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Is it just me or are all the guys in New Jersey jerks? I mean..like none of them are nice to me. Not one..(Unless they are gay) So let me repharse that question. Is it just more or are all straight guys in New Jersey jerks? I mean they make fun of me in school, they tease me in the mall, they say cruel things at work. Some punk a** kid comes up to me and asks for nacho's at work. So I give him some. He then goes, "That's it? For someone as your size I thought I get more." I HATE MEN..I think I might go lesbain.. stressed gonk gonk gonk scream scream scream

Not all guys are jerks. Just sometimes you have to wait a while to find the right one. But then again, I don't live in New Jersey, and considering all the bad things the other 49 states say about it, it may possibly be different there.

I'm sorry to hear that the people in your area are complete assholes. Just keep reminding yourself that there are nice straight guys who will like you for you, even if they are hard to be found there, they are there. *hugs* Unfortunately I live in Michigan lol

Heh heh. Reminds me of the time I Ko'ed some pissant punk for trying to pick my pocket. Dumbass didn't know my wallet was on a chain.

Anyway Jackie, as your friend I will always be here to do what I can to help you when you're down. I've had issues with people like the ones your talking about. For example, one time me and my friend Mindy (who was my first girlfriend at the time) were in McDonald's to pick up some stuff for her, her brother, and her mom when the loose liped, slacked jawed, cashier made a comment about her weight and how much food she was buying. Had she not had been present at the time to calm me down, I probably would have torn off his face and folded it into a wallet so I could stuff it in my back pocket and sit on it. There are some cruel people in this world, Jac. There's nothing that anyone can do about it. However, Showing your confidence in yourself will most likely show them that they can't bring you down... and that's the sweetest revenge.

... Or you could just move up to New Hampshire where you almost never hear a nasty fat joke. lol Hell, My mom is in her forties, weighs close to 230 and she got hit on by a guy.

That's a myth. I live on the east coast, and from what I can tell, most people are very courtious and polite. Then again, I live in a smallish Massachusetts suburb (and rarely leave New England). Things may be different in New Jersey. They have one of the highest crime rates in the country, and are very densely populated. Still, it's more than a bit narrow minded to say all us easties are hostile. The west coast may be chic, and trendy (or am I stereotyping too?), but that does'nt make you guys nicer than anyone. Anyways, I read that, and just felt the need to say something, no hard feelings 3nodding .

Hmm..I wouldn't feel bad..but most guys I've met from New Jersey are kinda piggish...I was at a conference in Colorado for a business thing and some friends and i were running around meeting people from all the different places and we were handing out pixie-stixs...when we came upon some really skinny guys with some really skinny blonde headed barbie looking type girls (minus the boobs)...and I told my friends "woo lets go get some more exercise"..cuz there were like a billion stairs we were climbing..and the guy yells "yea you look like you need it"..come to find out they were from NJ..so don't feel bad....just tell em to screw off..one day it will come and bite them in the butt..its the beauty of life..everything turns in full circle...anywhot..theres my 2cents once again..

and nevada guys aren't much better wink