I think you got off lucky.
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 8:23 am
one thang you dont want to do is call some one fat, you said this person was being mean to you well by saying she was fat added more oil to the fire i would say go to an adult that is in your school or were ever this is happening and talk to them about it and dont keep feeding in to it dont make it worse ok smile
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Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 9:58 pm
I think you shouldnt do anything back to her. That would be Revenge, and thats not good. If she does anything else, try making peace with her.
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Posted: Sun Jun 11, 2006 10:04 pm
oi eek if u dont' want the girl to be mean to u, don't insult her, it just make things worse. try to be nicer even if she's mean, and maybe she'll start treating u nicer
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 12:46 am
pAnDy_LUV I told a girl that she's fat today. She's REALLY mean to me, and gave me the middle finger for no apparent reason last week. What do you think I should do? The best advice would be to forgive her.
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Posted: Wed Jul 26, 2006 8:50 am
i said some thing mean to a girl and dinit now i was saying any thing mean but after i said it it sounded rely mean and i dinit mean for that to happen so i said sorry but she still wont forgive me i think you should just say sorry and mabby she will forgive you
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